Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[Julianking93]

And yes.... what you don't do it that much? I mean, fuck that's normally cutting back for me. If there's nothing else to do, I'll just... you know. Or if I can't go to sleep, I'll keep doing it until I can't anymore or put myself into a coma... is that a good thing? No... yeah, no probably >>

Its probably not a good thing, but hell, who am I to judge. I've beat myself to sleep more than a few times.

More than a few times? That's just how I get to sleep every night :3

And yes.... what you don't do it that much? I mean, fuck that's normally cutting back for me. If there's nothing else to do, I'll just... you know. Or if I can't go to sleep, I'll keep doing it until I can't anymore or put myself into a coma... is that a good thing? No... yeah, no probably >>

I can't do it that much...for one, the internet is monitored so that means no Porn. For two, I don't get that much time in private...although I usually do it to go to sleep or in the morning to have incentive to get up :/
If I did it every time I was horny though...

And I'm going to start thinking that way. That all those asshole couples will break up anyways...

Bummer, but I don't use porn
Still, I see what you mean :3

Might not be a good thing though. It only ever seems to fill me with more hatred. Or maybe not. I feel... a little better I suppose but never enough to just let it go. The only thing that does that is sleeping the day off and looking forward to tomorrow. Which, really works for any problem

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Don't worry, I kinda think the same thing. But I take comfort in that mainly because most of the guys in my school are the kind who seek relationships just because for sex, so if the couple breaks up, it means less sex, which for some reason makes me happy... so yeah I try to stay as positive as possible about it.

Maybe that's not really staying posititive or, hell even doing the right thing. As I said, it usually only helps to sleep the day off and wash those feelings away at some point without the thought of anger or hate in your mind. Even the thought of "Oh well, they'll break up anyway" is still bad as you're wishing unhappiness for other people.

Of course, I'm not trying to be all high and mighty. Despite saying all of this, I can't bring myself to do any of it. I'll stay angry about something like this for the rest of the day. It will ruin my day almost guaranteed unless there's something that takes my mind off it. Not really the healthiest thing in the world, but whatever, I guess.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

**snip** My partner and I enjoy (and would like to have more) three/four somes.

Doesn't that spawn a rift between you and your partner, jealousy or anything? It'd drive me mad...

No, it doesn't cause any rifts or jealousy. It's something we can share that brings us pleasure. Like a new sex toy.

Think of it like this - it's like I'm sharing a big banana split with my partner. I get some, my partner gets some. We can both enjoy the vanilla ice cream, or I can eat the strawberry while my partner eats the chocolate.

After all, it's not our friends (the other couple) were romantically interested in us - it was just fun sex to them too. So we all had a good time. We got to try some experiments, try some unique positions that require three or more people, and sample some body parts that we might not normally get to with just one another. And, when it was over, they went into the guest room to sleep while my partner and I stayed in our bed, cuddled, and talked about how much fun we had. It was really nice.

I'm not a very jealous type, and neither is my partner (and neither is the couple we slept with). I'm not saying this would work for everyone - but I wouldn't have stayed with my partner for 8 years if we didn't agree on things like this.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

I most likely do have some sort of cancer. I've been exposed to enough radiation to render me sterile, so I have to assume something else is going on in there too. Throw in the toxic environments I've roamed, and a smoking habit of titanic proportions, and I'd be surprised if I am not diagnosed with cancer in the next 5 years.

Ouch. Well, since you brought it up.

My maternal grandmother, mother, and aunt (her sister) all had uteran cancer when they were between 35 and 45 years old. My maternal grandmother and grandfather both died of cancer, as did my paternal grandmother.

I am sooo fucked - I am a walking genetic time-bomb. And you better believe I get pap smears and mamigrams and all that as regularly as possible because I just know it's going to happen to me too. Normally one doesn't have to worry about that stuff at my age, but with my family history, I'm basically sure that (baring being run over by a bus or something) I'm gonna die of cancer.

So yeah. ^^;; Maybe that's why I'm such a sex-adict - embracing life and all that.

 

[DefunctTheory]

I most likely do have some sort of cancer. I've been exposed to enough radiation to render me sterile, so I have to assume something else is going on in there too. Throw in the toxic environments I've roamed, and a smoking habit of titanic proportions, and I'd be surprised if I am not diagnosed with cancer in the next 5 years.

Ouch. Well, since you brought it up.

My maternal grandmother, mother, and aunt (her sister) all had uteran cancer when they were between 35 and 45 years old. My maternal grandmother and grandfather both died of cancer, as did my paternal grandmother.

I am sooo fucked - I am a walking genetic time-bomb. And you better believe I get pap smears and mamigrams and all that as regularly as possible because I just know it's going to happen to me too. Normally one doesn't have to worry about that stuff at my age, but with my family history, I'm basically sure that (baring being run over by a bus or something) I'm gonna die of cancer.

