Poll: Sex And You. Let's keep this mature.

[Haydyn]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' Yes

Have you had sex? No

What are your views on 'casual sex' Want to loose my virginity to someone i care about, then if that doesn't work out I'll hopefully get lots of casual sex.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? Yes

What do you think of oral sex? I like it if the girl can go deep enough.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Yes. Want to stop though.

What're your views on anal sex? I'm not turned on by it. Don't find it repulsive though.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved? Yes and Yes.

I regret not finding someone sooner. I'm almost 19 and I hate being a virgin. I just want to loose my virginity to someone I care about, hopefully another virgin. I regret not living a wild life in high school. It's all I ever think about. I just wanna be 14 again. All my friends are dating and I'm stuck with no date getting no sex. Don't know what to do about it. Part of me wants to push forward and wait til marriage only because I've made it this far already. I'm just not that attracted to girls 20 and up. Unfortunately I'll never find a girl who likes video games, swing dancing, wrestling, weed, and Jesus, let alone one who can put up with my craziness.

 

[aegix drakan_v1legacy]

I'm a total virgin, and have no plans to go there with my girlfriend (not for a VERY VERY long time, at least) so the first few questions don't apply to me.


-What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?

Not really in support. I mean...It's a matter of respect for the other person, you know? Sex is pretty much the most intimate thing you can do with someone, so doing so with someone you really don't care about just (just for kicks) seems kinda disrespectful.

Then again, that's just how I feel. If that's your thing, by all means, go ahead.

-Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

Uh.....Probably not. Hell, I'd probably use the condom AND make sure she's on the pill. I would want to take no risks, PERIOD.

-What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?

The thought of swallowing spunk (or unloading it into someone's mouth) disgusts me...It's just...eww...

But again, if that's your thing, go for it. Me, I'll avoid that, thank you.


-Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not?

...........*sigh* Yes. Yes I do. Not proud of it, but yeah. Usually when I'm half asleep and the wrong thoughts cross my mind and I'm too sleepy to think straight and then...oops.

But ahh well. Keeps my prostate healthy, so no complaints.

- What're your views on anal sex?

Not my thing.

-Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?

Nah, doesn't appeal to me. But I can see why other people might like it.

 

[Raistlinhawke]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.) - Yes

Have you had sex? - Yes

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? - 16

How many people have you slept with? - Haven't counted

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? - Fantastic

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) - Possibly, depends on the trust level of the relationship

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? - Inferior to full intercourse, but always a good time investment.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? - Constantly

What're your views on anal sex? - Not particularly a fan

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved? - Sure, and sure

 

[Zaik]

I was 18. It was absolutely terrible and a total waste of my time. She pretty much just laid there and howled like some sort of wounded animal until I got tired of it.

As I've gotten older, it hasn't really improved at all.

 

[pixiejedi]

I've had sex, with my husband, and only him.
Not like I'm big with the religion personally, its just that he is the only one I've been with since I was 15 and all that. We always use a condom and I am on the pill to make sure we don't have kids yet.

I personally couldn't do casual sex, its not something I'm casual about but great for those who can. I feel too vulnerable being all naked in front of someone else.

Personally oral sex is the least sexy thing to me. Both giving and receiving is kinda gross, but I try for the poor bloke .

As for threesomes, I talk a big talk and there are chicks out there that I wouldn't mind in theory. The problem is that I'd be to worried of being left out of the action and being dumped for the other woman. And no two man stuff for me, I can't handle too much sausage

Anal sex ain't going to be happening up in here. That's for sure, I'm a one way street on that one.

For me, sex really isn't that big of a deal. Pop culture seems to suggest that sex changes your life and is super important. It's really just something to do. I think it is more important that you are mature enough to either protect yourself or be able to handle the repercussions that sex can bring. Teen Mom on MTV seems indicative to me that a lot of people can't do that, which is sad.

 

[StormShaun]

Im waiting for the "One" Just like in clannad.....

