Yes, but I would watch my ass every five seconds incase someone gay attempts to get me from behind.
Poll: Would You Participate in Group Sex? (mature)
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Poly? Really. Wow, I like group sex, but I'm not sure if I could handle that.ravensheart18 said:
Which makes me think, it's interesting what some people consider out there, and what they consider normal. See, I have no problem bringing home extra players for me and my partner, but the idea of dating people outside our relationship (rather than just having fun sex with them) sound really emotionally difficult to me. I'm not sure how if I'd be able to deal with a poly relationship - I'm afraid I'd get jealous or too emotionally involved or something.
As for emotion, I have to agree with the people who say that the best sex is emotional sex. I love sex with my partner - when we have guests in the bedroom, it's still about our emotional connection. It's kinda like when my partner and I buy a new sex toy - I'm not jealous of the sex toy because it's there to make me and my partner feel good. The other people are there to make us feel good. Of course, it's only polite to make sure they go away happy too.
Also, we usually only group up with other couples (who are secure in their relationships). The one time we tried a three-some, there was some weirdness when the third player fell in love with me (I and felt nothing for this person besides mild friendship). That one ended badly, obviously, so there's always danger in this sort of thing.
Anyway, I got off topic there for a bit, but I wanted to say - it's really cool that you have a working poly relationship. I don't think I could handle that, but then, it sounds like you couldn't handle the kind of relationship I have with my parter. It's just neat, how different people are comfortable (and happy) with different things.
Why should that be interesting? The "Two chicks at once" thing is a common male fantasy, which technically qualifies as group sex but is very different from say a 3 on 3 orgy or whatever. For males the former practically any virgin would gladly jump into, the latter requires someone more experienced and open/wanting to experiment to join in. Besides, considering all the different sexual fetishes + turn ons/turn offs people can have out there, is there something wrong if a guy considers seeing another guys junk in action a turn off? Or does everything like this must be some sort of supressed homosexual denial?Ellen of Kitten said:
That's not true, you know. My partner and I have had a number of couples over for this sort of things, and other than a glass of wine, no alcohol was involved. Some of us didn't even drink (I don't really like wine).crepesack said:
No, then i'm even more likely to:
Get STDs
Get Robbed
Get Blackmailed
Get Assaulted
Get Aimlessly Teased
Get Some Other Illness Translated Through Physical Contact Of Any Kind
Get Accused Of Rape
Or Any Number Of Other Things
Yeah, you have fun with your group sex.
In fact, have fun with your sex life in general, because i'm remaining a virgin until i find someone who'll go get tested every week, record video clips declaring their consent, written detailed consent, and to be completely restrained so they cant harm me in any way (I kid you not).
I am not Paranoid.
Get STDs
Get Robbed
Get Blackmailed
Get Assaulted
Get Aimlessly Teased
Get Some Other Illness Translated Through Physical Contact Of Any Kind
Get Accused Of Rape
Or Any Number Of Other Things
Yeah, you have fun with your group sex.
In fact, have fun with your sex life in general, because i'm remaining a virgin until i find someone who'll go get tested every week, record video clips declaring their consent, written detailed consent, and to be completely restrained so they cant harm me in any way (I kid you not).
I am not Paranoid.
Eh, probably not. I have nothing against the idea, but really I have a fear it would be kinda like a game of basketball where nobody throws you the ball...if that makes much sense. Also, and not to sound too silly, but I don't think I would be able to handle another man's penis touching me, even just for a second, which, unless it's the awesome kind of orgy, there will be a chance of that happening.
EDIT- And I just realized that we're discussing sex on a gaming site largely inhibited by, while maybe not children, people who are still under the age of sexual consent. Not really objecting to mature threads or anything, it's just a tad....creepy.
EDIT- And I just realized that we're discussing sex on a gaming site largely inhibited by, while maybe not children, people who are still under the age of sexual consent. Not really objecting to mature threads or anything, it's just a tad....creepy.
I don't know. If it was my friends, I would find it really awkward. But if it was with strangers or people I didn't know well enough to care about, maybe..
Group sex has never appealed to me. In my opinion, sexual intercourse will end the same way whether its with one girl or a dozen.
Not to mention I'm too selfish to share, and am horrible at multitasking.
Not to mention I'm too selfish to share, and am horrible at multitasking.
Probably not. Too many people at once could lead to getting an elbow or a knee to the head, things of that nature. I picture it looking like a mosh pit of naked people. Very unorganized and could easily result in injury.
It depends on whom is present, and if I happen to know any of them.
Random strangers? No. People I can trust and can enjoy myself with?
..Fuck yes.
Random strangers? No. People I can trust and can enjoy myself with?
..Fuck yes.
I just realized part of why I couldn't get into it is that it appears to be a casual thing.
Perhaps it's because I'm a virgin but I never understood casual sex. The whole closing off your emotions and everything. I feel like asking how you guys can do it but it seems like a pretty inane and asinine question.
But I'm the girl who just recently realized she is incredibly prudish.
Perhaps it's because I'm a virgin but I never understood casual sex. The whole closing off your emotions and everything. I feel like asking how you guys can do it but it seems like a pretty inane and asinine question.
But I'm the girl who just recently realized she is incredibly prudish.
I could only if I knew and felt comfortable around the people (I'm male, btw), I mention feeling comfortable because there are people I know whom I feel odd around.
I honestly would probably say no in the situation though, while it'd be nice, I feel that it's not...personable enough. I'd rather have the attention of the other all on me (and me on her) than have to split attention, unless it were all on me. So unless I had mostly women, or we split into groups and I was the focus of mine, no, I won't have group sex. I'm in a relationship, but was I single I'd pick 1 and it's me and her
I honestly would probably say no in the situation though, while it'd be nice, I feel that it's not...personable enough. I'd rather have the attention of the other all on me (and me on her) than have to split attention, unless it were all on me. So unless I had mostly women, or we split into groups and I was the focus of mine, no, I won't have group sex. I'm in a relationship, but was I single I'd pick 1 and it's me and her
Nope. Sex, to me, seems like a personal thing. When ever I'm with a girl, I want her to feel important and special, and having there be two or more would ruin the experience. Same, pretty much, goes if it was 2 guys and 1 girl, can't really make her feel special when there is another guy knobbing her.
Call me old fashion, but the whole affair just seems trashy and unappealing.
Call me old fashion, but the whole affair just seems trashy and unappealing.
I'd have to say it's essentially a deal breaker as to whether it's two guys one girl or two girls one guy.