Poll: Pleasure in sex ed
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Really? I Thought you Norwegians was just as much hippies as we are.Jonluw said:I sort of wish we Norwegians could be more like you Danes on some points.Napierdalac said:Gosh i allways love reading these kind of topics here on the Escapist.
In my sex-ed class, we learned about everything. From diseases to anal sex. Actually we watched a movie that was about 2 hours long, where one hour was a guideline in having fun, stimulating and safe sex. And yes, that movie showed us positions also. From missionary to the jackhammer.
And you know what? None of us, was uncomfortable with it. Because if your raised in a place where you ain't scared of the human body, the human body is a beautiful thing.
God i love being scandinavian.
I mean, the basic stereotype of a Dane is basically a nudist.
But people should really lighten up about sex. Sex is awesome in every way!
No, because for one thing, it's not universal. If people want to have better sex, they should learn to communicate with their partner(s). First we have parents wanting schools to raise their children for them, now we have people wanting schools to train their lovers for them? That's fucked up.
For the record, my "No" vote has nothing to do with any kind of moral stance.
For the record, my "No" vote has nothing to do with any kind of moral stance.
This all depends on where you live, at my Highschool we had the ol' abstenence only lectures, and even at that age i knew they were wrong, yet travel in a few hundred kilometers (im Canadain) in any direction and they were teaching a reasonable curriculum about the actual dangers and ways to minimize them while having sex.SirDoom said:
Although back on topic, I think it would be beneficial to discuss the importance of femail lubrication and possibly some mention of the clitorus and the role it plays, but ultimately pleasure comes down to individuals likes and dislikes. It would be much better to wish that we could have open and frank discussions with our partners about what they are doing right and wrong.
I don't think sex-education should teach anything besides the obvious safety measures and the importance of respect. The particulars ought to be learned through experience or the appropriate literature.
Reminds me of a short dialogue that took place in biology class once, when the subject of the clitoris came up during the chapter on human reproduction..
Teacher mentions the organ in passing.
Student pipes up and says 'That's the business area.'
Teacher awkwardly replies that it is indeed a 'sensitive part of the female anatomy'.
It was funnier at the time.
Reminds me of a short dialogue that took place in biology class once, when the subject of the clitoris came up during the chapter on human reproduction..
Teacher mentions the organ in passing.
Student pipes up and says 'That's the business area.'
Teacher awkwardly replies that it is indeed a 'sensitive part of the female anatomy'.
It was funnier at the time.
Now i agree with this.Donnyp said:
Its interesting, doesn't cover ground people would freak over, and is apart of how Sex works.
For example, i didn't know that, and it can lead into how and why men who are Uncircimcised feel more.
Also, HAH IN YOUR FACE MIDDLE SCHOOL JERKS!
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Generally speaking, no two people are the same. If you want to find out how to please your partner, ask your partner! Chances are they'll be happy to tell you what gets them going.
I don't really think it's all that important for sex-ed to teach "pleasure". They should be able to mention that sex is supposed to be pleasurable, and if it isn't, chances are something isn't going right. But seeing as how everyone is different... I just can't see it working out very well.
I don't really think it's all that important for sex-ed to teach "pleasure". They should be able to mention that sex is supposed to be pleasurable, and if it isn't, chances are something isn't going right. But seeing as how everyone is different... I just can't see it working out very well.
Well, we're still pretty lax about sex.Napierdalac said:Really? I Thought you Norwegians was just as much hippies as we are.Jonluw said:I sort of wish we Norwegians could be more like you Danes on some points.Napierdalac said:Gosh i allways love reading these kind of topics here on the Escapist.
In my sex-ed class, we learned about everything. From diseases to anal sex. Actually we watched a movie that was about 2 hours long, where one hour was a guideline in having fun, stimulating and safe sex. And yes, that movie showed us positions also. From missionary to the jackhammer.
And you know what? None of us, was uncomfortable with it. Because if your raised in a place where you ain't scared of the human body, the human body is a beautiful thing.
God i love being scandinavian.
I mean, the basic stereotype of a Dane is basically a nudist.
But people should really lighten up about sex. Sex is awesome in every way!
It's just that when I'm asked to imagine a Danish stereotype, it pretty much only conjures up an image of a slightly corpulent nudist with red sausage and smørrebrød... Perhaps smoking a joint.
I don't know why I think you're all nudists...
I don't think it's a school's right or really the point of sex ed to teach teenagers on how to pleasure the partner they are with, or are going to be with. As many have said, each person is going to be stimulated differently. I'll go ahead and beat the dead horse by saying what many others have said, that sex ed is just for that. Educating on what the dangers can be, how to protect yourself and your partner, and the options for if something does happen.