Punishing a Teenager
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My sister was alwas spanked, sometimes a little too hard, and look how she turned out.vampirekid.13 said:
I was rarely hit if ever yet turned out alright.
Go figure that math
Well a teenage girl is bound to have more insecurities than a normal person, this might sound mean but the parents whenever she acts out point them out in retaliation either that or send her to boarding school that'll teach her to appreciate what she's got when the teachers don't take her shit 
Kudos to you for making me reach up to my monitor to try and flick your avatar off my screen.TehCookie said:
On topic... man, some of you guys are a bunch of right-wing hardnoses. Sure, I don't have any real solutions, but... kick her out and hope she dies? This is the best you can come up with? Hope you folks don't end up running the world any time soon.
Ok...
Sad as it sounds you're just gonna have to wait for her to fuck up bad. That usually kick-starts the growing up process if the parents don't want to kick them out.
I've been that unruly teenager and I've also had friends like that. We have all at one point or another done something colossally stupid that's got us in a shit heap of trouble. Nothing puts you on edge or makes you think twice quite like waiting to go into court... again.
We all learned from our mistakes and grew up quicker than we wanted to. It's a bit of a shame but we made our beds. Afterwards we learned not to be such little shits.
Sad as it sounds you're just gonna have to wait for her to fuck up bad. That usually kick-starts the growing up process if the parents don't want to kick them out.
I've been that unruly teenager and I've also had friends like that. We have all at one point or another done something colossally stupid that's got us in a shit heap of trouble. Nothing puts you on edge or makes you think twice quite like waiting to go into court... again.
We all learned from our mistakes and grew up quicker than we wanted to. It's a bit of a shame but we made our beds. Afterwards we learned not to be such little shits.
My parents have never spanked me, and I have never been arrested, don't drink, do drugs, or any of that stuff.vampirekid.13 said:
Although I would argue that underage drinking or drug use is not absolutely bad. I know people who use drugs that lead fine, productive lives. I would also argue that hitting your children can be damaging to the their mental health. Not saying you are like that, but in general, research has shown that it is harmful.
I think alot of people on here don't think about the situation from the position as the parent.
I'm in her age arena myself (17, 18 in August) and all my friends are too. I know some of them are stoners, not too much, and in my knowledge, kids like her don't *just become like that*.
She met someone at school who started her off on it. Unless your cousine's parent's are really, really horrible, she got started off somewhere else.
Not that it matters. It isn't a case of how she become so, just that she is. If she is over 16 and doesn't go to school, or does, doesn't matter, kick her out. Eventually she'll run out of places and come back. If she isn't, discipline. Give her no money, secure yours so she can't steal any. Don't take her anywhere. It will cut her back some over time.
(This coming from a child who was spanked)
I'm in her age arena myself (17, 18 in August) and all my friends are too. I know some of them are stoners, not too much, and in my knowledge, kids like her don't *just become like that*.
She met someone at school who started her off on it. Unless your cousine's parent's are really, really horrible, she got started off somewhere else.
Not that it matters. It isn't a case of how she become so, just that she is. If she is over 16 and doesn't go to school, or does, doesn't matter, kick her out. Eventually she'll run out of places and come back. If she isn't, discipline. Give her no money, secure yours so she can't steal any. Don't take her anywhere. It will cut her back some over time.
(This coming from a child who was spanked)
Wait, what's the difference?NIHILHATE said:
OT: Meh, lets blame society and discipline them. Then ignore the family...
reminds me of my sister.
Basically, teh parents fucked up when she was growing up.
It's not their fault per se, but not every teenage girl is a monster.
Basically, teh parents fucked up when she was growing up.
It's not their fault per se, but not every teenage girl is a monster.
When my brother used to say, "I'll call for child abuse" my mom would say, "Go ahead. There's the phone."
Call her bluff. And if she calls the cops, they'll conduct an investigation and they'll see what a monster she is.
But if her parents are letting her get away with this crap in the first place, then they are probably not cut out to actually put boundaries on her.
If she were my kid, I'd whip her ass. No problem there. I have no patience for that kind of bullshit.
Call her bluff. And if she calls the cops, they'll conduct an investigation and they'll see what a monster she is.
But if her parents are letting her get away with this crap in the first place, then they are probably not cut out to actually put boundaries on her.
If she were my kid, I'd whip her ass. No problem there. I have no patience for that kind of bullshit.
I couldn't agree more. If she hasn't learned by 16 and she has a drug and alcohol problem, the only way to stop it is to force a shock to her system. In this case, kick her ass out, change the locks, and see how she likes it with no money to pay for drugs and drinks. Even if she stays at a friend's house, she will probably get kicked out of there fairly quickly. For bonus points, cut service to her cell and give the police her description and past activities.electric_warrior said:
