Poll: How do you run your Sex Life?

[game-lover]

Well, for the real life virgins here--aka me, the last option is really the most apt...

But if I weren't a virgin, option 4 is likely my best bet. I have never understood and have yet to understand that whole casual sex thing.

Each option above that just makes me more and more... lost. That's all there is to it.

 

[MarsProbe]

I can't run something that doesn't exist..

Like that startup that I never got round to well, starting up.

I can't say I've ever been asked about my "sex life" before, until now at least. Not a concept one is really aware of.

 

[xanith02100]

I find casual sex meaningless. If I just want to get off, I can do that more effectively myself. Nah, sex stays in relationships for me. Having that connection with someone is what makes it good.

 

[StBishop]

All replies assume I'm single at the time.
2 options,
1. It wasn't good/she wasn't hot [footnote](let's be honest if we're having completely unattached sex with people we just met, their personality is probably an unknown entity.)[/footnote]; run ASAP[footnote]this may be the next morning, it may be when she falls asleep, it may be as soon as she blinks, who knows[/footnote] and pretend it never happened.
2. It was good/she was hot; Get number, repeat on another night.

 

[winginson]

Honestly if I'm having sex with a girl I just met then I would definatly go for number 3 as she is obviously into casual sex and isn't to serious about things. Then it'll be one night of goodness, become multiple nights of goodness or grow into a fun not-so-serious relationship (with many nights of goodness). This works well as I have no capability to deal with serious romantic entanglement and masturbation is like trying to tickle myself.

 

[PayneTrayne]

Sex in relationships is the goal.

Although at this moment I run it with an iron fist.....my left one specifically. Bazinga.

 

[Spark Ignition]

option 6. Fuck buddies.

 

[similar.squirrel]

Seeing as I have only had sexual encounters over the course of one long-term relationship, none of these really apply. But the 'occasional sex with no overt commitment' method sounds like the best option at the moment.

 

[Vern5]

option 6. Fuck buddies.

That falls under option 3.

 

[shinigamisparda]

Call me old fashioned, but I don't even consider sex until after a solid relationship had been established. Doesn't mean I'm saving myself for marriage, though. Also, making out is fair game under any situation.

 

[PureChaos]

i'd go for the rematch. if things go well, why waste a good thing?

 

[Sandytimeman]

I rule my love life, with an IRON FIST. HA

Actually more like number 3. Though, I have ALOT of trouble dealing with women outside of mutually agreed upon boundaries. This may be because I'm a geek or because of my mild aspergers.

 

[ScoopMeister]

1) Hit it and Quit it. You immediately leave, even if you are still a little moist.

I like your wording.

 

[v3n0mat3]

I actually do both "Want to hook up later?" and "Sex stays in relationships." I used to keep sex within a relationship, but now that I'm single, I will do the former.

Silly response:

Like a poker game, I keep a good hand.

 

[mightylittleone]

I don't go home with anyone. Why is it only "wimp out"? Is the only grown up option to just fuck, in your opinion?

OT: I hate the pub/club/bar scene, it's impossible to get to know a person in a loud, dark pit filled with people shoving past you whie you have to scream at them just to have a vacuous five minute conversation that takes about an hour.

I agree. Going around and fucking everyone you meet at a party/club is immature in my opinion. At least when a girl does it, it does not give her a great reputation...as for men...I'd still think he's an undateable dick. And you don't have to be a virgin to "wimp out". The term "wimp out" makes it sound bad to refuse sex, even if it is because maybe you have feelings for someone, or take more pride in your body and don't let it get tossed around like a wet, crusty rag.

Relationships are better, and worth it, in the end.

 

[krychek57]

Where is the "Married and she has a headache" option?

 

[b1u3too]

I'm of the opinion that sex is an expression of love. Busted, I'm a chick.

That said, I got into the dating scene when I started university, and shied away. The relationship I'm in now, as a result, is the product of my man not wanting to let me just walk on by. I don't try for relationships or sex, but it has to feel right, and so I believe a relationship is the only proper context.

That said, I would never hook up with someone at a bar, and yes, my man made me breakfast this morning before going back to his house to play LoL. <3

 

[natster43]

My sex life is like a job. As in I don't have one.

 

[Spark Ignition]

option 6. Fuck buddies.

That falls under option 3.

Not the way you defined it. This isnt a random hookup, the girl I'm "with" at the moment, we were friends before and we're still friends, and we have an implicit agreement between us. She's not a booty call. I dont just phone her and chance my luck when I get bored.

Let's say 'friends with benefits?' literally. It's like a relationship but without all that awkward emotional stuff.