Boudica said:
Xman490 said:
In regards to the 21st century, the point can be made that women are slightly dominating men sexually, socially, and even educationally.
Dominating men sexually? You know how few women enjoy sex compared to men, right? How rarely a woman reaches orgasm from what most men consider intercourse--"put it in and move until I cum"? Have you seen porn recently? It's largely women pretending to moan and scream for the arousal of a man, while she sits, kneels or lies still and gets fucked, before then being ejaculated on. I'm willing to bet my life savings that your average man honestly believes women get off on simply lying still and having a dick pushed into her for three minutes.
How does society treat a woman that seeks out sex? With shame. With disrespect. It degrades her and labels her a dirty slut. A man doing the same? A player. Someone other men envy. Someone good at "getting laid."
Oh yeah, women are easily dominating men sexually.
Don't know what kind of society you hang around in, but whatever ass backwards country it is doesn't seem to be too representative. Here, women seek out sex comfortably and regularly. Oh, and by the way, they enjoy it too. Probably because in civilized societies, there's communication and everyone knows what's expected and desired from each other. What you seem to think "most men" do doesn't really translate into reality either.
In fact, you seem to have invented some fantasy world that conforms to whatever prejudice you find comfort in carrying around with you, because it certainly doesn't have anything to do with reality.
It's not the insane extremists in that link that gives feminists bad reputations. Those are just written off as exactly that. It's your kind that brings these ridiculous claims to the table and expects them to be taken seriously in this day and age.
Edit: Oh dear, I just caught your "most people are pretending" bit about BDSM. Exactly what kind of BDSM community have you gotten that particular bit of misinformation from, I wonder? There's one thing that is alpha and omega within BDSM and that is honesty and truth. It is the cornerstone of any successful BDSM or(and) D/s relationship since so much depends on communication. You need to be able to put a hundred percent trust in your partner for it to work.
No. "Most people" aren't pretending that it's non-consensual. Those that do aren't actually performing neither BDSM nor D/s. I suggest educating yourself more thoroughly on the subject before speaking quite so definitely on it. It's a subject of significant importance for quite a few of us.