 

[InfiniteSingularity]

Question: What's the risk of STD's without a condom if it's your first time?

 

[Outright Villainy]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.) - Yup.
Have you had sex? - Yup.
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? - I was 18.
How many people have you slept with? - Just the one.
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? - I'm completely okay with it, and if I were single I'd probably partake in it if the oppurtunity arose.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) - Been there, done that.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? - It's all good, though really I prefer regular sex for the most part. No reason not have some variety though! Also, I'm probably one of the only guys ever that prefers giving than getting...
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? - What kind of question is that? Yes.
What're your views on anal sex? - No thanks.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved? - If the relationship was casual, then certainly, even if it were same sex. Not in a stable relationship like now though. Not worth risking it.

 

[live2laugh]

Have you had sex?
Yes
How old were you when you first did?
19 nearly 20
How many people have you slept with?
1
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
am fine with the idea of casual sex, was with my ex who didn't belive in sex before marraige for 4 years, so it's nice to have no string attached and benefits
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
haven't currently would have to think about it a lot if i did, being pregnant would really screw things up right now
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex?
meh sometimes it's nice for a change
Also, do you masturbate? Do you watch porn?
yes and yes

 

[SoulIsTheGoal]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
I have, yes
Have you had sex?
Indeed
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
I was 20. It was with a woman in her early 30's and she came to my student house and stayed there for 3 days.
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
Holy shit I hope not
How many people have you slept with?
Just her
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
I think I'd rather be with a long-term partner.
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
If it was a long term thing, yeah. Not if it was casual.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
I prefer it, yeah.
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Do you watch porn? Regularly?
It's only natural ; ) No porn for me though.
What're your views on anal sex?
I'd try it, but it's not something I'm really interested in.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
If it was casual I wouldn't mind, but if it was serious I think that would put me off
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
Nope.

 

[Colour Scientist]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.) - Yes

Have you had sex? - Yes

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience? - 17

How many people have you slept with? - 3 (I'm 19 now)

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)? - No problem with other people doing it whatsoever, I've tried it, s'alright.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill) - I don't use condoms with my boyfriend because I'm on the pill but we used condoms until I trusted him enough. And condoms are shit.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why? - I prefer penetrative sex but oral is always encouraged.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? - Who doesn't?

What're your views on anal sex? - Can't say I've been brave enough to try it.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved? - Yeah provided I wasn't in a relationship with anyone involved. I can get pretty jealous sometimes.

 

[s0p0g]

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
-yes

Have you had sex?
-yes

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
-22; didn't want to rush nothing, and wanted to wait for someone i genuinely cared for (no literal effing around from my side), which i did. my girlfriend (not a virgin anymore when we got together) was fairly content with that - because "you can train [the virgin] to do what you like, the way you like it" (yes, she was a bit freaky about some things hehehe)

Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
-sure, but it's not applicable due to your definiton

How many people have you slept with?
-one

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
-not my thing, but i guess it's ok as long as both are aware of the casual-ness (term?) and agree on the EULA

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
-i did, she was on it, but i wouldn't do it again. accidental gravidity - is accidental, uh i mean unfortunate. damn, how i was hoping for her next monthly period ^^"

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
-would like to try it (both receiving and "biting the peach", as a friend of mine put it - i sort of like the expression ^^ could be that this is because we were a little drunk when he said that, and when you're drunk many many things seem funny, so maybe i just like the memory of it being funny... oh, i digress ^^), but that requires two persons' consensus, and she wasn't consent, due to prior experiences with some asshole guy, sooo... yeah.

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Do you watch porn? Regularly?
-yes, yes, no (whatever regularly may be)

What're your views on anal sex?
-eww, i don't want it to look like a damn' frying sausage!!