So yeah. ^^;; Maybe that's why I'm such a sex-adict - embracing life and all that.

You know, sex can cause uteran cancer...

Aw, fuck it (Or fuck him, as the situation stands).

Wait... or fuck... her...

...

Fuck... everything?

Anyway... I know what you mean about a family history. My family has a history of depression, suicide, diabetes, high blood pressure, heart attacks, strokes, seizures, cancer, dementia... so on and so forth.

Never really think about it though.

 

[Dango]

Maybe that's not really staying posititive or, hell even doing the right thing. As I said, it usually only helps to sleep the day off and wash those feelings away at some point without the thought of anger or hate in your mind. Even the thought of "Oh well, they'll break up anyway" is still bad as you're wishing unhappiness for other people.

Of course, I'm not trying to be all high and mighty. Despite saying all of this, I can't bring myself to do any of it. I'll stay angry about something like this for the rest of the day. It will ruin my day almost guaranteed unless there's something that takes my mind off it. Not really the healthiest thing in the world, but whatever, I guess.

Well yeah, positive probably isn't the right word, since it probably more something along the lines of selfish hope, but still, if that selfish hope makes you happy, or at least keeps you from being depressed, it's fine.

And yeah that's kinda what happens to me sometimes, too.

 

[Zanakanishi]

I have had sex, I was 16, my parents did know, as i was engaged and living with her, so ofcourse they knew (god i love how easy people can make their lives in britan) slept with only 2, but slept with them quite a lot of times a day over the past couple of years (not at the same time, sadly.. though i do have a story about my "almost" having a 3 sum, ooh those were the good days :'D )

Casual sex is fine imo, though despite my dashing good looks and my witty personality, I actually don't attract many women, surprising right?

Finally, I hate condoms, make me "shy" for some reason (I think this is where I use the "no offence" option you provided in your edit...well.. one of them) but if the woman gets pregnant, that's her bloody problem for wanting sex with a lazy sod like me

As for the STD part of going without protection, you only live once, if I get any STD's, all the more reason to spread it around, leave a big impact when I die

though saying that, i'm pretty sure I have not moved from this seat for just under 2 days... way to leave an impact, amright?

 

[Squirrel1328]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)

A:Yes

Have you had sex?

A:Yes

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?

A:About a week before my 17th birthday, so technically 16 (it was about 3 weeks ago actually)

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)

A:Yeah, its a bit awkward

How many people have you slept with?

A:1

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a
relationship)?

A:All for it

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were
on the pill)

Arobably not, disease is my main concern

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?

A:Great, but not better than regular sex

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?

A:Yes

What're your views on anal sex?

A:Never tried it and probably won't, i don't get why people enjoy it

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?

A:Yeah i would be up for a 3some and i'd be fine having one with another guy but i'd prefer if i didn't know the other people regardless of whether its with 2 girls or 1 guy and 1 girl

 

[Zanakanishi]

**snip** My partner and I enjoy (and would like to have more) three/four somes.

Doesn't that spawn a rift between you and your partner, jealousy or anything? It'd drive me mad...

About the you are looking for more three/four somes, I could take your number, and if you pay for my taxi, along with some money to buy a sandwich on my way back, (hell, I need money, give me a couple o' hundred and you have a regular) then I would love to help you help you make 3 somes a regular thing.

 

[DefunctTheory]

**snip** My partner and I enjoy (and would like to have more) three/four somes.

Doesn't that spawn a rift between you and your partner, jealousy or anything? It'd drive me mad...

About the you are looking for more three/four somes, I could take your number, and if you pay for my taxi, along with some money to buy a sandwich on my way back, (hell, I need money, give me a couple o' hundred and you have a regualar) then I would love to help you help you make 3 somes a regular thing.

You just... but...

You... prostitute?

 

[Dango]

Despite the amount of sex people at my school have, I've never actually heard of anyone getting pregnant (just a few clearly false rumors). But yes, people at my school are constantly getting wasted or stoned when they have free time. That's part of the reason I'm so lonely, really. I'll my friends have started getting drunk and stoned every weekend(fortunately the most of the girls don't ... or at least the girls that I kinda like don't), but since I'm not really into that, I just spend the weekends by myself ...And I definitely agree with that last part.

Ya, when I complain about being lonely people tell me to go to parties. But I'd rather not sit around watching a lot of superficial bitches and straight men get wasted, stoned and go at it, while I'm completely sober and not high. Oh well, maybe I'll find someone I love that lives near me at some point but for now, I'll stay lonely.

Despite what I've been saying in the last few posts, let me just reassure you that there is always someone, whether it be family or friends, there is always someone willing to be with you or to listen to you. Just seems like a fitting thing to say at a time like this, and it's something that I only figured out quite recently through a series of very odd events

 

[Lineoutt]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex? nope
How many people have you slept with? none
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? fine
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) no stds thanks
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? whatever
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? not really, bleh
What're your views on anal sex? owch

 

[Drummodino]

ESCAPIST. Sup guys:].

