It's risky to tell her. I was friends with a girl and I told her how I felt about her and we ended up not talking for a year. Luckily we're friends now. I got a girlfriend and she's still single so I win!
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FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS JUST DO NOT WAIT!!!!!
Telling her is what I'd do, but moving on is the smarter thing if shes been in that relationship for long time (2+ years). I should know i have the exact same problem.
Telling her is what I'd do, but moving on is the smarter thing if shes been in that relationship for long time (2+ years). I should know i have the exact same problem.
Move on, waiting only leads to more heartache.
However, you could still secretly pine for her and keep your eyes & ears open in case something should change but don't let that keep you from missing out on someone else amazing who could come into your life.
However, you could still secretly pine for her and keep your eyes & ears open in case something should change but don't let that keep you from missing out on someone else amazing who could come into your life.
You have to tell her or move on. Nothing sucks more than the "Friend Zone", believe me.
I voted tell her. What do you have to lose? Tell her, to her face, in an open manner. Tell her you don't expect her to leave her boyfriend, but that you hope she might feel the same way back.
I voted tell her. What do you have to lose? Tell her, to her face, in an open manner. Tell her you don't expect her to leave her boyfriend, but that you hope she might feel the same way back.
Tell her; if she has feelings for you, she'll go either of two ways (tell you (personal experience 1)) or go completely schiz because you told her while she had a boyfriend (personal experience 2)).
Women are strange things, my child. You don't know how they'll act, so just learn for yourself.
Women are strange things, my child. You don't know how they'll act, so just learn for yourself.
Aren't you like 12? (Checked your profile)
She isn't going anywhere. Just wait your silly ass. Teenage relationships don't last that long. You guys still have all of highschool to make it happen.
So yea.
She isn't going anywhere. Just wait your silly ass. Teenage relationships don't last that long. You guys still have all of highschool to make it happen.
So yea.
From my personal experience through my senior year of high school, the greatest mistake you can make is both waiting AND getting attached. Girls have real bad commitment issues right now, ironically when all the guys I know are finally willing to just go after once girl.
The best thing you can do is move on; if you told her, she's in no position to do anything with you right now. Waiting will never be a good thing to do; you don't know how long you'll do it, and in the event you don't meet a girl thats just as awesome and single, the current one will always be there (assuming you stay friends) that you can fall back to if you still feel that way.
The best thing you can do is move on; if you told her, she's in no position to do anything with you right now. Waiting will never be a good thing to do; you don't know how long you'll do it, and in the event you don't meet a girl thats just as awesome and single, the current one will always be there (assuming you stay friends) that you can fall back to if you still feel that way.
since you're 14 just know this: move on, it will be much better because as a girlfriend you will date, and most likely break up within 2 years, and you will never see her again, but if you still want to be close to her no matter what, than a friendship is the better choice.
I've been in the same situation you were in, I told her how I felt, and waited. She and her boyfriend broke up (unrelated cause). A friend of mine asked her out right afterwards, I waited a little while, and asked her out aswell. She told us both she wanted to wait untill she was fully over her ex. I was just there for her, comforted her, told her that she was better off without him. My other friend was pushy and she told him no. She never gave me an answer, some other bloke, one who she never talked about, probably didn't even know. Asked her out and she said yes. Never giving me an answer(which means I basically got a no). Well, now she back with he frist boyfriend (the guy she was dating when I told her I liked her) and she wants to start talking to me again, so my advice is.
Move On. She doesn't like you the way you like her, she probably never will.
Move On. She doesn't like you the way you like her, she probably never will.
Tell her. Do it. Just do it. If at all possible, go and tell her RIGHT NOW. In a long and viscous romantic history, I always, 100% of the time regretted not saying something, and even when things didn't exactly go well, I have never regretted just saying whats on my mind. Now granted your young, and that means you should be prepared for a confusing shitstorm which, although it doesn't get any better with age, you at least have a vague idea what to expect. Try to keep things in perspective, and don't get obsessive...but just go for it.
I thought you meant she was cheating on you when I read the title. You're not her boyfriend so you have no right to feel aggrieved, either move on or wait your turn.
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Okay, I'm in a similar situation, although I've already made my decision on it and my decision was patience. I also distanced myself from her somewhat.
If you do tell her, then do it in a casual way. Don't ask her out obviously, but tell her that you like her and that you have feelings for her. Leave it at that and don't elaborate.
If you do tell her, then do it in a casual way. Don't ask her out obviously, but tell her that you like her and that you have feelings for her. Leave it at that and don't elaborate.
You march out there and you tell her ass! You let that summbich know how you feel. There may just be the off chance that she's been waiting for your ass for so long she settled for some not-as-cool-as-you type dude and is just killin time with him, until your meek little ass strolls on over and gives her the business. Lol, seriously though, tell her. What've you got to lose at this point? She might be sweet and nice and all that gravy shit, but completely oblivious to how it is you feel, regardless of how many not-so-subtle hints you might throw at her. Roll out there, balls out, and free your emotions. It's not gonna make her get with you any more or less, considering her situation, but you'll know that you did what you needed to do to get that whole process started for yourself. If she's seeing someone else, at this point, you gotta kinda try to rack up what little self-satisfaction as you can. It's not completely impossible, but odds are the results may not exactly be what them to be.