grimsprice said:
No, grab her by the throat and just hold her there. Most women couldn't do a thing about it. And its fittingly derogatory and demeaning. Trust me, i've done it.
Shocking.
It's NOT okay for anyone to hit anyone (in a perfect world), and I think that if a man can't take a hit from a girl without lashing back, then he's got the problem. If a girl starts hitting him SERIOUSLY, then he can defend himself or hold her down, as long as it's reasonable.
CHOKING? No. To anyone who may think that choking/restraining by holding the neck is LESS VIOLENT than straight-out hitting her, you've got that seriously backwards.