Poll: Looking for real advice not moral zealots

[VitalSigns]

I have been with my Fiancee for 2 and a half years, our mutual friend is coming up to stay the weekend and visit, our friend was talking to me in private and made a "joke" about a threesome. Girlfriend found out and to my surprise said she would be cool with it. So this should all be good right? The Catch: this other girl has expressed to me a few times that she has legitimate romantic feelings for me, and I once actually told her I had them back but I wasn't going to leave my Fiancee. I'm scared this could also complicate things, that being said both girls are stunningly attractive, smart, fun etc, and I want to do this pretty bad. Is it worth the risk of the complications to have a wicked and memorable night?

EDIT*** Clear up some things

-Me and my fiancee are very open minded.
-This is not something She is doing just cause she thinks i'd like it, we have talked about the idea of a threesome for a while now
-Other girl (the friend) said that any feelings she may have for me are under control and would not let this become a problem. (she could just be saying that however)
-I am confident in my sexual abilities and truly don't feel this would be either awkward, or laughable.
-Any guy with a libido would want this to happen.

 

[Curtmiester]

....The hell do you think I'm going to answer for this?!

 

[Internet Kraken]

Oh yeah.

Go ahead and jeopardize your marriage over a sexual experience that will most likely be awkward and embarrassing.

 

[Armored Prayer]

That sucks my friend.

 

[Legion]

Hmmm. Tricky one.

I'd say back off from it because of this bit:

The Catch: this other girl has expressed to me a few times that she has legitimate romantic feelings for me, and I once actually told her I had them back but I wasn't going to leave my Fiancee.

If she didn't I'd say think about it carefully, as she does I say definitely not.

EDIT: Also, you shouldn't be marrying somebody if you have feelings for somebody else. Casual relationship? Fine, your choice. Potential wife? Not a good idea to be thinking of another person.

 

[JRCB]

EDIT: Romantic feelings from the other girl? I wouldn't go for it, then. That could get really awkward.

 

[megapenguinx]

I would say, don't risk complications. It's going to cause drama that you don't want.

 

[bodyklok]

Oh yeah.

Go ahead and jeopardize your marriage over a sexual experience that will most likely be awkward and embarrassing.

This.

 

[revolverwolf]

Go ahead and jeopardize your marriage over a sexual experience that will most likely be awkward and embarrassing.

...Pretty much the implication of this. Don't go through with it.

 

[VitalSigns]

Oh yeah.

Go ahead and jeopardize your marriage over a sexual experience that will most likely be awkward and embarrassing.

I would like to remind everyone that my girlfriend Did say she was cool with this, granted she doesn't know the other girl has such feelings. I think this really boils down to is our friend (the other girl) going to take this for more than it is.

NOTE*** I'm confident enough to believe this wont be either awkward or embarrassing. I don't know what self esteem issues you have, but I admire my prowess so to speak.

 

[Curtmiester]

Oh yeah.

Go ahead and jeopardize your marriage over a sexual experience that will most likely be awkward and embarrassing.

Sounds like some one isn't open minded...

 

[Nargleblarg]

...does not compute *head blows up*

 

[jh322]

No. Flat out, no. She will hate you for it even if not immediately, and your friendship will never be the same. In these situations, it's much more exciting to allude to it being possible and let all three of you have fun with some flirting than actually going through with it and ruining two (probably) perfectly healthy relationships.

 

[Curtmiester]

I say do it, just because we will all laugh at the awkwardness of it.

Ah, thinking about the Escapist as a whole. Good thinking.

 

[MrSnugglesworth]

I say yes, but its your choice. It could really screw some things up. I'd do it, because I'm a sex depraved gamer, but its your choice.

 

[Gooble]

Really not worth the awesomeness...marriage > threesome.

 

[billybobby]

ask if they could BOTH be your fiancée ...

seriously i wouldn't risk it

 

[Dr.Sean]

Do it and post pics.