Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[BoogieManFL]

I had at least 2 opportunities before I actually went through with it. With my first and second real (non-childhood) girlfriends.

First chance was when I was 17.. But I didn't feel it was appropriate. She was 15/16 at the time. That took some willpower, I'll tell you that. As any guy will tell you what hormones are doing to you around that age. But that ended after just about a year and half and I'm glad I didn't accept her multiple advances and take that from her since it didn't work out.

Second girlfriend when I was 19. After a few months we floated around 2nd/3rd base. She got the ball rolling, so to speak.

I waited until I was 21 and was with my 3rd girlfriend for exactly 1 year before we went all the way, and I'm glad I waited until I was more emotionally and mentally mature.

It was worth it to wait.

 

[LaPetite.Siren]

1. Oh yeah
2. Mhm
3. I first had sex when I was 18. It was the romantic, totally intimate kind of sex anyone would want as their first. I had no idea what I was doing, but he was experienced enough..
4. Yeah, my fam knows. They like him, so they don't care actually.
5. Just the one. Living together now and the happiest I've been in a long time.
6. Casual sex seems like a tempting endeavor... when I'm drunk. Otherwise, I only want my man.
7. Actually, that's the only way we do it. I've been having condom-less sex while on the pill for a year.
8. Oral sex: Love giving it- like getting it. It's amazing foreplay.
9. I don't masturbate unless I'm trying to turn him on...
10. OW.
11. I know a woman I would invite to have a threesome with me and my guy...

 

[Zanakanishi]

**snip** My partner and I enjoy (and would like to have more) three/four somes.

Doesn't that spawn a rift between you and your partner, jealousy or anything? It'd drive me mad...

About the you are looking for more three/four somes, I could take your number, and if you pay for my taxi, along with some money to buy a sandwich on my way back, (hell, I need money, give me a couple o' hundred and you have a regualar) then I would love to help you help you make 3 somes a regular thing.

You just... but...

You... prostitute?

Bro... it's a cruel world, a man needs to make his money somehow, if this couple turns me down... I have 2 options left.. either drug dealing or being a rent boy... i'm too much of a sarcastic prick to be a rent boy (also, I dislike cock, and my asshole instantly locks up when something goes near it, don't ask how I know that... long story) and i'm.. well.. too much of a prick for jail, as I would get beat to a pulp by big strong men etc.

But, if the moneys right, I may just need to take those chances.

You do know, that inevitably, prostitution will require butt sex? Especially from this couple, as this user you are propositioning has already confessed that men are better candidates for butt sex. I assume this means she has done it before.

And, honestly, if I was paying someone I saw online for sex, I'd totally shove stuff up they're booty, just for kicks.

As I said, if they can get it in there, go ahead, I don't see that happening though, they would just have to settle for the cock.. and i'm just in it for the entertainment and money, I know how the world works, I know sometimes people need to make sacrifices.... such as butt sex

 

[Zanakanishi]

You just... but...

You... prostitute?

Bro... it's a cruel world, a man needs to make his money somehow, if this couple turns me down... I have 2 options left.. either drug dealing or being a rent boy... i'm too much of a sarcastic prick to be a rent boy (also, I dislike cock, and my asshole instantly locks up when something goes near it, don't ask how I know that... long story) and i'm.. well.. too much of a prick for jail, as I would get beat to a pulp by big strong men etc.

But, if the moneys right, I may just need to take those chances.

Umm, no. Really, no. It looks like you'll need to turn to drug dealing.

Shame, could have been fun.. and I think I will just stick to an average/below-average sex life and a low income from a tediously boring job, good luck with your search.. oh and by the way, please remember, for both our benifit, that I wont say yes when you come crawling back asking to partake in my previous offer.

 

[InnerRebellion]

Nope
Nope
Nope
Yup, they know I'm a virgin
None
Absolutely disgusting
No
Gross, don't want that in the mouth I kiss
No, I have erotophobia and my own features give me the creeps
Nasty
Possibly, but I could not have another guy involved.

 

[Deathkingo]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)--Indeed
Have you had sex? --Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?--19, bloody hell. Was in my guest bedroom, which is odd because I always knew it was going to be in there.
How many people have you slept with?-- Two, both women.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?--I'm alright with it. Just be sheating if you win up in a relationship, though.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)--I've only had unprotected...
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?-- I think it is grand! The unknown acts ahead only escalade the desire more. I believe it to be a stage more than anything.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?--Yes.
What're your views on anal sex?--Eh, no thanks.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?--I could, indeed. No other males, though.

