Flying-Emu said:
ryuutchi said:
A lot of so-called "Bad Boys" are not actually bad boys, IME. They end up looking like a jerk to guys like the ones on this thread who see that fact that they're getting rejected as a slur on the "bad boy"'s character.
And honestly, many, many women have developed a good sense for telling when someone is interested in them for sex, and a guy who's straightforward about it is a hell of a lot less annoying than someone who's passive aggressive. Maybe that bad boy is in it for sex-- maybe that's what the woman wants. In that case, why not choose the guy who is straight-forward and forthright about his attraction?
Maybe you're not nice because it will get you laid, but be damn sure that the wussy passive-aggressive shit turns people off. It doesn't preclude you ever getting laid, but it's still annoying as anything.
I didn't realize that being polite and caring was suddenly irritating to people. My mistake.
Oh, if you couldn't figure it out, that was sarcasm.
I didn't say being polite and caring was. You're a self-proclaimed "wuss". A "wuss", by definition, is not aggressive and is either a doormat or passive-aggressive. Sorry to say, neither is particularly attractive. Tangentially, being patronizing is not attractive either.
In case you couldn't tell, I now think you're a complete tool.