Poll: Oh dear God. She said it.

[geldonyetich]

Love is fickle - all fires that burn run out of fuel eventually. That said, any expression of undying love really isn't.

That said, if you feel the same way, go for it. Why not? Cosmically speaking, there's not that many differences between the fish in the sea, you might as well stick with one that actually likes you. Otherwise, let her down easy.

 

[The Kangaroo]

Use it to your advantage...get laid

 

[Cowabungaa]

You lucky...lucky bastard. Anyway, be honest with her. Cry from happyness if you share her feelings, be honest (but gentle) if you don't.

 

[Yoshi-Pop]

Well normally, I;d say feel the love, but if this scares you SO fucking bad that you have to run and ask strangers for help, then you don't need to be with this poor girl in the first place and she's an idiot for loving you. So, run for the hills.

 

[Grayjack]

Run. Just run and never look back.

 

[Insanum]

Seems like a catch 22 my friend. If your not 100% certain dont say it back (i made that mistake) But if you dont...Prepare for crazies.

Although if she is sane & rational (i.e imaginary or a guy (i joke)) Then you may be able to use this as a chance to see her more, Make her come too you, etc.

just make sure you always use the moisturizer and not the self tanner

Damn you for making me Lol so hard i spilled my tea ¬¬.

Must... resist urge... to make... hasslehoff joke...

 

[Guitarmasterx7]

on a scale of 1-10, how hot is she?

 

[Merteg]

Feel lucky you have someone like that.

"All of my life, I've been searchin' for a girl, to love me, like I love you." Only switch that to guy.

 

[dstryfe]

Why are other guys so afraid of those words? Am I the only one who doesn't fear them?

Not I. That said, roll with it. Take it at face value til you have a reason to be sceptical. It does seem a bit odd though, especially since you're in college...

 

[Some_Jackass]

Dude, any woman who invests that much love that quickly in a relationship will eventually cut your penis off one way or another.

So do like Iron Maiden once sang and "Run to the hills! Run for your lives!"

 

[Rolling Thunder]

Stop clogging up my forum with inane threads, for a start.

 

[DarkRyter]

Why are the joke answers to polls so appetizing?

So, anyway, yeah, man. Feel the love. It's appropriate for six months.

 

[ElephantGuts]

Just roll with it. It doesn't mean anything bad, if anything it'll allow you to ask her to do more things for/to you. If you're smart about it and use it to your advantage, that is.

 

[Random Argument Man]

Situation A. If you love her, sure go for it. You'll probably get more lucky than some of us.

Situation B. You're in between. You're not sure if you love her or not. I say take the relationship anyway. See how it goes. If it turns out she's crazy, leave her. (Trust me, 2 crazies in a row is experience).

Situation C. You don't love her. In fact, you would prefer the term of "friends". Well, tell her you want to be friends.

Situation D. You don't love her. You don't want to be her friend. It's better to stop it now than making it bigger.


Situation E. What ever over the line situation you can think of. I can't help on this one buddy.

 

[historybuff]

So be a man and tell her you don't feel the same way.

Nothing is more obnoxious to me than a man who pussyfoots around the issue and never just says that he's not interested. Stringing her along will make her loath you. And not giving her a straight answer will be the same as stringing her along.

Be upfront. Don't be a wuss. Tell her you don't feel the same way and be done with it.

 

[Ancientgamer]

Don't get a girlfiend if you're not prepared for, no want that eventuality. You tosser.

'Cause,the whole point of such things are essentially just painfully casual courting periods.

 

[crypt-creature]

Okay, couple of questions spring to mind.

1. Why haven't you seen her for 3 months?

2. Do you love her (a), like her (b) or just want to have fun with her (c)?

2a. If you love her, have a face to face talk with her and respond to her feelings. Try to find how how her words happened to come so out of blue.

2b. If you like her, try to find out if this is a prank or some kind wild idea gotten while drunk etc or if she is serious. If the first, laugh it off. If the latter, think of what you want from the future and if it includes her etc. In other words, think what you want from the future and discuss it with her.

2c. If she was kidding, nothing major here. If she is serious, this can only likely end in a heartbreak. Give her the news of your (lack of) feelings as gently as possible. If you have any respect for her, you will not string her along.

2cII. If she's serious, don't lie to her in some attempt to 'soften the blow', as it were.

If something like that startles you so, it probably means you don't share the same feelings. The discomfort might keep any further feelings from developing, it's probably best to think things through on your end and figure out where you stand.

 

[Troublesome Lagomorph]

Go for it. If shes anything like mine, don't bother.

 

[mavkiel]

Ah hell figure I will give some advice. Ask yourself some questions. First off, is do you even like her? If no, it would probably be best to either ignore the letter or let her down easy.

While others may advise taking advantage of her feelings (Regardless if you have any for her), I suggest you look down the road. In 5 years time, who do you really want to see in the mirror?

On a more cynical note, the fact that her sudden declaration of love raised red flags with you ought to give you concern. God only knows if she has a screw loose, trust me hooking up with a crazy women might be fun for a time, but in the end only you will get screwed.

 

[leviathanmisha]

Dude, 6 months into a relationship isn't that bad...my bf told me he loved me after a month and I returned the feelings in full...so be straight with her about it, if you love her tell her and if you don't, tell her...I shall also tell you this is coming from someone who has been in the same relationship for over 2 years.