...Anything else you'd like to talk about?--Nah. But you have a good day!

 

[Zanakanishi]

Nope
Nope
Nope
Yup, they know I'm a virgin
None
Absolutely disgusting
No
Gross, don't want that in the mouth I kiss
No, I have erotophobia and my own features give me the creeps
Nasty
Possibly, but I could not have another guy involved.

I'm guessing you are... 15-ish? you have a loooooong way to go kid in a few years you WILL be putting that in your mouth, and you must respect the art that is genitalia, both male and female, it's not "gross".. and also, your around 15, and obviously from a middle+ backround, evidently shelterd, and think kissing is a big deal, but for the wrong reasons, not for the romantic aspect, with me for example, I have a story about how my life got turned upside down. And I'd like to take a minute, just sit right there, I'll tell you how I became the prince of a town called Bel Air... In west Philadelphia born and raised, on the playground was where I spent most of my days, chillin' out maxin' relaxin' all cool. And all shootin some b-ball outside of school, when a couple of guys who were up to no good, startin making trouble in my neighborhood. I got in one little fight and my mom got scared, She said 'You're movin' with your auntie and uncle in Bel Air'

 

[flim.geek.chic]

Lost it at age 19, in Disney World, to a Texan.

 

[MrMetal]

im a gigantic perverted very good looking sociopathic charming man slut. So my answers might be somewhat shocking to men and women alike. Note that i am not boasting about my sexual prowess : ) just sharing my fucked up life so far


Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)

yes

Have you had sex?
yes

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
16

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
my dad knows, doesnt really care, i keep these things from my mom, too fucked up.

How many people have you slept with?
um "gets a calculator" i am 24 and have slept with 71 women so far, with condoms of course, i didnt use a condom on my two serious girlfriends who were on the pill.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
The way things should be as i dont think marriage is about sex...marriage is about two people agreeing to start a family together so they woudlnt look like bastards if they had a kid by accident.


Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

If i didnt get a slutty vibe from her and knew her for a while yes i would...and i have a good radar for that.


What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?

i masturbate...dangerously too much.

depends whos doing oral sex, some girls suck at it...um yeh they are quite bad at it.

What're your views on anal sex?

not my thing, too much screaming and too much accidental poop.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?

had a threesome with 2 girls, 2 guys (Straight) 3girls, and a mother and a daughter(dont ask)


...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

yeah, im going to hell and satan is going to be waiting for me there with a long welcome mat bending over for me to fuck him too.
...

been struggling to get some sex addiction papers for a while now.

 

[theonlyblaze2]

I was over 21 and married my first time. She's the only person I've been with, and to prove it, here's a picture of our son:

Spoiler

EDIT: He's some kind of super baby too, since we were using spermicide with a condom that didn't noticeably break. We're 90% sure of the day he was conceived.

That will be a great story for when he is older. Or it will be proof that he is Super Man, so watch out!

 

[Guffe]

Nope, not yet. Can't say I've been to active either. I go to parties and such but never happen to stumble across any girl. Had a short "relationship" which was about her finding me in different parties and we cuddled and made out on the sofa but never went any further than that and then she found another dude whom I believe she had a longer relationship with.
Basically I don't mind one night stands or casual sex. If people have needs and are on the same lines to just enjoy themselves then go for it. Then again I would never have unprotected sex, not because she is on the pill and won't get pregnant but because she could give me (or if done multiple times I might give her) something that will destroy her/my life. I will stop using protection if I find a partner who I have engaged several times with and am in a relationship with when both are tested against STI:s.
Not sure about the threesome thing and yes I do masturbate, not several times a day and sometimes there are even longer pauses but it happens.

 

[Kernalgohd]

I havent, Buuuut, considering im not even 18 yet, I probably shouldnt, I dont want to until I'm sure I can handle getting a girl pregnant (you never know what could go wrong right?), also, I guess I havent made an effort to show that I'm up for any type of relationship yet.

As to why I'm even on this thread if I'm not 18? Meh, cuz its a hot topic atm? idk, cuz I can I guess.

Anyway, time to answer some questions that could sort of apply to me

What are your views on 'casual sex'?
I think there should be no problems if everyone involved is ok with it, just make sure you get checked for diseases and clarify whether you have one or not before messing around too much.

