Poll: "Real men don't cry" do you agree?

[Bobzer77]

Only the most badass of men are able to cry in public.

Like when at the movies.

Watching Toy Story 3.

 

[NiceGurl_14]

Real men cry, everyone does. I'm a woman and barely cry but that's by choice, (kinda). If the situation is appropriate for such emotions then it's acceptable.

 

[TriggerUnhappy]

Real men don't cry in front of other people.

Thank you. It's important to express your feelings (ie cry), but it's just as important for men to be able to control them. I mean, if you're at the brink of having an emotional breakdown, then fine let go. But, guys shouldn't be crying over small things.

I mean, they can, but I personally frown upon it.

 

[The Procrastinated End]

As long as its not that obnoxious choking cry then you can cry whenever and wherever you want, but please try not to disrupt those around you.

 

[GestaltEsper]

For everyone, not just men, it depends on the circumstance. And the person.

 

[Pegghead]

Real men are capable of showing more emotions than being mad and humour, crying's an expression of emotion.

I mean just look at the end of First Blood, how many other action stars have burst into tears?

 

[101194]

Crying is a human expression. You can cry, as long as you keep to yourself.

Bottling up our emotions in order to survive in this world is just what we do.

I personally think it's okay for a man to cry, It just depends on the situation.

 

[Serenegoose]

I can't see anything gained by suppressing emotions, so I wouldn't recommend it. Surely, when we come up with these silly little societal rules, we should base our formulation of them on evidence, rather than nonsense? What purpose does men not crying serve? Who benefits from this arrangement?

 

[Edorf]

Macho assholes dont cry.

Men can cry whenever they want.

 

[Pegghead]

Only the most badass of men are able to cry in public.

Like when at the movies.

Watching Toy Story 3.

There there man, we've all been there.

Hell, for me there's that and Gran Torino (if you don't tear up even just a little at any point in these movies you have no soul).

 

[Shirokurou]

"No, not at all - they can cry whenever they want at whatever they want."
Fuck yeah.
Crying is proof that your human... And have a heart... And romantic and shit.

So Manly tears, pour away...

 

[Zyphonee]

I don't cry often, but then again, I have it easy.

Crying is a reflex, saying men don't cry is as childish as that game in which someone would try to make you blink by pretending to hit you.

 

[Dystopia]

Depends, are they crying because their dog died, or because they're watching Twilight?

To be fair, you'd cry too if you had to watch Twilight...

 

[Ampersand]

If you're a "real man" then you shouldn't care what people think of you. Hence crying is not a problem. Besides that it's unhealthy to hold it back.

 

[Dr. Manhattan]

It takes a real man to freely express his emotions. Repression is for pussys.

What he said basically. But REALLY overdoing it is bad aswell.

 

[BlumiereBleck]

but real men do cry

 

[L3m0n_L1m3]

Depends, are they crying because their dog died, or because they're watching Twilight?

To be fair, you'd cry too if you had to watch Twilight...

That just made my day. Thank you, sir.

 

[ultrachicken]

I picked the "sometimes" option, but to me that applies to both men and women. I hate dealing with crybabies, but I also hate it when my friends hold back from me, because it makes me think they don't trust me.

 

[zombiesinc]

Not at all. I understand that at one time it was how things were, but times have changed. I can understand a lot of people struggling to express themselves or be open about their feelings, but I don't think people should be thought any less of if they show emotions.

 

[Jamieson 90]

I think in certain circumstances i.e a loved one has died or you have become a father or something along those lines then yes you can cry,otherwise don't do it in front of others.