Poll: How do you see virgins?

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jowo96

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The great thing about virginity is that you will always win in a game of "I have never..."(assuming winning is being sober) And you get to clearly remember what people said too!

The only bad thing about being a virgin is the pretentious asshats who pity you for it.
 

Grigori361

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SilentCom said:
So, it is likely that many here are virgins and many are not. The question isn't whether or not you ever had sex but rather how do you view someone who is a virgin? The type of person isn't in question because they are how you would image a virgin to be, whatever that might be. This thread is not meant to bash on virgins (I am one myself) but is analyze people's perspectives on sex.

To make this a little easier, I've included a poll.
How do I view Virgins? A good question.... but one that at least for me will be far simpler to answer then most. Usually, through a second story bedroom window, from a tree.
 
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I find that "Virgin" is often considered synonymous with "Sheltered" and wrongly so.

Being someone who has never had sex, I am quite happy. In fact, I think a lot of my age bracket spends WAY to much of their time just trying to get some.
 

UltraDeth

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I want to lose my virginity, but I'm in no hurry, and alternatively I don't want to be 30 when I do
 

Asuka Soryu

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I'll be like: "you're a virgin!? Wait... who the hell are you? Why do I care? Why'd you even tell me you're a virgin? I'm gonna go get some soda."
 

Xisin

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I'm so confused by these threads. How do I view virgins... Well I've never looked at someone and thought, "They're a virgin, bet they'll get some at some point." I don't "view" them at all. It's none of my business whether someone is a virgin or not. It's not like virgins stick post-its to their foreheads, letting me know their current status. >.>
 

Nanaki316

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I view them as someone who has not had sex. Their reason is their own, I'm not going to judge them one way or another.
Yeah. First post pretty much won the thread.
 

Del-Toro

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The latter? I pity you. (and they still don't know what they're missing).
You're judging people on a gaming forum. On the internet. That you have gotten laid should considered something between a miracle and an anomaly. I suppose that's the law of large numbers (look it up) for you.
 

Caligulove

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All 3 really. It's all about context.

Yea, I know some guys and girls who are just assholes or blame others for their assholery and lack of anyone being romantically interested in them- at the same time I know others who really do want someone 'special' to be their first so that it will be an amazing experience (dont agree with, personally, first time is never good- breeds unrealistic expectations) and that's their prerogative. Very rarely meet the person that's afraid or too innocent to be concerned with sex, though. They are a very interesting character... though the one person I've met (not asexual) like that was also very religious and I got the feeling they struggled with sexual urges more than I did...
 

Kyle Roberts

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I don't really mind i veiw them as normal people and im not in any condition to get to know people just to find out.
 

Brinnmilo

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Sex is a very small part of most peoples lives. Does any one really care about this? I don't know any one that has really changed after losing their virginity (myself included).
 

A Weakgeek

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Flare Phoenix said:
Duffeknol said:
I'm extremely sexist in my views. Any male virgin over the age of 18... I can't really help but look down on them. I'm a pretty big nerd, and since even I managed to get laid, I believe that anyone can. I know this is unfair, I really do, but I'm being honest about it here. I'm sorry.

When it comes to girls, I love innocence. Girls should stay virgins for as long as possible. My fiancée and me waited 3 years, and we're not even religious. Again; it's a highly unfair view, but I'm just being honest.
You know what's good about putting yourself on such a high pedestal? Eventually someone is going to knock you off of it, and you'll be down here with all the regular people and you'll realize you're not as great as you think you are...

Wait... how the hell does that even work? Guys should have sex as long as possible but girls should hold off as long as possible? I don't know what you've learnt but its either one or the other... unless you're into having sex with animals but that's a completely different topic.
Because everyone in the world is hetero sexual, right? (Don't worry, I'm just teasing)
 

jawakiller

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jawakiller said:
Virgin by choice or nerds? Theres a big difference between the two.
The former? Good for them but they don't know what they're missing.
The latter? I pity you. (and they still don't know what they're missing).
ehhh... I was planning on waiting till marriage but then I found the girl I love and simply couldn't hold it back. And I have to say, I was honestly underwhelmed. Was it because it wasn't good or she wasn't hott enough or something? bahahah, absolutely not. All I'll say is that she's a hip hop dancer (and I mean she's danced with the likes of major hip hop and pop star artists, including Michael Jackson's dance troupe) and they have GREAT endurance and she can SERIOUSLY work it (not to mention the hot bod).

What I mean by being underwhelmed is that I could have waited. Given the VAST number of other mysteries we could explore with eachother, adventures to be had, etc., sex just seemed not to be all that special. I guess I don't see why more people CAN'T wait... I feel like people enjoy sex more because of its allure than because its actually something worthwhile to pursue.
While the allure is quite amazing, sex is fun. Period. Thats why people continue to engage in it. I can't talk for women but most men enjoy sex (as far as I know, the guys I know confirmed this). Which is why I said "don't know what they're missing". Because they really don't.

Del-Toro said:
You're judging people on a gaming forum. On the internet. That you have gotten laid should considered something between a miracle and an anomaly. I suppose that's the law of large numbers (look it up) for you.
Just a joke kid, don't freak out. I know plenty of nerds that'v gotten laid, I was just using a common stereotype. I should have said "people who can't get laid due to social skills (or lack thereof)"

Happy?

People who choose not to have sex (but could get some if they wanted to) are strong people that I respect. They don't know how fun sex is so I feel like they're missing out (because they are a virgin, meaning no sex). People who can't get laid (not because of some handicap, unless you consider being a socially inept handicapped)? I feel bad for them because they don't know what they're missing AND they couldn't find out even if they wanted to.

Thats it.
 

Quellist

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It's their lives, their bodies, i dont 'view' them differently to anyone else i see.
 

KiruTheMant

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Its differing on the person,but my generalization is "They haven't found the right person for sex yet." and that was me included til a few years back.