Right, sex. More specifically, virginity.

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Have you had sex?
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
How many people have you slept with?
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
What're your views on anal sex?
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

Yes
Yes
17
No
2
Perfectly fine, both of my times so far have been one night stands
Only if in a relationship and you know for sure they don't have an STI
Its very pleasurable, about the same as regular sex
Yes, can't keep all that sexual frustration kept in
Definitely not, sorry to all those who like it but it just disgusts me
Only with two chicks (I'm a dude). I have no problem with homosexuals, but the thought of another penis involved just grosses me out

 

[TheNewDemoman]

I suggest waiting until marriage.

But no for all.

 

[Zanakanishi]

**snip** My partner and I enjoy (and would like to have more) three/four somes.

Doesn't that spawn a rift between you and your partner, jealousy or anything? It'd drive me mad...

About the you are looking for more three/four somes, I could take your number, and if you pay for my taxi, along with some money to buy a sandwich on my way back, (hell, I need money, give me a couple o' hundred and you have a regualar) then I would love to help you help you make 3 somes a regular thing.

You just... but...

You... prostitute?

Bro... it's a cruel world, a man needs to make his money somehow, if this couple turns me down... I have 2 options left.. either drug dealing or being a rent boy... i'm too much of a sarcastic prick to be a rent boy (also, I dislike cock, and my asshole instantly locks up when something goes near it, don't ask how I know that... long story) and i'm.. well.. too much of a prick for jail, as I would get beat to a pulp by big strong men etc.

But, if the moneys right, I may just need to take those chances.

 

[superbatranger]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Happened once. With a friend. We don't talk about it anymore.

Have you had sex?
Nope, and no one has ever told me they would want to with me.

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
can not answer

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
This reminds me of a funny story actually. I'll tell it if anyone wants to hear it.

How many people have you slept with?
Zero

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
Not for everyone, and I have no views on it. Never had sex before, so you can see why I don't have any views on it. But, I can see why people like it.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
Can't answer this.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
My only sexual encounter has been that one instance of oral sex. So, I guess I like it.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
I do. Frequently. It helps me sleep.

What're your views on anal sex?
Some like it, some don't.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
Perhaps. I honestly don't know though. But, yes I would be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

You just... but...

You... prostitute?

Bro... it's a cruel world, a man needs to make his money somehow, if this couple turns me down... I have 2 options left.. either drug dealing or being a rent boy... i'm too much of a sarcastic prick to be a rent boy (also, I dislike cock, and my asshole instantly locks up when something goes near it, don't ask how I know that... long story) and i'm.. well.. too much of a prick for jail, as I would get beat to a pulp by big strong men etc.

But, if the moneys right, I may just need to take those chances.

Umm, no. Really, no. It looks like you'll need to turn to drug dealing.

 

[DefunctTheory]

**snip** My partner and I enjoy (and would like to have more) three/four somes.

Doesn't that spawn a rift between you and your partner, jealousy or anything? It'd drive me mad...

About the you are looking for more three/four somes, I could take your number, and if you pay for my taxi, along with some money to buy a sandwich on my way back, (hell, I need money, give me a couple o' hundred and you have a regualar) then I would love to help you help you make 3 somes a regular thing.

You just... but...

You... prostitute?

Bro... it's a cruel world, a man needs to make his money somehow, if this couple turns me down... I have 2 options left.. either drug dealing or being a rent boy... i'm too much of a sarcastic prick to be a rent boy (also, I dislike cock, and my asshole instantly locks up when something goes near it, don't ask how I know that... long story) and i'm.. well.. too much of a prick for jail, as I would get beat to a pulp by big strong men etc.

But, if the moneys right, I may just need to take those chances.

You do know, that inevitably, prostitution will require butt sex? Especially from this couple, as this user you are propositioning has already confessed that men are better candidates for butt sex. I assume this means she has done it before.

And, honestly, if I was paying someone I saw online for sex, I'd totally shove stuff up they're booty, just for kicks.

 

[Cain_Zeros]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)Yes I have.
Have you had sex? I have indeed.
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? 19, It was pretty amazing, and she actually seemed pretty impressed too (although that could just be because we were at it for an hour and a half because I didn't notice that I'd "finished").
How many people have you slept with? One
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? I have no desire to have casual sex myself, but if someone else wants to I guess that's up to them.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) No. The pill doesn't work for everyone, and I'd rather not take that risk.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? Not better than normal sex, but still pretty good.
Also, do you masturbate? I do.
What're your views on anal sex? She shits out of that. No thank you.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? No. I know myself too well, I'd get jealous, guaranteed.