To attempt to be as neutral as possible, without trying to provide scientific proof, I would suggest this; that nature gifts us with paradigms for reproduction, a set of genetic blueprints that are embedded within our brains as instinct, as primal urge. This knowledge drives our sexuality, influences our choice of sexual partners, etc etc. Evolutionary stuff, you know?
Now, I'm going to assume that since these blueprints are essentially the result of millions of unique chemical reactions, DNA, recessive genes and whatnot flying around, that at some point, a 'line of code' somewhere is going to produce a gene or a reaction that creates 'variable results' in the aspect of humanity that we call sexuality.
The question is, whether or not you are born with predispositions towards a certain sexuality because of the biological reactions that make up 'You', will these tendencies manifest themselves in adult You?
We've learned from scientists that study the mind how certain amounts of emotion, like stress, anger, joy or what-have-you can produce biochemical reactions in the brain. The most immediate case I can think of is Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Isn't it likely that if stress can tip the chemical balance of the brain, other events during our lives might impede on DIFFERENT aspects of our mind? Those 'sexuality blueprints' for example?
My view is that Nature and Nurture are essentially one and the same, the procedure of 'Nurture' becoming a psychological cooking-pot for our reactive brains. While predispositions do exist, there is no 100% correlation of any given gene and any given sexuality, simply because Nature happens THROUGH and DURING Nurture, not BEFORE it exclusively. It's harder to measure which portion of our body's biochemistry has a stronger effect on our sexuality, simply because it's slightly like trying to measure life. What we can agree on, perhaps, is that no-one is the same, whatever their genes might be, or whatever events in their lives have changed the way they think and react.