Poll: How do you see virgins?

[Nenad]

I view them as me. Because I am one.

Ninja'd, I wanted to say that <.<

 

[Cavan]

B) in that around 15-18 age group in which it's still considered socially acceptable to still be a virgin in Britain, in which case, I suggest they hurry. If they don't do it before 18, they never will, as there are very few who would ever go for a relationship with a virgin after that.

C) like me, were just too damn ugly to do it before 18. In which case, they're possible allies. As that fish dude said in Hellboy, "us freaks have to stick together, he'll if we don't, the "normal", 90% psychotic towards abominations like me majority of society might just kill us all.

Especially point B is utter BS, you'll upset people for no reason if you say crap like that..there's nothing about being a virgin that makes you unapproachable for relationships in any way.

Do you live in Britain? If not I can see why you believe that. If you do live here, then haven't you noticed how everythings went to hell? "normal" people round here lose their damn virginity before they've even figured out algebra. If you don't then you're a freak, their words not mine, join the club.

I ain't trying to upset people, matter of fact, im trying to protect people. Imagine a freak like me asking a "normal" girl out, normal people kill for less important reasons. You either learn their rules and you might just stand a chance of changing things, or you die. I tried several times before I learned that.

Yes I do this reeks of bullshit on toast, I could say "I can't get any therefore this imaginary rule exists" but I won't, just sayin. There are good women even in Scotland of all places you should have no problem in bloody England maybe if you stop looking for "girls" and find a woman.

I agree with you, I am English born and raised and him placing arbitrary rules on values and society based on a few crappy people he sees on the street is just twisted, there's nothing wrong with them or you but acting like it makes you less in some way is outright stupid.

People understand what inexperience is like, and his sex life is going to come up in conversation a hell of a lot later into getting to know anybody that they shouldn't immediately dismiss you.

He should try not to wear it like a sign that reads "i'm a freak", and look for better people.

 

[k-ossuburb]

They're people, I'm not exactly sure why sex is such a big deal. My first time sucked and every subsequent time it's only really been just for fun. I mentioned this in another post that it's not a massive deal and isn't the be-all-and-end-all of relationships, it's just one way you can show affection but it's not really the most affective. I find that a good cuddle or a long conversation are far more effective than an hour's romp in the bedroom (or where ever else).

There's a hell of a lot more you can do with your life than pursue intercourse, I'm not saying you shouldn't try, just don't make it seem like it's such a big deal.

 

[Doug]

I was a virgin up until recently - they'll generally get some eventually, provided they don't vow to never lose their virginities (i.e. nuns, catholic priests, monks, etc). Although there will be some who are naturally so strange that they'll never get any, though it may not bother them.

NB: If you are reading this and think your one of them, you almost certainly ain't.

 

[Rickyvantof]

That is 100% dependent on what age they are. 21+ is kinda sad.

 

[Shuswah_Noir]

Innocence and age have very little to do with it, in my opinion.
I've know people who were 14 and virgins, and there was nothing innocent about them. And people who were 20 and virgins and quite innocent.
It's a matter of surroundings and choice to a great degree. Some people and bought up sheltered, and some, well, not so much.

 

[CrashBang]

I know a few people my age who are virgins (age: 20/21) and they seem to struggle, socially, more than others. I do think that having sex in your late teens is important to help develop good relationships as well as personal confidence

 

[No_Remainders]

Usually with my eyes. You never know though. You never know...

Why is it that when I saw the title of the thread, I thought literally the exact same thing?

OT: Shrug. I couldn't give a flying shite about whether someone's a virgin or not.

 

[Iwana Humpalot]

Virgin by choice or nerds? Theres a big difference between the two.
The former? Good for them but they don't know what they're missing.
The latter? I pity you. (and they still don't know what they're missing).

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And this comes to the virgins age too. If you are 18 years old it's not a big deal. But if you are 40 years old i think you have a problem.

 

[standokan]

It doesn't really say anything until you reach a certain age, I just see them as socially aqward (awqard? akwaurd?)people, it doesn't make you less of a person, I am a virgin myself, but still young so maybe not the perfect example.

 

[smeghead25]

I am, and unlike a lot of people I'm not embarassed to admit it if someone asks. I will have sex one day, but I don't particularly care when. I'm more interested in getting a girlfriend I like than getting laid. Good luck to all of you who care though

 

[TheGuiggleMonster]

If I met someone in their forties and all I knew beforehand was that they are a virgin, I would assume they're too pathetic to get any. However, all the people I know in person as being virgins are young enough for it to be normal, so I would assume that they will eventully get some.

 

[tzimize]

While I dont look down upon virgins, I still feel that having sex is a pretty great experience. Great as in not only good but big. While it is perfectly fine to live without having sex, it can teach you a lot about yourself and others. And as such, non-virgins bring something to the table that virgins do not.

 

[Flare Phoenix]

I view them by looking in the mirror.

 

[Ildecia]

I view them as someone who has not had sex. Their reason is their own, I'm not going to judge them one way or another.

this. and seeing as i am one, it doesn't really matter.

 

[TheSnesDuckling]

I don't think of people as such. Being a virgin is not what makes someone who they are. And yes, this is coming from a virgin.

 

[sam13lfc]

I see virgins as someone whom has not had sexual intercourse.

Nothing else.

This really.