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
-did think about it (3some), but didn't come to a conclusion - i *think* i'd like to try it; BUT: no second guy! what was ok when i still was together with my girlfriend, since she was ok with other girls. but we didn't really have the opportunity.
more than 3some? i don't know, really. guess i'd have to be confronted with that to know what i think about it ^^

...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
-*scratches head* ...no?


huh. i wonder why i typed all this
...another time fooor: temet nosce! ^^

 

[Uncreation]

Yes, i've had sex. Once. When i was 24. I'm too lazy to answer the rest of the questions.

 

[Ohhi]

Yes I have had sex.
I was thirteen when I first had sex. my first experience was kind of embarassing let's just say that I didn't last as long as I wanted to.
yes my parents know.
I have slept with 16 different people.
casual sex is what I live by it's what I do.
Umm yeah I would have sex with a girl on the pill without using a condom hell I've had sex with multiple girls without the use of a condom.
I personally love oral sex but it is not better than normal sex and yes I do masturbate I find it helps relieve stress.
I've only had anal sex a few times but I found it to be enjoyable and so did the girls I did it with.
Oh yeah I would have threesome and it would not bother me to have someone of the same sex be in it hell already done that.

 

[MagnetoHydroDynamics]

Spoiler

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
Yes
Have you had sex?
Very Yes
How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
17
Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
Does it matter? they're very liberal and trust me to act resposibly.
How many people have you slept with?
One girl
What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
I don't need it, but to me it's no taboo...
Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
Yes. But only with long lastign partner.
What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
It's okay. Penetrative intercourse is still better...
Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Do you watch porn? Regularly?
Yes, but only about once per week. I am an avid collector of hentai pornography.
What're your views on anal sex?
It's okay as long as hygeinic measures are taken.
Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
No. Maybe. Mostly because my view of sex is that it should be intimacy between two people, not 3.
...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
I am a bisexual man, I am currently in a long relationship (18? months) with a girl (my only sexual partner so far), we have sex on a regular basis.

 

[Ayjona]

How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?

16, and it was, at the same time, a wonderful, comical, erotic and sweet affair, together with the first powerful love of my life back then.

How many people have you slept with?

Judging by these threads, an obscene amount. But then, Sweden is considerably more sexually liberal than much of the world, and I am uncommonly sexually open-minded and liberal even among ye olde perverted vikings.

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?

Wonderful, and a main staple of those periods of my life when I am single. Not as extremely powerful, explosive, surreal, dreamlike and overwhelming as the best sex I've had in a relationship (with the love of my life, the one I doubt will ever be surpassed), and not quite as wonderful as a few other cases of inter-relationship sex, but still a very powerful expression of desire and want, one that actually offers several peculiar and unique sensations and pleasures never found in sex within a relationship. Before I met the love of my life, I would have been hard-pressed to choose between the two.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)

I've done so a great many times, and, far more foolishly, with girls who were not on anything. After several close brushes with tragedy, I finally decided to shape up, man up, and wise up.

What do you think of oral sex?

Essential to a varied, colorful and persistently stimulating sex life, for both partners. Since I've a particular penchant for deep throating, brutal and messy orals (both ways, for all participants, not just as the giver or receiver), throat fucking, etc (and, indeed, for almost all parts of the darker and more brutal side of consensual sex), oral sex is a practice I seek to constantly refine, even more than most other areas of sex.

Do you watch porn?

Preferably that which I've taken a part in recording and starring in, and preferably unscripted and spontaneous. Otherwise, rarely, as it seldom becomes more than a pale imitation of recordings of real-life and spontaneous sexual situations.

What're your views on anal sex?

Another staple of a healthy and varied sex life. Contrary to popular opinion, especially powerful and pleasing (if done right, something far too few couples do) for the receiver, *far* more so than for the giver. Also important as an instrument in domination and humiliation play.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?

As a general rule, threesomes and group sex is a vastly overrated phenomenon. But yes, it is far more fun if there is a plural of members from both sexes, and all are open to bisexual exploration and experimentation.

