Poll: Oh dear God. She said it.
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Erm..The problem is...?
If you feel the same about her, stay.
If not, don't.
It'll fizzle out after a year or two anyway.
If you feel the same about her, stay.
If not, don't.
It'll fizzle out after a year or two anyway.
You sir have fine taste. Now answer my second question. Do you love her?TheAmazingTGIF said:19-ish (me) and 21-ish (her). I like me some older women. >Jester Lord said:
Also don't get confused with loving her body or voice or things like that.
Depends, if you truly like (or love) her then go for it, if not then be honest and up front about it, don't just run and hide because that'll just make things worse. As for not seeing her for months and sending the letter out of the blue, I would try to watch her rather closely. Not to sound like an ass/ make you paranoid, but for her to suddenly profess her love after not seeing you, says to me she might've done something she regrets and wants to reaffirm her feelings toward you. Still, she could just miss you and that just makes her feelings stronger I guess. Either way, best of luck to ya man, and have some fun uh? ; )
You love her: Tell her so, start a relationship.
You don't love her: Tell her so, feel pity for her, suggest a friendship.
You don't love her: Tell her so, feel pity for her, suggest a friendship.
It´s the male fear of commitment, I guess. "No! I´m chained. I can´t be a wild and care-free bachelor anymore, boo hoo", and all that jazz.TaborMallory said:
To OP, go for it. If it turns out to be a sudden kick in the balls, take it as a learning experience. You´ll never get anything done by worrying and agonizing over everything. I know it´s good to have a little caution in your back pocket, but as someone once said somewhere: "Nothing ventured, nothing gained."
Anyway, the choice is all yours.
To be honest, I am not sure. Possibly, most likely leaning towards, yes...?Jester Lord said:You sir have fine taste. Now answer my second question. Do you love her?TheAmazingTGIF said:19-ish (me) and 21-ish (her). I like me some older women. >Jester Lord said:
Also don't get confused with loving her body or voice or things like that.
If you feel the same way, cool. Let her know. If you think you're close, wait it out for a little while to see if you get there. If you don't, and never will, let her down easy.
No you are not, I embrace them.TaborMallory said:
Look "guy", if your in love, tell her, then go and see her. If not, stop messing the poor girl about.
If you have to ask, then you clearly do not love her back. Be honest with her and break it off. True love is something you KNOW and never question. Grow some balls and be honest with her... AND STOP LEADING HER ON. She my be a fruit loop... maybe not. Maybe she is seriously in love with you... but if you feel nothing back like that and let her continue to think that you do then you are scum.
Don't lead her on and just be honest. That's the best way to go, sure she will probably dump you but you would have shown you are a man of honor.
Don't lead her on and just be honest. That's the best way to go, sure she will probably dump you but you would have shown you are a man of honor.
Being a person who doesn't believe in love this might not be good advice but, don't risk saying those words until you are sure. Think about it (hard) and then break the news good or bad to her in person if possible.TheAmazingTGIF said:To be honest, I am not sure. Possibly, most likely leaning towards, yes...?Jester Lord said:You sir have fine taste. Now answer my second question. Do you love her?TheAmazingTGIF said:19-ish (me) and 21-ish (her). I like me some older women. >Jester Lord said:
Also don't get confused with loving her body or voice or things like that.
Er...Good luck. I'm getting the feeling that you love her, but not that kind of undying love that she's feeling right now. Your best bet would be to tell her that you love her, but not that you're not all that ready to profess your infinite love to someone yet. On the bright side, though, at least she didn't do it you in person. Because the usual response from the person getting that speech who isn't ready for it goes something like "Um. Thanks?", and that's not exactly the response they're looking for. It's always an akward situation--at least yours you have some time to think.
If you feel the same for her, I say go for it! Even though, it's a little bit weird that she says she loves you even though you didn't saw each other for 3 months...
Besides, you can still open an bar!
Besides, you can still open an bar!