Lil devils x said:
Zontar said:
If my kid wants to play handegg, rugby, hockey or any other sport who the hell am I to tell them no? I played handegg, and my brother did and still does play hockey, and we both turned out fine. Though these days I prefer the more elegant sports of fencing and curling.
Keeps them fit, builds character, and best of all it helps them form a backbone, which is something that my generation surely needs. Though I think my children wouldn't have that problem since the inevitable reforms that will come from the societal-wide failure of "everyone's a winner" and "no need for competition" attitudes are already in sight.
How do you know you are fine? Some people do not know they had brain damage until they get the autopsy reports back after their death. It is just a matter of where the injury is as to how much it impacts your life. It is like playing Russian roulette, and allowing your child to do so, hoping their results turn out as good as yours. There are plenty of ways to build character that do not involve risking their brain.
Russian roulette is a terrible example because all but one of those involved ends up dead. Meanwhile those who end up with serious injuries are so few to say it's the inverse would be overstating how many players get seriously injured, to say nothing of killed.
Plus, have you seen kids? Be they pre-pubescent or teenagers, they WILL find a way to put themselves in that type of danger just climbing around things. Just look at the jungle gym of any school. Pretty much all of them prohibit climbing on the outside of those things, yet there's always plenty of children who do so anyway, and of them some of them will fall, and of those that fall some will be seriously hurt. That doesn't stop the children from trying, not even those who fall.
If my or anyone else's kid wants to play a sport, why should I stop them because of something that MIGHT happen that statistically will most likely not? I'll tell you this, if my parents had been the sort who prevented my brother and I from doing that, we'd be one of two different ways: we'd either be people who are completely averse to risk taking to a degree that prevents us from functioning in proper society (something my generation has a massive problem with) or we'd have become more rebellious then we already where and taken even bigger risks. In terms of development of a person of that age, there is no scenario which leads them better off then just letting them play the sport they want.