i voted cool as hell, when you first started at 14-16. i started at 15, didnt get serious about it till i was 18 or so, but i was very 'cool' in fact it was one of those things that made me go from nerd to cool almost overnight.
thing is though, looking back on it, age doesnt change my opinion about my 'cool' factor but the health results from the next 15 years of doing it werent worth the 'cool' for the few years it had a benifit.
lets face it if there wasnt SOME draw too smoking no one would continue to do it beyond the fist gasping weazing drag. i went on to smoke for another 15 years or so, it just became a part of my life, a part of who I was. i gave up some friends and even some family because i was a smoker. once the big shift to non smoking became wide spread in the 90s and i started getting invited to smoke outside at partys and get togethers i stoped going to those peoples partys an functions. my extended family even went so far as to 'split' over smoking-non smoking. we now have two different holliday partys, one for smokers and one for non smokers.
i was one of those that caused this aplit as a smoker, now im in an even worse situation because i dont smoke anymore and there is NOTHING worse than being a ex-smoker in a room full of people still puffing away but having been a 'champion' of the pro-smoking side for so long i cant quit them now and join the non's now can i? i still find myself going outside, but this time its for fresh air instead of a puff.
the truth is i dont actualy regret my choices. i STILL think that you take people as they are, the good and the bad, being a good host means you dont turn your guests into gutter scum because of an addiction they cant control. i look at it this way, i may have to tolerate the smoke for a few hours, but THOSE poor bastards have to live with it rotting their bodys every second of their lives. they are to have our pitty not our scorne. smoking wont kill you because you have to be around it for a few hours a year or because your shirt smells like an ash tray till you wash it so why be such a fucking dick that you make those you are supposed to care about uncomfortable and unwelcome as a guest because of something they really CANT control? no one who has smoked long enough too become addicted WANTS to continue doing it, atleast no one i know. so on top of knowing that their lives are allready plagued by smoking you want to add to their misery by making them outcasts from their own friends/familys on top of it? all because you dont want to do a load of wash a day early?
im not all that sure about smoers being 'cool' but i AM sure that non-smokers can certianly be very UN-cool in their moral crusades. and truth is id rather be around a smoker than some guy or chick that thinks half a bottle of perfume or aftershave is the right ammount to put on every morning, noon, and night. there are billions of details we as humans have to manage in our interactions with one another. smoking is just one of those, you either accept the person as they are or you reject them, but one thing you DONT get to do is to run their life FOR them. if you have a party, and you want to invite a smoker than be ready to deal with the smoking that comes along with it, just as you deal with aunt marrys perfume, and uncle Joes 'pull my finger' attacks.
/end rant.