Poll: Oh dear God. She said it.

[The_Echo]

Why are other guys so afraid of those words? Am I the only one who doesn't fear them?

You're not alone! I don't get why it's so bad either. Maybe it's bad for those who don't want to commit, or something.

 

[Federalist92]

never let a good chance like this with love, pass you buy.
You may regret it later. And then its too late. I know i do.

 

[quiet_samurai]

Hmm, something smells fishy. Like, little kid who just broke a window and tells his mum or dad he loves them before they figure out what he's done kind of fishy. She's doing this after three months of not actually seeing you? Investigations are warranted.

Bah, perhaps I'm just too paranoid/skeptical in nature. If so, ignore little ol' me.

This is exactly what I was thinking.

Or

Maybe she really does love you, there is no such thing as an appropriate time to say it. If you love her then tell her, if not then don't tell her. I think telling someone you love them when you don't is much worse then not telling them when you do. Just go with the first response you had when she told you, it's probably the right one. But really you shouldn't be asking us, there are probably too many variables to this for us to make a clear response.

And for the record I picked the "I really like polls option"

 

[The_Chief]

Plan C it.

 

[katsa5]

This is what I call a 'thin ice' situation; hence your nervousness so your instincts are good. Does your girlfriend have this fall-hard-in-love pattern? See if she would actually say these same things to your face; which would show her sincerity or lack thereof. Or you can not take them seriously at all, just give a sweet compliment or small reassurance.
But like I said, it seems your instincts are good. Go with your gut. In the end, that's all you can do.

 

[TheLefty]

I don't get the big deal. Say it back or not. If you're that afraid she'll dump you if you don't say it back then maybe you do want to say it back.

 

[garfoldsomeoneelse]

Why are other guys so afraid of those words? Am I the only one who doesn't fear them?

Are we the only ones that find security in those words?

 

[Lord Thodin]

Shes psycho GET THE FUCK OUT SON! RUN TO THE HILLS! Run to the hills run for your lives
Soldier blue on the barren wastes.....
Honestly, if you really like her the way she likes you, feel teh loves

 

[Viva La Bob]

Can by band play your TJ bar???

 

[General Ken8]

I'd say give it a chance, if you haven't seen her except before she wrote the letter you don't know the situation well enough to judge

 

[Sparrow]

Make like a tap and run!

 

[Arkhangelsk]

How old are you? Do you like her? Do you feel a connection to her? Does she know you good? If any of the questions get a no, then something weird is going on. Meet her again, and talk to her. Ask her yourself, rather than lingering around it. Just remember, whatever you do, don't go down to her basement. And that's not a euphemism.

 

[Deef]

Open that bar, I'll join you. I can mix up some great drinks.

 

[AbsoluteVirtue18]

Sounds cool. Continue dating her until you've found her shrine.

 

[Custard_Angel]

Yeah umm... Girls that are isolated from boyfriends for extended periods will either,
a) get clingy
b) get depressive
c) get spiteful

I take it she took the a) route... Well thats all your fault I suppose. How hard is it to meet your bloody girlfriend even once a week? Or fortnight even?

Leave her. No matter what her problem is, you've been a bit of a jerk. She deserves better and you obviously don't want her.

 

[Captain Pancake]

don't mess her around. respond quickly. my friend was in a situation with a girl in which they both liked each other, but he waited so long to initiate things that she ended up cheating on him before they were even officially a couple! if you like her, don't hold back, lest she slips out of your grasp...