Poll: She's seeing someone else....
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If you tell her how you feel she may feel the same. If not you can move on without anything eating away at you. Good luck, we've all been there im sure!
Relationships don't tend to last long when youre young. Hang around as a friend and when her relationship gets in trouble you can be a shoulder to cry on... who tea bags her.
Good luck, there are loads of women out there and you don't need to be in a relationship. Have fun instead.
Good luck, there are loads of women out there and you don't need to be in a relationship. Have fun instead.
9 years? wow.Lullabye said:
As Mr.Grey says, everyone is different. All I can say is if it's meant to be you'll do the right thing, and if not then you won't. Guess my advice is even less useful but don't regret whatever you end up doing.
Ok well the worst thing you could possible do is 'move on', because that just cant happen i dont think. you clearly have very strong feelings 4 dis girl and you cant just 4get about them. do you tell her or not? well that all depends on the situation between ye and the girl herself. like some girls even if they did like you and u told them while they were seein some1 else might just not no what to do and so would tell you they didnt like you even thou they might. that just depends on the girl. and another might leave the chap shes with there and then. or of course you could wait 4 her to be single. but if they do break up i wouldnt go tellin her how you feel straight away, give her some space, caus some girls might see that as you takin advantage of them. but tbh, deep down i think you know what you gotta go. i dont, but ive been in this kinda situation b4, and i knew what i had to do, and i was lookin 4 ppl to confirm that to me, but i always knew. im not tryin to tell ya what to do like, but please please please do not try and 'move on', caus you may regret it for years
Seeing as how I'm a girl I can safely say telling her could cause some major issues with her, especially if she likes you back. If that is the case she'll be confused and conflicted and it's not a good place for a girl to be. She won't leave her current boyfriend for you. That's one of the worst things you can do. To be honest move on, if she's taken it means it's not meant to be and take it as a sigh. Telling her is really not fair to her and it could end very badly for you. So move one and if she becomes single don't just ask her out the same day she breaks up, wait a bit and be there for her when she does. Makes you look better in her eyes that way too.
Two possibilities here:
1) Take a crack at it, but move on quickly if she doesn't seem to want to test out prospective new candidates for the job, so to speak.
or:
2) Watch from a distance and catch her on the rebound when she breaks up with the guy. Be very wary of achieving permanent friend-zoned status in the meantime, however.
1) Take a crack at it, but move on quickly if she doesn't seem to want to test out prospective new candidates for the job, so to speak.
or:
2) Watch from a distance and catch her on the rebound when she breaks up with the guy. Be very wary of achieving permanent friend-zoned status in the meantime, however.
Well, I WAS gonna advise waiting, but I get the feeling that'll hurt more, so I say to tell her. If you waited, then maybe the choice is made FOR YOU and you'd hate yourself for inaction. If you didn't tell her and moved on, you'd hate yourself for inaction AND giving up. If you tell her, she'll know the truth and you'll either get lucky or not. If you do, then good. If not, at least she knows how much you care and you can move on with only minimal amounts of damage. Plus, if she got in a relationship that didn't work out, you'd be there, and she'd know that.
I have answered this, in a way which I guarantee no-one else has even thought of, in the Relationship Problem Thread, which is at the following link: ----> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=16#4114596Cortheya said: