Poll: She's really into me... she just doesn't know who I am

[GrandAm]

It could also be a ploy on her part. Maybe she knows who you really are and has had a crush on you; hoping you would ask her out. Maybe she thinks society says she can't ask a guy out so this was just a clever ploy to get the ball rolling from you. Maybe she was expecting you clear the "mistaken identity," but you rolled with it and it back fired. So then she said Natalie expecting to through you off. Maybe she likes that you were quick enough to think of a reasonable backstory.

I say come clean. If this was just a clever ploy to get you talking to her, you have a new babe and she gets what she wanted.

If she actually thought you were somebody else, it seems she might like you anyway.

If she really didn't know and feels embarressed by the truth to the point of anger at you; tell her the reason why you couldn't say you weren't Nick was because she was too lovely and sweet to let her down. Flattery can sometimes snuff an anger fire. As long as it is sincere and not vulger. You know don't tell her I pretended because "you have a nice rack and I wanted to spend time with them." Ya, that one doesn't go to well.

 

[marksee]

She doesnt care what your name is!!!! If she actually knew this nick way back when then shed of got that it wasnt you straight away, just call her up and after like 5m tell her the truth shes clearly more interested in the here and now "nick" anyway dude. M

 

[ProfessorLayton]

Dude. That sounds like something out of a sitcom. Even if things turn out horribly, that will be one hell of a story.

I personally couldn't lie like that to save my ass, but you should go for it. It sounds like you're a pretty good liar, so maybe you could make this work.

 

[FallenJellyDoughnut]

Just don't call her and if you run into her, just bolt off.

 

[bluepilot]

She obviously cannot know this `Nick` Person so well if she got the two of you mixed up.

Just ring her up, come clean, say, `I am really sorry, but I didn`t want to embarrass you` e.t.c. e.t.c. lots of grovelling. You are already in way too deep and she might be really angry and never speak to you again.

However, if you continue the charade, she will definaly be angry and definatly not speak to you again.

 

[katsa5]

What is this, a sitcom?!

 

[Rigs83]

Ok, so a bit of backstory first. I am the most generic looking person of all time. Now that we have that out of the way, today I was walking from my class to my car and I hear this girl yell "Nick" really loud (This isn't my name BTW). So you know, natural reaction, you hear a loud noise, you react to it. So I look over and this smoking hot girl runs up and gives me a hug and a kiss on the cheek, and then starts telling me about how she hasn't seen me in over a year and things of that nature for about 2 minutes. Now, to avoid an extremely awkward situation and just because I have a sense of humor, I just sort of go along with it.

So I make some small talk with her for about, 10 minutes, (she's dropping major hints that she's into me) and then she asks "So how are you and (Natalie?)" and I just pulled out of my ass something along the lines of, "well she's going to SDU, I'm here at (my college) and with the whole long distance thing we both decided that it wasn't going to work out." So she tells me that she doesn't have a boyfriend right now and asks for my number. At this point I'm kind of committed to the lie that I'm this Nick guy so I tell her I dropped my phone and now it doesn't work so I'm switching to Cingulair and I probably won't have the same number. So she writes down her number for me and tells me to call her when I get a new phone, then hugs me again and runs off to her next class.

So now I have her number and I really have no idea what I should do. I could keep pretending to be Nick. Sure, that will blow up in my face probably very quickly, but I would have an interesting story to tell for the rest of my life. I could call her and come clean. I feel like kind of an asshole for getting her hopes up, and she did seem pretty into me anyways. Or I could just not call her, but then i might run into her again and that will be just as awkward. So what do you think I should do? And do you think if I come clean I still have a chance with her, or will she be too pissed off at me?

Oh, sidenote. just as a complete mindfuck to top it all off, I come home and the movie fightclub is on TV. If you've seen it you know what I'm talking about.

You are man and must lie for [HEADING=1]SEX![/HEADING]
Your father lied to your mother, Anakin lied to Padme, and Adam lied to Eve. If men did not lie then society would crumble and the forests would reclaim the land. Go forth and lie, lie with all your heart and get some nookie!
You may go to hell but you will at least have a story to tell.
[HEADING=3]Here's a primer to help you.[/HEADING]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H72EdDQmKwk[/youtube]

 

[dietpeachsnapple]

If you want any chance at all, meet her for coffee and, amidst blushing and great humility that you really like her and you couldn't live with yourself if you so quickly sought to ruin an opportunity to know her better.

aka come clean. You still have a pretty good story, and you don't want to be "that guy."

 

[Deef]

I'm just gonna point out the obvious, you are asking GAMERS for relationship advice. The majority of gamers (not all, mind you) won't be entering a relationship any time soon. I wish you luck because I know what this is like. So I'll offer some personal exp. Don't go in too strong, you'll look like a creep. On that same note however, don't go in too weak or you'll look not interested. Just start with small talk, and work your way up from there. and if she's not interested, she's not interested. don't force it. Relationships are tricky things.

That's not relevant to the OP at all. Try reading it.

Come clean, a chance at success is better than a guaranteed failure.

 

[thiosk]

lol, thats classic.

i'd come clean

but then again, i seldom have anonymous sex with hot strangers.

 

[Infallible Fail]

i reeeeeally wanted to put call her and pretend to be nick some more, but the second option sounds just like from some awesome chick flick. you come clean and she likes you... or something... ? lol. you should meet with her and tell her then. LOL

 

[lava_lamp]

call her and keep pretending to be nick

this is too fucking funny

 

[The_Echo]

Honesty is a virtue. Coming clean is the best thing to do. Continue lying, and you'll just seem like a huge dick when she finds out. Don't do anything and it'll just be weird if you bump into her again. Tell the truth, and she may understand. Maybe. But I can almost guarantee either way is better than the other two outcomes.

 

[SGDeath2]

in the end it just cant end well for you, with a foot in the groin or worse, gossip about you. We all know how bad that can be, just come clean man.

 

[2012 Wont Happen]

change your name to Nick...

 

[Magnatek]

Honesty is a virtue. Coming clean is the best thing to do. Continue lying, and you'll just seem like a huge dick when she finds out. Don't do anything and it'll just be weird if you bump into her again. Tell the truth, and she may understand. Maybe. But I can almost guarantee either way is better than the other two outcomes.

The eye speaks the truth. Honesty, in all honesty(heh), is one of the greatest things humanity could ever use. Tell her about the mixup, and it should hopefully be fine. I would recommend to NOT do it over the phone, though. I've paid witness to many a negative thing said over the phone.

 

[Cakes]

No one gives a fucking shit about morals, my friend. It's not just the internet, it's the world. Moralfags in real life have no morals, they do it to look good. If he asked one of his friends, they'd say to go along with it. A lot of people would.
OT: Go with it, and keep a blog or something about the whole thing. If you get to the point that you marry her, and then tell her your not Nick, oh god, that'd be a huge fucking win on your part.

Yeah...no. I actually feel this is awful. I guess I'm the only one.

 

[Aur0ra145]

As far as I'm concerened, you're Nick to me.

Do it, live the lie. Have fun, get laid and disappear back to being yourself.