geldonyetich said:
A ménage à trois would be nice, but:
A) Polygamy is illegal in the United States (though some practice it illegally).
B) I'm not that lucky.
C) I'm not sure I could handle the social, personal, and financial pressures of such a complicated relationship.
A) Polygamy is marriage, menage a trois doesn't necessarily mean a marriage, it can be a strictly sexual relationship (which it is usually implied as)
B) Yah, really depends on your partner, some are interested, some find it disgusting (can't blame them, I wouldn't bring another guy into it so...)
C) Again, don't know why you take it for a marriage, so can cross off financial, though socially/personally, it depends whether you're both comfortable with it
Anyway OT: Not sure. Don't think it'd be much of an issue if I knew upfront, but didn't experience it so can't say for sure what comes with it. On long term relationship (ie. spouse) it might bring up some issues (though again, don't know, it might be fine), but for a girlfriend and such, it wouldn't be a problem for sure.