I think prison men don't necessarily get visited by partners, but more often by related women.
With that said, it is no surprise that the same people who are cold enough to go break the law attract women.
After all, it is those very types who have the confidence to seek out what they want. And women like confidence above all. It is the primary survival trait, and as I've said in other threads, there is a rational reflex in women, born from evolution, to go for dangerous men so long as they're confident on all levels.
Some women seek such men consciously, knowing it's a primitive sign of a good provider. Others won't admit that that's what they go out looking for, because they want to be the good little girl who has a good little boyfriend who their daddy likes, or because they think that such attraction is not natural (it is), or sinful, perverted (it isn't). And others still are depressed and hate themselves so much that they override the natural urge to go for the center of attention; the life of the party; the "winner", we might call him. They are the ones who "settle" for whoever they meet in their thirties, live with him, and hate every moment of the pre-sexless, tensionless, boring relationship because they often don't realise that's what's missing.
Now, with all of that said, you don't need to be "bad" to attract women. Someone pointed out Han Solo, and he is actually a perfect example; he isn't good or bad, he's very much neutral, yet he attracts women because when they say "I love you", what does he say?
"I know."
Think about it. There's more cleverness in that line than that it's just funny. It fulfills three general rules of male attraction:
1) It's confident, even cocky. Overstated confidence,
if sincere, stands out in a crowd even more without the added need to be loud, which on the other hand displays insecurity like a great filthy beacon to women.
2) It's intelligent. It implies that he already knew how she felt about him, which shows that he's gone to some effort to understand her, without making the situation awkward by overpowering the tension with sappy compliments.
3) It's funny. Now this is the twist that most of these "bad boys" don't get right. Comedy lightens the mood, keeps things fun, and even better, reduces awkwardness while spurring conversation. If you have ever spoken to anyone who loves to make a joke, you'll notice that either there's very few silences with them, or those silences aren't awkward. The reason for this is that a view to hilarity shows high morale, which doesn't allow the woman or indeed yourself to fear that anything in your surroundings is wrong or needs fixing (that fear is the source of awkwardness).
Over five pages, someone's probably already pointed out the irony of asking a bunch of gamers for how attraction works. Even the girls might have a wrong idea, since gamers in general regardless of gender are hardly socialites, especially not the type that have the time to come onto forums. With that said however, there was a good chance that over five pages, you'd get someone with a thorough understanding of the emotional mechanics of attraction.
That's me. That is all.
goatzilla8463 said:
I think I'm a prime example of a great boyfriend. I have a nice girlfriend and her parents don't mind me. Her siblings think I'm alright and I fit well into her group of friends. We listen to the same music and we have loads in common.
[HEADING=1]ARE YOU JEALOUS OR WHAT?[/HEADING]
Well, someone's looking for attention. I hope she doesn't notice that "little" insecurity of yours.
