There's life out there. Earth is a pretty special case (IE, a huge rarity) but I wouldn't think it's Unique. The math backs it up. We'll never find them though because the distances we're talking about are so vast that even thinking about them requires you to do a little time warp. We'll probably never even get to a light year out in space. Our current engines would take like 600 years to get that far, and I don't think we're going to have ship engines that are so efficient they can even reach that speed limit.
So, we'll never find it. Even if they exist right now, imagine they're 2000 light years away by the time our light (or in my reasoning, our reality) reaches them, it could be thousands of years later. If they looked at us now, they'd see our egyptian culture coming to an end around the turn of millenium zero. If we looked at them, we'd see whatever they were doing 2000 years ago. There is NO way to communicate over those distances. Any message we send out at BEST would take 2000 years to get there.
But think of this - maybe aliens DID see our egyptian culture and made contact with us? maybe we just haven't got it yet. Like, in the year 2500 we get a message from aliens that basically says "Hey, we see those pyramids you're building, keep up the great work, they look awesome" because it was sent from 4000 light years away.
More food for thought, but it does certainly make the prospect of meeting and interacting with aliens a pretty slim chance, even on a galactic scale. But IS there life out there? Almost assuredly.