What're your views on anal sex?
This one, I never could understand, seriously, I'm not gonna lie, I dont like the Idea of putting my thingie where poo has been, unless of course they get an enema, but still...

Nice topic though, and from what the first page looks like, people actually conducted themselves in a mature manner (quite a surprise for me).

 

[TheSkaAssassin]

I actually just lost my virginity last thursday night.
It was OK, a bit how I expected but mostly full of surprises.

 

[the_pleasure_is_mine]

Yes
Yes
16
My Mom and Dad have found numerous condoms in my room and have often seen me meeting girls and such... but they don't expressly know.
2
It's what I'm gunning for right now and it's fine as long as everyone involved is accepting and happy with the proposal.
If I definitely knew she was on the pill and didn't forget it regularly.
Feels good man, giving and receiving.
Of course.
Skewed.
Probably if I was drunk, and there are people of the same sex I would be fine sharing a girl with.
I like cheese.

 

[Mimssy]

I'm 17 and never done anything with anybody.
I view casual sex as being ridiculous but... if that's what other people want to do, it doesn't affect me, so whatever.
But... seeing as I have absolutely zero sexual experience regarding even hugging or kissing... no real reason to post, I suppose.
This thread makes me sad <<

Hey, I had absolutely nothing until I was almost 18. It's no biggie, I promise! I have male friends who are virgins in college who have had absolutely no experience with women at all. It's more common than you'd think. *hug* Plus, it's kind of adorable (and I think adorable is incredibly endearing).

 

[Insideout Ink Demon]

16 - 21 is a wide age range

 

[feeback06]

let's see:
17
slept with 3
Well since I'm married now and I'm sure my Parents know I have sex
Casual sex usually doesn't work
I haven't had sex with a condom in about 2 years
Oral sex is a form of foreplay
Sure
It kinds hurts to do
Had one before and it was nice, but your girl is going to moan with another man or woman so think it over

I guess that's it.

 

[SovietSecrets]

Right, lets get started.

1. Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)

Yes, though I was the one being blown. Not the blower.

2. Have you had sex?

Yup.

3. How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?

I was 11 when I first had sex. It was with my next door neighbor and we just went from making out to more intimate acts. It was on my parents bed I remember.

4. Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)

No thank God. They would kill me.

5. How many people have you slept with?

Six other people in the eight years since.

6. What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?

Casual sex is great. Its a good one to get rid of any sexual frustration or for both involved to have some fun without having to commit to a relationship.

7. Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

If she was on the pill I guess I would think about not wearing a condom, but otherwise I would always wear one.

8. What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?

Fun to try out and good when the person knows what they are doing. Just a normal thing to do, no shame in it.

9. Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?

Yup. Every now and then.

10. What're your views on anal sex?

Not for me. Maybe when I am drunk I could be more into the idea.

11. Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?

Yeah no problem at all for me. Being Bisexual is pretty awesome.

Most people gasp when they hear I lost my virginity at 11 and yeah I do agree that was a mistake. I wish I didn't lose it to a person I really didn't care for at all. It just happened and that was a dumb mistake on both our parts.

 

[Insideout Ink Demon]

to answer properly

1) yes
2) yes
3) 17, one night stand, glad to get it out the way
4) n/a
5) lost count at 30+
6) anything between consensual adults is fine
7) yes i have
8) oral can be hot n intimate
9) yup
10)see 6
11)not for me, i dont like sharing

 

[Emz]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Yes.

Have you had sex?
Yes.

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
Me and my boyfriend at 18, we were both virgins so as you can imagine it was quick and clumsy.

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
I'm 22 so guess this doesn't really apply.

How many people have you slept with?
Just my boyfriend. We've been together over 4 years.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
If both sides are happy about it then whatever but it is not personally for me.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
Me and my boyfriend have only used the pill as protection plenty of times. As long as the girl (so me in this circumstance) takes them correctly then it's safer than condoms I believe (percentage wise for protecting from pregnancy not from diseases obviously but me and my boyfriend have only ever slept together.) It feels nicer for both of us when we use just the pill but if I am not on it I will use condoms as I do not want to be a mum just yet.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
I prefer sex.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?
I do but not very often.

What're your views on anal sex?
Sounds immature but "I poop from there" is pretty much how I see it. The idea of putting things up there I dislike.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
I'm not sure. I don't think I would though.