Poll: Losing your virginity - Overhyped?
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Damn right it is.
Its damn stupid to put any importance of loosing your virginity.
It's plain idiotic imho.
Its damn stupid to put any importance of loosing your virginity.
It's plain idiotic imho.
Or they just don't care about it as much as you do. There are these little things called "opinions" and "priorities". Look them up in a dictionary, because most people have different ones on most subjects.RedRussian said:
God, I am so sick of these threads. If you don't want to have sex, then don't. People may make fun of you, deal with it. If you look upon sex as a passage to manhood, what the hell is wrong with that? It god damn well is. It is embarrassing that people put so much thought into whether it is overhyped, you are really missing the point.
Sex in general is overhyped.
"Panda, you must simply be doing it wrong!".
Aha ha ha...no. I looked it up in the encyclopaedia.
"Panda, you must simply be doing it wrong!".
Aha ha ha...no. I looked it up in the encyclopaedia.
I wouldn't advise it. I've seen it too often that someone does this, and suddenly finds that, because someone's sexual tastes are different to your own, and you didn't find this out until after the marriage when you first had sex, that "the right guy" suddenly isn't anymore.shewolf51 said:
Sure, sex is overhyped. That doesn't mean you should leave it and end up finding out that marrying that guy was a mistake.
If you give it up to someone you love, it's beautiful no matter what happens in the future.Prometherion said:
Marriage should be involved, but since today's age requires sexuality as a part of long term relationships, that's most likely not going to happen.
Mutual love? Mutual respect? GO FOR IT!
-Also, as a social pariah for the better half of my childhood, I never cared about what others thought, and no one esle should either.
I don't think "virginity" is a big deal, especially when considering homosexual relationships. My girlfriend, however, considers it a big deal so I'll respect that. I can wait.
The second time you have sex with your first partner...that's where the hype machine should be directed.
I lost my virginity the day after I turned 17 (during halftime of the grand final of World Cup '94!) The sex was rushed, ultimately a bit confusing and "wait, did we really just...?" and hardly the room-shattering orgasm that one generally expects from great sex. It didn't help that the girl was a virgin as well.
However, a few hours later, the jitters out of the way and the First Time? done, we could just relax and, as the Nike commercials say, "just do it." That sex (and pretty much all the other sex we had on every horizontal and against every vertical surface we could think of) was awesome and memorable.
I lost my virginity the day after I turned 17 (during halftime of the grand final of World Cup '94!) The sex was rushed, ultimately a bit confusing and "wait, did we really just...?" and hardly the room-shattering orgasm that one generally expects from great sex. It didn't help that the girl was a virgin as well.
However, a few hours later, the jitters out of the way and the First Time? done, we could just relax and, as the Nike commercials say, "just do it." That sex (and pretty much all the other sex we had on every horizontal and against every vertical surface we could think of) was awesome and memorable.
I don't consider losing my virginity all that important. However, that doesn't mean that I'm going to turn down a chance to give it up if it's with someone that I genuinely care about, to put it simply, if it happens, it happens. I don't really care either way. But then again, I am pretty close to being emotionally dead, so that might affect my opinion on the matter somewhat...
Everything you do in life but can't do early on is overhyped. Same with smoking and drinking. As a kid, all of this stuff was crazy appealing. Then as you grow up you realize that nothing done for recreation is worth stressing over. My first lay was a lot like my first drink and my first smoke. A whole lot of surprise at how mundane it was, confusion at why it was so popular, and anger at people who had ridiculed me for not doing it sooner.
Don't get me wrong, I love sex and the occasional cigar is really nice, but to get riled up over anything like that is pointless. Just take things as they go and let everything happen at your own pace.
Ramble filter: Virgins, relax. Tell your friends who are constantly bragging/harassing you to lay off because they're doing more harm than good.
Don't get me wrong, I love sex and the occasional cigar is really nice, but to get riled up over anything like that is pointless. Just take things as they go and let everything happen at your own pace.
Ramble filter: Virgins, relax. Tell your friends who are constantly bragging/harassing you to lay off because they're doing more harm than good.