Poll: Looking for real advice not moral zealots
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The thing is, how can I be sure that this will ruin anything? also the other girl (Shouldve mentioned this) said that any feelings she has are under control and she would not let them become a problem.jh322 said:
Tough one. I'd say lay back, and see what happens. Do not initiate anything by yourself, and do not give direct hints to the other lady you might be interested, possibly causing a flirting reaction from her side. However, if she and your fiancé start flirting, what's to stop you from joining in on the fun?
As Pyro's and Admiral Ackbar once saidVitalSigns said:
Its a trap!
No really. Don't trust what she says. Woman (Usually) let things like this get out of hand.
Thats stupid. We have been together for 2 and a half years and she has already been with a girl sexually before, so she is not going to suddenly realize she is a lesbian. My girlfriend has a better head on her shoulder than that.pyros550 said:
Gonna be sticking with the crowd and saying best not too. My own morality alone says no, but since you want more then that, here goes.
If the other girl was simply a good friend, then it could be plausible too do so without any major repurcussions, however, because she does have true (I hope) feelings of love towards you, it's probable best too avoid the complications that could stem from it. In my marginal studies, do realize that sex actually means more too a woman simply because, quite bluntly, women have babies, men don't. This isn't too say there is any intention or possibly even chance of a pregnancy, but my point is simply that you need too consider that it will mean more too her then she may let on.
Final words of advice? Talk too your fiance about your feelings towards the other girl, as well as her feelings towards you.
If the other girl was simply a good friend, then it could be plausible too do so without any major repurcussions, however, because she does have true (I hope) feelings of love towards you, it's probable best too avoid the complications that could stem from it. In my marginal studies, do realize that sex actually means more too a woman simply because, quite bluntly, women have babies, men don't. This isn't too say there is any intention or possibly even chance of a pregnancy, but my point is simply that you need too consider that it will mean more too her then she may let on.
Final words of advice? Talk too your fiance about your feelings towards the other girl, as well as her feelings towards you.
Naaaah, bang them both, this could never end in a mushroom cloud of drama pissing off everyone involved. It will tooootally be ok and you definitely won't ruin your engagement by banging some other chick who wants to get with you IN FRONT of your fiancee. I'm sure none of the girls involved will get jealous either, because girls never feel jealous or insecure. I just can't see any way that this could possibly end badly.
Also, threesomes are only awesome in porn; reality has all this reality involved that screws everything up.
Also, threesomes are only awesome in porn; reality has all this reality involved that screws everything up.
Do not listen to those telling you not to do it, they're just jealous. You have the oppurtiunity to bang 2 birds here and one is your consenting fiancee, you may never get this oppurtiunity again. No matter what happens you'll regret not doing it more.
I will eventually be in a threesome regardless as my fiancee wants to try it as do I, its about finding the right person, and in my eyes this is a person who has said yes to the idea. Im not 'Banging a chick in front of her" she will be just as active on her as I will be, its a threesome not just sex in front of my girlfriend.Winter Rat said:
This.Mrsnugglesworth said:
"It's going to be ok, honestly" is something they will both say. They are both lying. Your friend is secretly hoping this will be enough for you to fall for her, and your girlfriend envisions you having sex with her, while her friend sits there jealously masturbating and eventually gives up while the two of you enjoy the rest of your night together. Neither of these situations are going to happen, so they will both be tremendously pissed off.
BAD PLAN. ABORT! ABORT! ABORT!
