Poll: Have you ever been hit on by members of the same/opposite sex?
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Yes, by both sexes. The most hilarious incident came as a result of my sudden determination to do something different one saturday so I resolved to see a play. There were two theater companies operating in the city, one a fairly traditional sort of thing and second that was wildly liberal tackling revisions of plays, difficult social commentary, and even the occasional full nude play (A Midsummer Night's Dream for example was performed entirely in the nude which made a strange story even more odd).
The play I went to see was Angels in America. I didn't know it at the time, but the plot of the play revolves around how different individuals deal with being gay. It was also held in a place entitled OUTstanding. The seemingly arbitrary capitalization didn't strike me immediately as being meaningful. I watched the play and was relatively unimpressed overall but before I left I started talking to a gentleman about my age. He was very pleasant but eventually he started making subtle passes at me. When I finally picked up on it I politely declined his offer. When asked why, I simply and very reasonably noted that I was not gay. This news came as a terrible shock to him.
Somewhat put off by the fact that he was shocked I wasn't gay, I gave the matter some thought and realized he had a decent point. I did go and watch a play about gay people struggling with being gay. This play was held in the building of an organization that supports gay rights and so forth. It was also located on the same stretch of road as the two notable gay drinking establishments. Considering how intensely homophobic the city in question is, the fact that I would choose to do such a thing by itself might imply I was gay.
Then I realized that my garb, chosen randomly from my closet that morning, was actually hilariously flamboyant and my girlfriend, originally scheduled to accompany me to the play, was held up at work.
Thus, I went to see a play about gay people being performed in an institution that aggressively promotes gay rights on the gay block of town all while dressed flamboyantly and not accompanied by my girlfriend. I suppose I understand why it could be assumed I was gay.
The play I went to see was Angels in America. I didn't know it at the time, but the plot of the play revolves around how different individuals deal with being gay. It was also held in a place entitled OUTstanding. The seemingly arbitrary capitalization didn't strike me immediately as being meaningful. I watched the play and was relatively unimpressed overall but before I left I started talking to a gentleman about my age. He was very pleasant but eventually he started making subtle passes at me. When I finally picked up on it I politely declined his offer. When asked why, I simply and very reasonably noted that I was not gay. This news came as a terrible shock to him.
Somewhat put off by the fact that he was shocked I wasn't gay, I gave the matter some thought and realized he had a decent point. I did go and watch a play about gay people struggling with being gay. This play was held in the building of an organization that supports gay rights and so forth. It was also located on the same stretch of road as the two notable gay drinking establishments. Considering how intensely homophobic the city in question is, the fact that I would choose to do such a thing by itself might imply I was gay.
Then I realized that my garb, chosen randomly from my closet that morning, was actually hilariously flamboyant and my girlfriend, originally scheduled to accompany me to the play, was held up at work.
Thus, I went to see a play about gay people being performed in an institution that aggressively promotes gay rights on the gay block of town all while dressed flamboyantly and not accompanied by my girlfriend. I suppose I understand why it could be assumed I was gay.
I get hit all the time, today one of my friends punched me... wait "hit on" ooooooh.(a synopses of my inner monologue before i read the description)
OT: no i dont get hit on, im the one doing the hitting, and im invisible enough that gay men dont hit on me.
OT: no i dont get hit on, im the one doing the hitting, and im invisible enough that gay men dont hit on me.
By both sexes actually, girls obviously -cause I'm a guy-.
But also by guys...it was gross and akward and a long time ago....
One day at school in hm 11th grade I think? Anyway i was coming to the lunch table, when I noticed my seat was taken so I began to pull up a chair at the opposite end of the gay guy, to sit by a friend, when he told me to sit by him...
It was akward and I didn't want to be rude so I sat but didn't eat and didn't talk, I'm a bit homophobic...and the guy creeped me out...
But also by guys...it was gross and akward and a long time ago....
One day at school in hm 11th grade I think? Anyway i was coming to the lunch table, when I noticed my seat was taken so I began to pull up a chair at the opposite end of the gay guy, to sit by a friend, when he told me to sit by him...
It was akward and I didn't want to be rude so I sat but didn't eat and didn't talk, I'm a bit homophobic...and the guy creeped me out...
Yeah by both... girls quite often I usually don't think about it until I get put in the friend zone than it's too late...<.<
The guy was sort of different... we were both at a party and I usually don't go to parties often. so anyway I'm sitting on the couch and he comes up to me while I was playing some videogames, kickin some ass in rock band, and we start talking we had a lot in common, like music, games ect.,than he was all like you wanna get outta here. me being the idiot that I am derp durp let's go... long story short he made a move on the way out of the building and I ended up walking 7 miles home...<.<
The guy was sort of different... we were both at a party and I usually don't go to parties often. so anyway I'm sitting on the couch and he comes up to me while I was playing some videogames, kickin some ass in rock band, and we start talking we had a lot in common, like music, games ect.,than he was all like you wanna get outta here. me being the idiot that I am derp durp let's go... long story short he made a move on the way out of the building and I ended up walking 7 miles home...<.<
I suppose if you count online, then yes.. but that I can remember it as actually being hit on, only once by a girl that wanted to dance with me one time at a pub crawl.
Yeah, both. Same sex more than once too. To be honest I don't mind, it's flattering whatever way you look at it.
As I am a almost frighteningly average looking, (but tall) highly antisocial, out of shape, (not fat. Just in desperate need of a jog) teenage male, I can count the times on one hand.
But the two most memorable times were in the SAME LOCATION within the timespan of a hour or two.
I was in a cafeteria. Not a school one mind you. I don't do public education. No, this was for a large multi-day event out of my state.
In the line, a group of girls turn to me and try to pull me into the conversation. Not a obvious flirt, but just borderline. I am friendly and talk.
Then, after I get seated, alongside the adults of my group, (I got a irrational dislike of my own agegroup, sue me) Another girl walks up and asks me what's on the menu. said menu was on a large sign twenty feet behind my table. I play it cool and recommend the French toast.
But the two most memorable times were in the SAME LOCATION within the timespan of a hour or two.
I was in a cafeteria. Not a school one mind you. I don't do public education. No, this was for a large multi-day event out of my state.
In the line, a group of girls turn to me and try to pull me into the conversation. Not a obvious flirt, but just borderline. I am friendly and talk.
Then, after I get seated, alongside the adults of my group, (I got a irrational dislike of my own agegroup, sue me) Another girl walks up and asks me what's on the menu. said menu was on a large sign twenty feet behind my table. I play it cool and recommend the French toast.
I love being stuck between bi-sexual and lesbian.
You can still flirt with the guys, who will flirt back, and still flirt with the girls, where some won't get it and others will immediately be like OMGANOTHERGAYGIRL!
You can still flirt with the guys, who will flirt back, and still flirt with the girls, where some won't get it and others will immediately be like OMGANOTHERGAYGIRL!
I'm a chick. Guys never ever hit on me, but women can't get enough of me. Which is troublesome, as I'm mostly heterosexual. XD I don't know what makes me repel dudes but attract women.
