Um, why are you arguing so hard that any second you could rape someone if you wanted to?Deviate said:And that is something both will have to take on trust, since there is nothing but said trust ensuring it. There's no one standing by to intervene if I don't. There's no magic spell activated by a safeword that suddenly stops me or makes her invulnerable.
By the way "you'd never hurt her"? Yeah, you may want to look up BDSM again. I am fairly certain by now that you don't quite know what the hell it means.
Yeah, if someone asked you to stop using a safeword there is no magic to make you, but you no longer have their consent (or consensual non-consent, in some BDSM cases).
Sorry, this argument is kind of confusing.