Poll: How do you run your Sex Life?
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If you were going to pick option 4 then pick option 4. No judgments are necessary here.mightylittleone said:
The reason I put "wimp out" is because this poll is based on the intent of sexual intercourse. The scenario is designed so that, if you were in the example situation, you would also be inclined to want sex. That's not to say that you, in real life, are always inclined to want sex but it is implied in the scenario I described.
So, if you go into a situation planning to have sex but are stopped by personal anxiety I call that wimping out (a fear-based response that leads to physically retreating, which can be both good or bad). If you didn't plan to have sex to begin with, you wouldn't even be in the scenario I detailed and I would call that caution/forethought/lack of interest.
Since no girl expressed any interest in me until I met my current girlfriend (and strangely, since then a whole bunch of them have shown some degree of interest) I've only done option 4. Its a good option all the same.
I don't think I can ascribe to one set pattern. Women are not carbon copies or, in fact, predictable. If I can be crazy, random, and most spontaneous, then so can they. And for that notion, I say that the only pattern to hold to is to wait and see and figure it out from there.
I run my sex life with unpredictability. So it differs a lot. I am confident enough to ask anyone: "Was it good, or was it REALLY good?"
I'd probably glare at them as soon as they started talking to me until they left.
Then I'd wonder what the fuck I was doing at a party when there is perfectly good alcohol at home.
Then I'd wonder what the fuck I was doing at a party when there is perfectly good alcohol at home.
I treat sex like extreme sports and accidents, it happens to other people, and i try to avoid it.
Recently i saw a girl at a party and she reacted/behaved in ways very similar to me, so i won't do anything because it means she's about as much a social awkward person as i am.
Recently i saw a girl at a party and she reacted/behaved in ways very similar to me, so i won't do anything because it means she's about as much a social awkward person as i am.
Since i'm still a virgin, I want the first time I have sex to be with someone i'm dating, but if I weren't a virgin i'd probably do the third option
Urm none of these tbh. Been in a relationship for 5 years and sex isn't really that important after that long. Before hand I'd only ever had one one-night-stand. Any other sexual partners I had I was in love with. One night stands seriously suck. It's rubbish, just doesn't mean anything to me unless the person does.
Not gonna pretend that I ever had a girlfriend, or sex. It is the internet, but lying still feel kinda pathetic. So I guess if I woke up in a different place, in a different time, as a different person, who was also considerably more handsome, and got lucky enough to get into said scenario... I guess I'd have sex and then leave. No hard feelings.
none of hte options... I would try to stay for breakfast and get a number at least but I havent gotten the chance.
Why is "into the ground" not an option? I balls it up every time with awkwardness and an unwillingness to go to shitty clubs. And the only 3 women I know who don't go to shitty clubs are asexual and not the least bit interested in relationships. God, being a university student sucks sometimes.