Poll: How important is sex to you?

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garfoldsomeoneelse

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I'm not going to shrivel up and die without it, but I'd really prefer not to live without it; luckily for me (and everyone else involved), that's becoming more and more of a "wouldn't it suck if" these days.
 

mechashiva77

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ravensheart18 said:
I'm currious why your poll was "sexual intercourse" instead of the probably wiser question of your thread title, "sex".
Looking back, I can agree that I should have left sex in there. Then I thought some people may not count foreplay as "real" sex, so I assumed I needed to be specific.
 

rutger5000

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Plinglebob said:
Personally I'm not bothered about it. Been celibate now for 6 years (really bad at the dating game) and I miss having a girlfrind for the companionship rather then the sex. Even when I dd have a girlfriend, I never found sex that enjoyable.
I hope I'm not offending you with this, but have you ever considered that you might be a homosexual? Again I want to stress that I'm not trying to offend you with this.
 

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RAKtheUndead said:
Given that I have never, will never and probably, because of my personality being diametrically opposed to that of pretty much any woman, cannot have sex, it deeply upsets me that being a virgin is such a badge of shame. The fact is that I would be an immeasurably more efficient and better person with the removal of my sex drive, and I have no idea why there haven't been more medical experiments designed with this in mind.
With that attitude, no wonder you think that no woman out there will like you. There's someone out there for everyone.
 

TheTejs

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I love it
And i think it's a really big part of a relationship.
But don't let it take over, i doubt thats a healthy relationship.

man i hate when my Girlfriend is out on a trip... :(
 

General BrEeZy

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Oh, I want it; I want it BAD, make no mistake. I can't wait to get down and dirty! But that's just typical human sexual drive talking. I'm just not doing it before marriage. Thats my signature "gun" that im sticking to and never giving it up.
The Relationship is what must be strong, then you can have sex as a bonus! and that final stage of bonding that really makes you a couple.

Q.E.D.
 

ScarlettRage

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To me, its important if you are in a relationship, and only if your have feelings for your partner. When I am not around my partner, my sex drive drops to just about Nada.
 

Rafael Dera

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RAKtheUndead said:
Given that I have never, will never and probably, because of my personality being diametrically opposed to that of pretty much any woman, cannot have sex, it deeply upsets me that being a virgin is such a badge of shame. The fact is that I would be an immeasurably more efficient and better person with the removal of my sex drive, and I have no idea why there haven't been more medical experiments designed with this in mind.
Ahh medical experimentation. Is there any problem it cannot solve?
These drugs exist, by the way. Mainly to protect society from sexual deviants (rapists, pedophiles, in the past also homosexuals). Look up Cyproterone or medroxyprogesterone.

For the record, I would discourage you from using them.

OT: Meh.
 

ajh93

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i'd like to have sex,but it's too much work getting it...

...besides,that's what porn is for...
 

lumenadducere

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It gets increasingly less judgmental as you get older. Eventually everyone becomes an adult and accepts that people have different sexual histories and grow comfortable enough with themselves to enjoy it or not as they see fit.

As for me, I like it and think that it's an important part of a relationship. The number of people a person has been with is irrelevant to my relationship with that person - as long as they're healthy and not cheating then I really couldn't care less.
 

TheLoneBeet

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Sex isn't a big deal. It's fun and all that but I can easily go without it. Even if I'm in a relationship it's one of the last things on my mind. If it happens its almost always spontaneous.
 

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mechashiva77 said:
(Don't care if it's been done before)

It seems a lot of people judge each other on how much sex they have, if at all. If you have a lot, then you are either a stud, a player (in the bad sense), a slut, or experienced. If you have to little then you are either pure, a loser, a prude, or terrible.

People of The Escapist, how important is having sex to you?

For those who are interested in my view: I don't think sex should be the end all be all to a person's character, but if they legally have it then I could not care less. What bugs me is that people who believe in such statements are like "He is a virgin, therefore he is a loser." or "He does not want sex constantly, therefore he must be a loser." and their opposites. While I enjoy it and sometimes crave it, I'm not the type that needs a new person in bed with me on a regular basis. I'd stick to boyfriends, and not random strangers.
I think i perfer intamacy, like cuddling, or kissing, to me, if one can't express intamacy and love, one shouldn't have sex. I want more intamacy with my girlfriend first, what are your thoughts?
 

AgDr_ODST

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its importance in terms of just having it to have it is very low...having it with someone I truely love and care for however is
 
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Ah, sex.

I can still remember my first time...I kept the receipt.

Honestly, not terribly important to me. I can(and do)frequently go without for extended periods. I'm totally game when it comes along, but I'm an absurdly mellow person, to the extent that it pisses off alot of people.
 

mechashiva77

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aei_haruko said:
I think i perfer intamacy, like cuddling, or kissing, to me, if one can't express intamacy and love, one shouldn't have sex. I want more intamacy with my girlfriend first, what are your thoughts?
Well, I don't think intimacy should be a precursor to sex if it's just casual sex with a stranger, and both of you don't plan on sticking around. But, I do enjoy it with boyfriends and think there's nothing wrong with it.
 

William MacKay

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i dont know what you're talking about.
giant talking condom.
i cant go 5 minutes without getting a boner.
Zaul2010 said:
Sex is indisputably the best form of weight loss.
also this. very good cardio.
 

Mister Eff

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I'm a big fan of sex. It's one of the most basic and primal of human urges. Why not celebrate it? I voted very important, because it is. I disagree with the enormous double standard of sluts and players if you get me. People enjoy sex, yet it's a bad thing if women do it a lot?! Anyway. It's awesome.
 

wootsniper

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Does that mean you have no sexual urges at all? You don't get turned on by anyone and you never masturbated?

and not to get to personal, but what do you think of when you do masturbate?