Poll: Have you ever engaged in casual sex?

[Cowabungaa]

I have not engaged in any type of sex, let alone that of a casual nature.

Regardless, I don't think I ever will engage in casual sex. It's a very close thing to me, one that requires a lot of trust and bonding beforehand (something I still haven't had, hence no sex yet either). You don't really get that in one date.

Your Avatar shows the pent up tension. ;-)

*sigh* Yes I admit, the loneliness gets very frustrating at times. Sex I can wait for, but what I wouldn't do to just feel the warmth of a girl whom I love and, very important, who loves me back.

Cuddling, kissing, hugging, all the intimate things outside sex is what I really miss. Sex itself, honestly I don't think I'm ready for that yet.

 

[warm slurm]

Yes. I've "experimented" with guy friends before. It was pretty good.

 

[Andrew Bohan]

Twice. Didn't really enjoy either. Once I was on the rebound. Second time, drunk as hell and barely knew the girl.

We all cave now and then but I prefer sex with attachment so far. Who knows. Maybe all I need is one night with the right piece of meat.

Edit: That sounded waaaaaaaay more chauvinistic than intended. What I was aiming for was maybe the whole casual thing could be for me, with no real attachment, with the right person to fuck. That sounds mildly better.

 

[farscythe]

i have.. n she now hates me for getting a gf.
thinking casual has many meanings :S

 

[teisjm]

Casual sex is for casual gamer n00bs, i only practive 1337 hardcore Bwning like a true gamer should.

On a more serious note, yes, i really can't see a problem with it.

 

[Eclectic Dreck]

Yes. On many occasions. I am better at getting laid than acquiring a girlfriend by a fair stretch. I wouldn't recommend it - in the end casual sex is only slightly more satisfying than masturbation and quite a bit more difficult to come by.

 

[thylasos]

One night stand, the once, aye.

I tend not to do that sort of thing, not for any moral reason, it's just not for me, really.

 

[LittleWench1629]

I never had casual sex. My first time was with the guy i'm now married to.

 

[ramboondiea]

yeah im a casual sexer ha. the only reason being im a bit tired of relationships, i have a lot of close women friends so i still get a lot of the relationshippy things. so the sex is usual through one night stands, casual fuck buddies and occasionally out of boredom ha

 

[superbatranger]

I would love if it if there was a "I'm a virgin, so I can't say I ever would or wouldn't engage in such an act"

 

[JanatUrlich]

Yeah coz I don't really enjoy being in a relationship

 

[Not-here-anymore]

No, not yet. Not a fan of the whole one night stand thing, but not inherently against the idea of 'fuck-buddies'.

Although I guess I haven't had 'formal sex' yet either, so I'll try that first.

 

[TheDarkestDerp]

Yep yep.

 

[AngloDoom]

I did, for a while. Fuck-buddies and all that. Then when I got into a relationship afterwards and I realised I wanted to make sex special again - I wanted it to be rarer and mean something more.

I don't look down on people who do casual sex at all - I just know that whenever I engage in sex with someone I love I want it to mean a lot. It kind of detracts from the point if I give any old woman who walks across my sight-line the same treatment.