Poll: Would You Participate in Group Sex? (mature)

[MelasZepheos_v1legacy]

Bizarrely enough I lost my virginity with group sex. I had an odd childhood.

I'm not sure it's something I'd do again though. I did participate quite a lot when I was younger (and also drunk/stoned/a lot more crazy) but like the excessive drinking and drug use of my younger years it's something I've put behind me in a lot of ways.

So maybe, if it was the right group of people, but in almost every other way no. I'm after commitment and a single steady partner now.

 

[Thundero13]

I am way too careful about not having diseases so i'd need to have doctors notes fro everybody, I am gay so they would all need to be gay/bi/pan men, i'm underage (not sure why i'm posting in this thread), also I don't think sex matters unless it'swith somebody you love. So no probably not.

 

[jamesworkshop]

Not in principle against the idea but so far the only offer of such being a foursome
(myself, two others guys and one girl)

I turned down

 

[Negatempest]

Lets see, still a virgin myself. Have a self rule that 1st time would be with someone I actually love. If for some unknown reason I get dumped in the future, yes I would....though I am a bit of a sadist at heart so don't know that would appeal to the group.

Don't be surprised if you find yourself SUPER attached to the person you lose your virginity to. It's inevitable. It happened to me, and a bunch of my friends, male and female (and everything in between). It's surprising how much it'll blindside you. If you go into your first time thinking it's the person you love, you'll definitely fall for them after sex. It'll break your heart when you break up.

The funny thing is, I already see that happening. Now the ONLY thing keeping me from being a sex hound is my virginity. I guess you can say it would be a "gift" in a way. Once the gift is given, there is just "freedom" or maybe the better word is "release".

 

[Risingblade]

Naw I'd I'm the jealous type and in a relationship so it's lose lose for me

 

[Marsell]

If women are there, yes.

 

[crudus]

(I didn't keep a spot for "already had group sex" because this is not about bragging, this is about would-you. )

So, if we have we vote "Hands down, yes!" or vote if we would again?

 

[BrionJames]

That's a no for me. Mostly because I believe in monogamy, but I also feel like sexual encounters leave a sort of impression on every individuals psyche, trauma to a person's mental and emotional well-being can have a delayed effect. This is regardless of whether or not it's enjoyable or not.

 

[jacx]

no more than two other people and of the opposite sex. i dont like to share

 

[Lizmichi]

Yes I will only if my partner is willing. As a female this sounds kinda odd to say but still I am willing to try it.

 

[Louis Hermann]

Having been involved in MMF and MFFF scenarios, I find it amusing that people are all like "as long as there are no other guys." Which is exactly the same thing as "I'm the jealous type" bullshit. I guarantee that the people saying that kind of stuff wouldn't last very long with multiple girls in the situation, it's just too much to do at once and enjoy.

Having another guy in the situation makes things more fluid and a lot of the pressure is off you.

The other people being closer friends is definitely a good thing. It only makes it awkward if you let it.

 

[Yomandude]

I have done.... with both my hands at once. Geddit? Autoeroticism joke? I feel like Bo Burnham right now...
OT: It's certainly something I intend to do later in life (teens are a bit too young if you ask me), but once and once ONLY. Obviously, as a self-professed Lutheran, I don't wanna become a regular adulterer or anything like that. It's like Fog Juice; try it once, and ONLY once if you have any sense.

 

[Rutskarn]

Technically, I've had the offer. Not my bag.

 

[Aris Khandr]

Only if I legitimately care for every person involved. Sex, for me, is an act of supreme intimacy and affection. I couldn't share it with someone with whom I have not also shared my heart.

 

[Kakashi on crack]

Hmm, if they did not have any STDs/STIs, and they were people I didn't know, or at least trusted, then I'd probably say yes to the situation.

As it stands though, I'd ask my significant other in the relationship I'm in if they were ok with it, they wouldn't have to be a part of it unless they wanted to be, but I wouldn't take up the opportunity if they weren't ok with it.

 

[creothes]

depends who is involved

 

[creothes]

depends who is involved

 

[slevin8989]

Idk my ex always told me she wanted to do those kinda things but i really wasnt that into it like what am i gonna do with two girls lol XD