BlueberryMUNCH said:
ESCAPIST. Sup guys:].
Right, sex. More specifically, virginity.
1) Have you had a 'sexual encounter' (eg. oral sex and whatnot.)
2) Have you had sex?
3) How old were you when you first did? Wanna tell us about your first experience?
4) Do your parents know? (Only really applicable for under 18's.)
5) How many people have you slept with?
6) What are your views on 'casual sex' (sex outside of a relationship, with no desires to be in a relationship)?
7) Would you have sex without a condom if the girl, was on the pill? (or would you, if you were on the pill)
8) What do you think of oral sex? Better than normal sex? Does it repulse you? Why?
9) Also, do you masturbate? If not, why not? Do you watch porn? Regularly?
10) What're your views on anal sex?
11) Could you ever have a 3some (or more)? Would you be comfortable with someone of the same sex being involved?
12) ...Anything else you'd like to talk about?
13) And hey, if you haven't, why not? Is it out of choice? Why?
Okay, so it appears from my random searches through the forum history this thread will be resurrected... again. Oh well, better than just copy/pasting old threads to make new ones.
Anyway, to the questions.
1) & 2) No, unfortunately.
3) N/A at age 20.
4) Oh God, I wouldn't want them to know even if I had done so now that I'm at college! They did everything (and I mean
EVERYTHING) in their power to keep me in the dark about dating, relationships, and sex for as long as possible. They knew I had little chances to learn from other students due to my severe social anxiety and clinical depression, so that plan mostly worked up until I was 16, at which point they couldn't find a good enough excuse for my high-school to get me out of P.E. during the sex-ed part. Due to such an extreme take on the subject I don't think they'd be too keen to hear anything about me partaking in it, even if I was being incredibly safe. In fact, they flipped shit by just finding the
unopened condom pack in my room a couple months before I left for college (it seems they routinely went though my room to look for just such things) despite it just being a precaution and that I wasn't sexually active yet- and wow, this has gone on for quite a bit. /endrant
5) None
6) I don't hold any kind of lifestyle choices against anyone so long as they're not intentionally trying to harm others and, in cases like this, consensual. Given how stress relieving it's supposed to be and that I've been building up a lot of stress since starting college, I could be willing to go with it given my past luck with even finding relationships.
7) Depends; I know I'm clean from a recent test, but I'd want proof that my partner was clean as well and on the pill beforehand. However, I'd probably still use condoms just to be on the safe side. Two forms of protection are better than one, right?
8) Having no idea how it feels compared to other forms, I don't know if I'd prefer it over the other orifices. I've definitely heard good things about it, so I wont be against it should the offer arise, but until then, I'm going to assume vaginal is much better.
9) Yes, it being one of the few things on the subject I found out on my own, no thanks to my parents. I have to ponder what sane and able person (adolescent and older) wouldn't? 4-5 times a week on both accounts (since they typically go together) is my average, a bit more if it's a particularly stressful week or have trouble getting to sleep.
10) Definitely willing to try if possible, but of course, that's mainly dependent on the woman in question.
11) Good in theory/fantasy, but I don't think it would happen in my reality unless it was brought up by my partner to add another woman. Don't think I could handle another man joining in due to sheer embarrassment, so I wouldn't put her through that unless she was comfortable with it.
12) Not really- Strike that, I have to wonder why (at least where ever I've lived) the geeky/nerdy community are rarely, if ever, given stores, clubs, events, or any other thing that encourage meeting others with similar interests. Given that most people I've known with similar interests try to hide them in public (like it's something to be ashamed about), it would make finding girls I'm interested in so much easier, but it seems that there are only really those kinds of things for sports nuts. This unfortunately seems to translate over to what the girls in the area like, and only really have it out for sporty types.
13) Again, due to my parents and some mental issues, this aspect of my life was repressed for a while. And even though these aren't really an issue for me now, it doesn't help that the college degree I'm working for keeps me so busy I don't have much free time, not that the people at the dorms here haven't been that sociable lately except for when they get drunk, and I get really nauseous when I get even a whiff of alcohol. It also doesn't help that most single women I've met over the past few years are really turned off by my geeky interests. So, definitely not because I don't want to, but out of many strokes of bad luck regarding my social life.