...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

Important to point out, for someone with such a passion for a majority of all recorded forms of consensual sex, which includes many strange, painful, humiliating and brutal practices, is that I would never do unto another what I was not ready to experience myself. Go figure

 

[blackflare]

Honestly never happened

Im 23 and never really felt love for anyone. Im more of a wait and see because i feel sex without that connection is worse because i grew attached to someone after having a meaningless fling would hurt more.

 

[Kanlic]

Spoiler: First couple of questions.

Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
yea, lots of times in High school, some since college

Have you had sex?
oddly enough, no. However something might have happened one New Year's but I was piss drunk so I won't count that if it did happen

What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
People have it all the time and it has become more acceptable in this day and age. Being an atheist, I don't see any punishment for sex other than the risk of an STD, so have as much sex as you want fellas and especially you dames.

Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
Yea, it would make having sex more spontaneous and cheaper in the long run.

What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
Well I have dealt with a ton of 3rd base action in my day, so I give it a big thumbs up. It is something people are usually willing to do if going all the way isn't their thing for the night, and if people have these sexual-tension valves at full-pressure, what's wrong with a little release?

Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Do you watch porn? Regularly?
I masturbate like the sun rises in the morning, its guaranteed and I am always looking forward to it. With the amount of free porn on the internet, waxing the carrot has never been better.

What're your views on anal sex?
Well the friends of mine who do engage in such unconventional ways tell me you face the risk of being shit on. If that's your thing, good for you, but if someone ever poops on me I don't think I would ever stop vomiting.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
Sure, I think it would be a fun thing to experience at least once in your life. Chances are if I do get in a 3-way, it is going to be me, a coked-up buddy, and a fat chick we found at some party. Then again it's not supposed to be a glamorous occasion when two dudes are giving a teenage runaway a bukake shot while high-fiving.

And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?
I have been trying to have sex for as long as I had any inclination to the female persuasion. I am a pretty good-looking guy, I am tall, well built, funny, bi-lingual, and have a pretty good face with deep-blue eyes to boot. This, I have learned, aint good enough, because event the most unattractive of my friends has bedded with at least 3 ladies, and my struggles to have just one drives me insane. It has been a great source of shame for me living amongst people who have known the touch of another person, and at times I don't think it will ever happen.

This is an issue that is accentuated by the fact that people just assume that I have had lots of sex, and when their reactions are a predictable and comical "what-What-WHAT!?" my shame even worsens. I don't know the particular reason as to why I can't do this, but I am sure this low self-esteem/shame thing must be a part of the reason.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Spoiler

What're your views on anal sex?

Another staple of a healthy and varied sex life. Contrary to popular opinion, especially powerful and pleasing (if done right, something far too few couples do) for the receiver, *far* more so than for the giver. Also important as an instrument in domination and humiliation play.

Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?

As a general rule, threesomes and group sex is a vastly overrated phenomenon. But yes, it is far more fun if there is a plural of members from both sexes, and all are open to bisexual exploration and experimentation.

...Anything else you'd like to talk about?

Important to point out, for someone with such a passion for a majority of all recorded forms of consensual sex, which includes many strange, painful, humiliating and brutal practices, is that I would never do unto another what I was not ready to experience myself. Go figure

So true.

Although, I will say one thing about the "never do unto another" bit - if the other wants something that I don't particularly like, then I'm often willing to do unto them that which I wouldn't want done to me. I am always careful and considerate at such times, as I don't want to push too far. That said, I've learned a lot about certain individuals and how much they can take (and how much they like to take).

 

[spartan231490]

-No I have not.
-I don't believe in casual sex for a number of reasons, mostly because I don't think it works.
-I wouldn't be eager to have sex without a condom, even with birth control pills but I wouldn't be against it either.
-Not repulsed by oral sex, can't comment on how good it is.
-I would not participate in a threesome unless some very strange circumstances arose. I believe in mutual exclusivity.

I have not had sex because I have not had a serious relationship yet. I choose to wait until I do.

No opinion on dogging really. Consenting adults and all that.