Poll: Would You Participate in Group Sex? (mature)

[Lyx]

Sex to me is something private (as in: non-verbal communication that is only the business of those two). For this, is isn't absolutely necessary that i know my partner very well - what matters to me more is the trust/privacy part (bit like: "What you say i consider private. You can trust me to not gossip it around").

I however wouldn't generally exclude a group - would depend on more details.

 

[smithy_2045]

I can't think of a situation where I'd want to, but that's not necessarily no.

 

[EHKOS]

Maybe, if they wouldn't laugh at me. I really wouldn't know what to do....and I don't want to offend the other person if I stick to one woman more....maybe. It's a maybe.

 

[Tarlane]

Pretty unlikely. I'm just monogamous in how I'm wired, though I don't see anything wrong with those who are more open then that.

Overall, I am open to most possible interests my partner may have, but that one never caught my interest beyond something that could be exchanged as fantasy in talk. I dated a girl for about a year who was both bi and poly(though she stayed monogamous with me) and she always hoped to bring out that side of me. When we were out somewhere she would want to pick up girls for me and such but while I can think of it and say 'thats sexy' the idea of actually doing that, even with my partner obviously not going to be mad and ready to enjoy it doesn't do anything for me.

If its what gives you a thrill and you are safe about it? Go nuts. Just not my style.

 

[thecoreyhlltt]

i honestly can't believe 26.5% of people would have to think about it... idk i guess i just a whore, OH WELL!!

 

[Blind Sight]

Nope, I prefer to keep my sex life somewhat private, not public. It's like socializing for me, I'd much rather have one great conversation with a single person then a long, confusing debate with a group of people.

 

[nofear220]

I didn't even blink an eye when I accepted the invite (especially the way it was proposed), but I find some of my close friends I told were more in line with hesitating with the idea.

So I ask you, whatever your situation, would you? Assume what you want about the situation. In my case, everyone is a sexy *****. I know that's not true for everyone.

First question Im going to ask is, where the hell am I when people are looking for participants?... Although I guess I should calm down, I only turned 18 a few days ago and everyone in highschool thinks sex is a big deal. Second, when you say "especially the way it was proposed" what do you mean by that? was it out on some special occasion?

Anyway, I would want to know who was going to be there if I was invited which would make me hesitate a bit. Though, as long as two girls I find attractive enough are there I would say yes of course. Call me pretty shallow, I dont mind people stating the truth.

 

[Ericb]

I would, but seriously depending on the vibe of the people involved. Some people just aren't worthy it, you know.

Along with people of the right kind of mindset, hell yes. Set and Setting applies to this very well.

 

[Ham_authority95]

Only if it was all women, but since multiple bi-sexual women who are fine with having group sex are in such low supply, that won't happen.

 

[Nurb]

Group sex is sort of the "in thing" again.

I dated a married couple for a short while and they were both nice people who could handle a 3rd in their relationship. Not everyone can handle it, but most want to try at least once. At the moment I've just started dating a girl who wants me to help her get into threesomes and/or a polyamorus relationship, so I've begun looking around for potential men and women, and there are aloooooot interested all over the place. Most are people who've never tried it and want to. I think it's just that people are less repressed about thier sexuality, and many are wanting to explore their bisexuality, so I'm not that suprised.

And I'm not bragging, just saying from my experience I found a majority are interested in some form of group sex lol

So I bring this up because I was asked to join in on what can only be described as a group sex gathering. A smattering of male, and female participants, and myself who is a trans woman. Not a large group (not what I'd class an orgy). I didn't even blink an eye when I accepted the invite (especially the way it was proposed), but I find some of my close friends I told were more in line with hesitating with the idea.

Just to be sure, is it MtF? Either way I'm curious. I'm not propositioning you, I've just really been interested in dating someone like that, but haven't had much luck in finding any.

 

[JUMBO PALACE]

Hell, I dont even like recieving oral

I'm sorry but... are you okay?

Just messing buddy

OT: I'd have to think about it. There's so many different factors involved that I can't just provide a simple answer.

 

[Alakaizer]

Probably been said already, but I clicked "other" citing "Only if I were the only man in the group. Sight of a penis makes me shrivel."

 

[scorptatious]

Most likely not. If I ever do have sex, I'd like to share it with my significant other and ONLY my significant other.

If you're into group sex, fine. I don't care.

 

[RedRussian]

Yes, because sharing is caring.

 

[Canadamus Prime]

No way, no how! The very concept is repulsive to me.

 

[Ridley the Violator]

I'd say no, for two major reasons:

One because I dislike such hedonistic gatherings, and two because I am deathly afraid of STDs, and would not feel comfortable poking into such a high concentration of possible AIDS. Especially if they were students: I hear that one in four college students has an STD.

 

[ragestreet]

I'd rather not get into advanced sex-ology without taking the introductory courses first.

 

[templargunman]

I would be willing if the situation was right. I don't think I'd run around to swingers parties, but if I knew everyone there and knew it was safe and was attracted to enough people there to not ruin it, I'd do it.