Seriphina said:
My bet is that the majority of people voting on your poll don't want kids anyway or are guys and cant have an understanding of the maternal desire to have another child. <3
You hit it right there. There seems to be an alarming number of people on the Escapist that fall under that category. There is the strangely high number of people that claim they are "Asexual", having no interest in sex or having it. Though the real reason for the high number is because it is one of those bizarre, not thought out, and pointless fads the youngins go through these days, I guarantee 95% or more don't have such a rare thing like that. Though, I believe they could be contributing to the skewed vote.
The other day in a relationship thread, someone said that they didn't see a point in having a relationship, I've seen that sentiment many times. Though most of those are probably people that just are down on their luck getting a relationship start up, but they could be contributing to this vote as well.
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No, you have no right to barge in on my life and tell me how many kids I can have.
I want to continue my family name in my branch, so chances are when the time comes, I won't be satisfied until I have a son.
I've looked and majority of the people that are say yes are not from the US. I applaud the few that aren't from the US that are saying no.
I respect and accept a few views and ideas that come out of other countries, but I worry about the growing number people that have the view that people have no real rights and that a select few with a crack pot idea are allowed to control people and tell them how to live; like the few "we should take over the US threads".
That is why I hate what is happening with the US government. All of this social malarkey, that would take away privacy and freedoms of the people on how to live their lives. The government or anybody else shouldn't be able to tell me how I chose to protect myself on my property, if I feel I need a gun for protection and I want to shoot a person that is trespassing on my property and is threatening me or my property, that is my business.
When I have kids, the government better not be forcing my kids to do community service to graduate. If my kids don't care about helping other people out, so be it, it will be their lives.
The government shouldn't force people to pay for the health care of other people. Like the community service thing, that is forced charity.
Other things the government or other people should have no control over:
My diet.(Sparked by a thread that talked about possibly forcing people to be vegetarians. Also buy the stupid taxes on snack foods, sodas and juice drinks, because they are "bad" for me.
How much energy/electricity/water I can use.
What I teach my kids and what I choose for them not to learn.
And because of this thread: My family life and what kind of family I choose to have, whether I end up having one kid or ten.
WannaBlessedBe said:
The most humane way to do it is advance the education and opportunities of women. As this is done, both the birth rate and infant mortality plummet. Problem solved with no draconian laws.
Wow. I'm not a woman and I find that offensive.
So you are saying that only an uneducated, a stupid woman would want to have more than one or two kids?
I seen and read about plenty of educated, smart, and successful women that have had three or more kids.