Poll: Would You Participate in Group Sex? (mature)

[Drakane]

I went w/ other. I'm currently in a relationship and as a guy would probably ok with trying a 3 some, 2 girls and me, but more than hesitant w/ another guy and an established relationship.

That said relationship or not I'd be pretty hesatint based on my lack of sleeping around and my lack of trust in the people I'd be sleeping w/ and their personal sex habits. If I knew them and knew they were clean I'd be more inclined then some X factor ppl that might leave me with shit their is no cure for.

For now i will stick w/ my gf and hope one of these days she will bring a friend we can trust in the mix too

 

[zehydra]

Male, and No. It would screw me up emotionally.

 

[superbatranger]

Honestly, I have no idea. I'm still a complete virgin(i.e. not even any physical contact with any girl except for getting hugs), and the the thought of my first time being in the middle of some orgy just seems off to me. I'd imagine I'd have terrible performance anxiety and end up panicking or something and leave embarrassed of myself. It also doesn't help that I am, for lack of a better term, fucking shy. On the other hand, if I wasn't a virgin, I'd consider it. Only thing is that it would have to be with people I know and trust. That way the mood and atmosphere isn't so apprehensive or tense. But as it stands, I can't say I'd accept an invitation or not. Granted, I'd probably never get one.


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[Spade Lead]

I'm awkward enough with one other person in the room. I'm sure I'd consider it if asked, but I think I'm a little too shy.

That's for me. I could maybe handle two women, but if we got into a Devil's Threesome or more people, it would be more than I could handle. Just not my style, but I have always been more reserved sexually...

Okay, to be honest, I just asked one of my exes to be my friends with benefits. It will be my first time having one, if she agrees.

 

[kypsilon]

That depends on who is in the group. I'd consider it, but it isn't a goal.

 

[The_root_of_all_evil]

Sex without feelings is just masturbation imho.

(If you can feel love to a group, go for it. If you can't, how do you know when it's gone wrong?)

 

[Weaver]

I wouldn't be comfortable. My body is covered in scars and I don't like showing people.

 

[Soxafloppin]

Might sound weird but I couldn't actually know the people. They would have to be complete strangers, I know it would be fun to high five your best friend over some girls back but, if I did something like that i wouldn't really want it brought up in conversation in the future.

 

[Azrael the Cat]

Well, these days I'm happily married, so not now, but when I was younger I did it a few times. Three times to be precise. One time 2 guys + 2 girls (to put that in context, I was backpacking around Europe at the time - people tend to be pretty casual about sex in those circumstances, as they don't have to worry about what anyone else might think), one time 3 guys (I'm bi, a guy I had a fling a few years back with gave me a call when he found out I was in town and invited me for a night with him and his boyfriend), and one time the cliche 2 women / 1 guy (me).

Personally, I think works a lot better for gay sex, all of the same gender, than for hetero - and if it is hetero, then at the very least you kind of want people of the same gender involved to be bi, otherwise it would just be a little uncomfortable. The 2-girls 1-guy thing is seriously overrated, but I've never really understood the fascination some guys have with pseudo-lesbianism, maybe it's just from being bi, but if I was single (not that I'm planning on that being the case again this lifetime) I'd be much more likely to do the 3 guy thing than mixed gender group sex.

 

[Evil the White]

Male and No. I just don't see the appeal.

 

[Azrael the Cat]

Sex without feelings is just masturbation imho.

(If you can feel love to a group, go for it. If you can't, how do you know when it's gone wrong?)

And what, exactly, is wrong with masturbation? Sounds like good clean fun, to me.

 

[Smooth Operator]

Hmm, that is a tough one:
- if it's girls only plus me, then I'm in right away (tho they would probably be disappointed)
- if it's all guys plus girl (something a girl was trying to get me into once) then hell no, I don't want to be rubbing up against a dude while having sex, not homophobic but male bodies to me are as attractive as gangrenous wounds
- if it was a good mix I might, but never ever would I join in with a partner, no matter how casual it is the relationship would get messed up

And I feel most comfortable doing my thing when it's one on one, so I may very well be useless in a group situation.
Was once on vacation with my girl and her friends(couple), and for some reason we shared a 2 bed room, and while the other couple was perfectly comfortable having sex in the bed right next to us I couldn't get myself to do that at all, thinking about it... maybe they were trying to ease me into group sex.

 

[Jaime_Wolf]

In a second. No way to know if you'd like it without trying it!

 

[Gigano]

The idea doesn't really sound hot and appealing to me, so I suppose not. It would kind of lose some intimacy.

Never say never though.

 

[Johanthemonster666]

I'm a gay male and answered yes if my boyfriend thought it was okay.
To be honest my real answer would be "maybe" in an experimental sense, though my reserves on sexual partners aside from my boyfriend (even if he consented 100%) still stand inspite of our shared fantasies.

I'm not fond of the idea of having sex with anyone but my current partner of 2 years, but I have my moments where the idea becomes very appealing.

In a fantasy sense, I'd rather have an all male threesome or 4-way at most. Group sex is just too much to handle, too much visual/physical stimulation that requires certain positions and set ups that let everyone in the group have an equal share of pleasure and attention.

The only remote experience I've had in this area is in a previous relationship where I slept with my exe in the same room as another couple (no interaction beyond eye contact between us and the other couple)

 

[Xisin]

I'm a married woman and my answer would be yes. Its come up before and we both agreed that as long as all parties involved are alright with it, than its fine. Testing would happen before hand of course.

I don't see how this is even a big deal. Where sex is concerned, as long as everyone is a consenting adult, have at it.

 

[xDarc]

One time, I was in a spontaneous group thing with 11 other people. We had a house where several of us splint the rent, and it was close to a trendy downtown area. We'd bring girls home all the time.

This is pre 9/11, before teens got all goofy.

Anyhow, it wasn't the best sex I've ever had- there were too many distractions. But it is definitely a fond memory. I've also had two women to myself a few times, as well as assorted threesomes/foursomes/couples swaps.

All the sex I've had was well worth the genital herpes. About 1 in 5 people have this now, and the overwhelming majority don't know/have symptoms. Something else to consider if you plan on having group sex.

 

[Khada]

Ive had a few threesomes in the past and frankly, the best sex I've ever had was with a long term partner. When you mix in my general distain towards people (though I try to be nice) and the risk of STD's, I couldnt really care about sex with anyone other than a partner.

Doesn't mean I'll say no if someone offers... Would all depend on the situation.