Poll: Would Your Partner's Sexuality Bother You?

[Jenova65]

Doesn't worry me, I am heterosexual but in my experience bisexual men tend to be very good lovers
The main consideration is that a partner is interested in you now not who they have been interested in before.
Of course there is a risk of unfaithfulness but that is just a fact of life not of sexuality. It is also my experience that people who are happy in a relationship don't cheat anyway.

 

[delanofilms]

All I can say is you love who you love, regardless of gender. Hell, I'm undecided myself because I've never met someone I fell in love with, and I don't rule out the possibility of being attracted to another guy.

 

[snow]

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The reason why I think it's wrong is because the only no answer states that the person clicking it feels that being attracted to the same sex is wrong, which means the OP didn't rule in other scenarios as to why some one would say no like he/she did for the other options.

Like in my scenario, I don't have a problem with bisexuals, I would just be hesitant to date one because of being hurt in the past on more than one occasion. For that, I don't feel as though I should be lumped in with people who think that being attracted to the same sex is wrong or icky.

I don't know, I think it's just me though. I've seen too many polls on here with sensitive and/or serious topics where the answers feel as though the OP is trying to sniff out people who are racist/homophobic/bigots/part of the legion of doom/etc...

 

[AugustFall]

Nope, it would bother me if she cheated on me but then again that would be a huge problem no matter her sexual orientation.

If she's into women too then that's one more thing we have in common lol.

 

[jacx]

Actually, I did date a bisexual once.

same and i found out the down side haha

 

[geldonyetich]

It wouldn't bother me so much if my wife liked both men and women so much as if she's out cheating on me. That being the case, it sort of undoes the question: if she's my sexual partner, and I expect her not to cheat on me, then the rest of her sexuality is moot, no? On the upshot, if I develop the wandering eye, she can join in on the ogling fun.

Ever heard of a Ménage à trois? /thread

A ménage à trois would be nice, but:

A) Polygamy is illegal in the United States (though some practice it illegally).
B) I'm not that lucky.
C) I'm not sure I could handle the social, personal, and financial pressures of such a complicated relationship.

 

[Sacman]

Sort of. my last girlfriend did leave me for another girl...

 

[nelsonr100]

I would actively encourage it so long as I remained involved

 

[Silver]

I've always been open to the idea of polyamorous relationships, even though I don't really have an interest in them myself. I'd be more comfortable if my partner was interested in women though, and I think many gay women would have a problem accepting me as I am, so bisexuality is a good thing.

 

[lee1287]

well, my gf cheated with a girl, so yeah, and another girl i went out with is now gay, so. Yeah.. If she's BI, doesnt that just mean theres double the chance of cheating?

 

[JokerCrowe]

Nah, it wouldn't bother me if I was going out with a bisexual girl.

at one point had been with the same sex

To be honest, this would make me try even harder to keep the relationship going.

^Pretty much this^.
And if I were dating a girl who I later found out is gay, I'd probably break up with her, unless she has a REALLY good reason for dating me in the first place. I have no problem with homosexuals, but I'd be confused (and maybe even a little hurt) if I found out that the girl I'm dating isn't remotely interested in me. If she is, sure, I'll try and keep the realtionship. But I wouldn't break up with her becasue ?dating people of the same sex is wrong".

 

[Katherine Kerensky]

Thank you Julian, for having an asexual/nonsexual option :3
That covers me nicely :3
Although, no, it wouldn't bother me if my partner were bisexual. I just have no sexual interest, though, so that kinda nullifies it.

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

If she's BI, doesnt that just mean theres double the chance of cheating?

No, chance of cheating is exactly the same. Pool of people for said cheating is doubled but that isn't the same thing. If a person is going to cheat, they're going to cheat regardless of their sexuality and there's nothing you can do about it short of locking them in the basement away from all other human contact.

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

Nope. I'm bisexual, and my girlfriend is bisexual.

We'll that's just bloody cheating, that is.

 

[TheNamlessGuy]

DELETED

 

[Julianking93]

Thank you Julian, for having an asexual/nonsexual option :3
That covers me nicely :3

You are welcome and of course I was thinking just of you when making that poll ^_^

Who says I wasn't? I'm a considerate person....stop staring...

>_>

 

[Austichar]

As long as the girl is cute. I don't care if she's bi or straight. lol, though it does seem like there's been a rise in bisexuality lately. Dunno what's up with that, but I can't rly complain.

 

[The Unworthy Gentleman]

Actually, I did date a bisexual once.

Same with me. She claimed to have known since she was ten, but I'm sceptical. It doesn't affect anything and you know you can have a threesome without her feeling weird about it.