Poll: How do you run your Sex Life?

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Con Carne

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On the chance that I'd go home with a random lady, I'd aim for "breakfast" if it builds to something more cool. If she tells me to go, or if something goes awkward so I have to ask her to leave, then that's cool too.
 

AgentNein

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Another side note, I will NEVER understand the mentality that if a girl is okay with casual sexual encounters that she is somehow not relationship material. I've had quite a few casual encounters in the past blossom into real relationships, long term kinda stuff. And not once did trust become an issue, nor was there ever an issue with cheating.
 

Vern5

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DefinitelyPsychotic said:
In Soviet Russia, your sex life runs YOU!
Sorry, I couldn't resist...

OT: I've done number 4. Worked out well! :)
Break out the vodka, comrade!
 

Verlander

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Difficult for me, was in a poly relationship for a long time, and am part of a great fetish scene in London. Therefore, loads of promiscuous sex, any way possible. However, I find I take on partners quite a lot, and very rarely just one night things (group sex doesn't count, as generally I'll have a play partner involved as well).

If you like to keep sex in a relationship, that's cool, however it works best for you, right? Just don't try and preach to those who have a different way of doing things, yeah? ;)
 

Vern5

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manythings said:
I don't go home with anyone. Why is it only "wimp out"? Is the only grown up option to just fuck, in your opinion?

OT: I hate the pub/club/bar scene, it's impossible to get to know a person in a loud, dark pit filled with people shoving past you whie you have to scream at them just to have a vacuous five minute conversation that takes about an hour.
So... you chose option 5?
 

Furrama

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I waited till I got married. I'm kinda glad too, that first time is awkward and weird and if I hadn't been completely committed it would have been far more embarrassing. For me anyway.
 
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Sex is in my life an intimate experience between me and the person I love. That's how it stays. If I want entertainment, I watch a stand up or play a game.

Problem, fratboys?
 
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Depending on the person. I am either one or two.

1) oh god what did I do (runs away possibly forgetting clothes

2) hmm its morning and I'm hungry "you got any food and do you wanna do it again" (also with 2 I attempt to incorporate the food into the sex)
 

Loop Stricken

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I have no idea. If I like a girl I tend to be far too terrified to speak to her.

 

Colour Scientist

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I've only ever had one intended one-night stand and we're still together almost a year later, so I suppose the hook up again later one.

My one attempt at once-off sex kinda failed but I'm not complaining.
 

thedeathscythe

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I'm more of a relationship kind of guy. That being said, I slept with a girl on our third date, so it's not like I'm sheltered, but I am also not that outgoing, if that makes sense? I won't sleep with random people, but I certainly don't avoid it, I just prefer it in a relationship is all.
 

ZtH

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Number 3 seems the best to me. You don't cut off the possibility of something more meaningful arising from this while at the same time enjoying the type of evening only intense passion can provide. No need to limit yourself on either side in this case, though if the girl seemed to be really cool I would probably shoot for the number and leave sex to later.
 
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Used to be the 'hit it and quit it type' though more because the women I was sleeping with would be leaving me before morning (I had a complicated adolescance)

Nowadays I'm in a relationship currently, and I've been in others, and I much prefer it. For one thing, I actually find that it gets better the more you know someone, because you both learn what exactly pushes the other's buttons, instead of just having a set of generic moves which seem to get a moderate reaction out of every girl/boy.
 

Daggedawg

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Since I am in a relationship, and think sex should stay in a relationship, the answer is obvious: I put on my robe and wizard hat and cast a level 30 lightning spell that turns the woman in question into a fine red mist.

Or I just don't go with her home.