Poll: Oh dear God. She said it.

[Macgyvercas]

Why are other guys so afraid of those words? Am I the only one who doesn't fear them?

They don't scare me. I think it's because most guys think of those words as a ball and chain of sorts. "Oh no, Now I have to start saying "I love you" back. My glorious single days are over. My life is fading to black" etc, etc.

I don't quite know what causes that reaction.

 

[ThreeWords]

Is she being ceep.scary about it, or is she just trying to restart your relationship?

If the first, run like hell, and maybe find yourself some kind of bladed weapon. If the second, go to her, and get back with her (assuming you still like/love her)

Why are other guys so afraid of those words? Am I the only one who doesn't fear them?

They don't scare me. I think it's because most guys think of those words as a ball and chain of sorts. "Oh no, Now I have to start saying "I love you" back. My glorious single days are over. My life is fading to black" etc, etc.

I don't quite know what causes that reaction.

If it was me, I'd go for it and screw the consequences. But then, I'm me, and I revel in the vague chaos that such actions cause. Some people prefer a slightly saner and more thought out life, but that's upp to them

 

[StigmataDiaboli]

If you honestly love her then go for it.

 

[Deleric]

POLLS

ARE

AWESOME!

 

[doomngloom]

Wait, why haven't you seen your girlfriend in 3 months?

Was wondering this. Sounds like a pretty sweet deal to me.

 

[Rickyvantof]

Owned.

 

[saintchristopher]

since you used the phrase "since school got out," i'm assuming you're in/entering/leaving high school. if any of those is the case, I recommend running for the hills. She may think she does, but believe me, this poor girl doesn't know what she's talking about.

 

[Gaias]

If she truly loves you, she will love your poll too.

 

[the_joker1112]

dont firght it, it will just get bad and outt of hand, plus if she is hot, then go for it.

 

[Jimmyjames]

So I am appealing to you, anyonymus peoples of the interent, what do you suggest I do.
My Girlfriend of six months sent me a letter the other day that basically expressed her undying love for me. Uh... thanks? Anyways, I haven't seen her since school got out, which is basically like three months ago. Pardon my unbridled enthusiasm.
Suggestions?

Honestly- you have someone that cares enough (or is infatuated enough) to tell you she loves you. What's the problem? Will it kill you to run with it for awhile? It's not like you're going to marry her, apparently. Enjoy it, be nice to her, and when the time comes cut it loose knowing that you weren't cruel to her feelings.

 

[Bigeyez]

Okay, couple of questions spring to mind.

1. Why haven't you seen her for 3 months?

2. Do you love her (a), like her (b) or just want to have fun with her (c)?

2a. If you love her, have a face to face talk with her and respond to her feelings. Try to find how how her words happened to come so out of blue.

2b. If you like her, try to find out if this is a prank or some kind wild idea gotten while drunk etc or if she is serious. If the first, laugh it off. If the latter, think of what you want from the future and if it includes her etc. In other words, think what you want from the future and discuss it with her.

2c. If she was kidding, nothing major here. If she is serious, this can only likely end in a heartbreak. Give her the news of your (lack of) feelings as gently as possible. If you have any respect for her, you will not string her along.

Pretty much waht this guy said. Why haven't you seen her for 3 months? And do you even talk to her regularly? Because if you don't and she just told you all that out of the blue...then yeah...

 

[MrSnugglesworth]

Why are other guys so afraid of those words? Am I the only one who doesn't fear them?

No. I think that it shouldn't be thrown around like it is these days.


So I'm not afraid of it, I just disagree with the overuse of it.

 

[Takoto]

Wait, whats it bad about it dude?
My boyfriend knows I have an undying love for him and it doesn't bother him :c I think (I hope).

If you love her there shouldn't be a problem, unless of course you're just going out with her for the hell of it and you don't really have any feelings for her, I mean you haven't seen her in three months, dude, what the fuck?

 

[Simalacrum]

awwww, she's probably just being nice to you

 

[Some_Jackass]

Flip a coin...if you end up unhappy, you can blame fate.

In the end, its her fault for uttering the L-word

 

[CrashBang]

Wbat the hell? You go out with her for 6 months then disappear after school finishes. After half a year?! Why??
And the letter is a tad odd after you freakishly just stopped seeing her. But yeah you should be asking a different question

 

[JanatUrlich]

Shiiiit there's nothing worse than clingy girls. Especially if you haven't seen her for 3 months. Just tell her that you love her too and then get laid.

Fuck it, we've all been there

 

[Nmil-ek]

Dude three months were you even in contact? Who knows maybe shes sincere time apart can clarify feelings about other people well Its not so complex if you like her or possibly feel simmilarly what is there to loose, if she deserves such a chance on the other hand.