I'm not going to shrivel up and die without it, but I'd really prefer not to live without it; luckily for me (and everyone else involved), that's becoming more and more of a "wouldn't it suck if" these days.
Looking back, I can agree that I should have left sex in there. Then I thought some people may not count foreplay as "real" sex, so I assumed I needed to be specific.ravensheart18 said:I'm currious why your poll was "sexual intercourse" instead of the probably wiser question of your thread title, "sex".
I hope I'm not offending you with this, but have you ever considered that you might be a homosexual? Again I want to stress that I'm not trying to offend you with this.Plinglebob said:Personally I'm not bothered about it. Been celibate now for 6 years (really bad at the dating game) and I miss having a girlfrind for the companionship rather then the sex. Even when I dd have a girlfriend, I never found sex that enjoyable.
With that attitude, no wonder you think that no woman out there will like you. There's someone out there for everyone.RAKtheUndead said:Given that I have never, will never and probably, because of my personality being diametrically opposed to that of pretty much any woman, cannot have sex, it deeply upsets me that being a virgin is such a badge of shame. The fact is that I would be an immeasurably more efficient and better person with the removal of my sex drive, and I have no idea why there haven't been more medical experiments designed with this in mind.
Ahh medical experimentation. Is there any problem it cannot solve?RAKtheUndead said:Given that I have never, will never and probably, because of my personality being diametrically opposed to that of pretty much any woman, cannot have sex, it deeply upsets me that being a virgin is such a badge of shame. The fact is that I would be an immeasurably more efficient and better person with the removal of my sex drive, and I have no idea why there haven't been more medical experiments designed with this in mind.
I think i perfer intamacy, like cuddling, or kissing, to me, if one can't express intamacy and love, one shouldn't have sex. I want more intamacy with my girlfriend first, what are your thoughts?mechashiva77 said:(Don't care if it's been done before)
It seems a lot of people judge each other on how much sex they have, if at all. If you have a lot, then you are either a stud, a player (in the bad sense), a slut, or experienced. If you have to little then you are either pure, a loser, a prude, or terrible.
People of The Escapist, how important is having sex to you?
For those who are interested in my view: I don't think sex should be the end all be all to a person's character, but if they legally have it then I could not care less. What bugs me is that people who believe in such statements are like "He is a virgin, therefore he is a loser." or "He does not want sex constantly, therefore he must be a loser." and their opposites. While I enjoy it and sometimes crave it, I'm not the type that needs a new person in bed with me on a regular basis. I'd stick to boyfriends, and not random strangers.
Well, I don't think intimacy should be a precursor to sex if it's just casual sex with a stranger, and both of you don't plan on sticking around. But, I do enjoy it with boyfriends and think there's nothing wrong with it.aei_haruko said:I think i perfer intamacy, like cuddling, or kissing, to me, if one can't express intamacy and love, one shouldn't have sex. I want more intamacy with my girlfriend first, what are your thoughts?
also this. very good cardio.Zaul2010 said:Sex is indisputably the best form of weight loss.