101flyboy said:
TheXRatedDodo said:
I'm bisexual and I don't give a fuck.
IT'S JUST A WORD, GET OVER YOURSELVES.
It's more than just a word. Words have meaning. People are judged, most of the time, by their words. Words many times are the one thing we have to explain ourselves or describe particular situations. Without words, what exactly do we have? Fists, but just aimlessly punching someone doesn't have nearly the same power as calling them a ****** while you do it. Facial expressions, but even then, that becomes much more powerful with words attached to them. So no, it's not just a word. It's a reflection of the world.
Hey, I had my nasty coming out experience too man.
Then I got a bit older and realized people are going to be cunts to each other whether you like it or not. I decided to stop indulging these people and their pettiness.
No, I do not personally use the word ****** (however, I am quite fond of calling people niggers, my girlfriend is quite often the target of this one, she is whiter than I am, and I'm pretty damn white,) but it doesn't stop me from believing that I should be able to use it when and where I goddamn like.
Intention is everything. If I were to call you a "dumb ******" (which I wouldn't, I have no beef with you at all man, just to make that clear, I am all about the peace and love and harmony ultimately,) it would not be with some connotation of your sexuality, it's just a word that sounds cool. I use the word "fuck" liberally for the same reasons. You can say "BUT IT'S OFFENSIVE," but percieving it as such would simply be your choice. I care not for the words history or its commonly accepted meaning, whether it has been used to level entire civilizations or used to help paint the mona lisa. I use the word because I like how it sounds.
This is simply down to the individual. If you want ****** to stop being used offensively, then stop believing it's offensive, and it shall no longer be.
Or I could be totally wrong. But eh, don't make me get onto subjective reality, that's dangerous territory man. >;D