Question about sexuality.
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If asked I'd say I'm Bi.
Although all my major and minor sexual encounters have been with women, I don't feel that I could truly disregard having a romantic or sexual relationship with a man I just haven't had any yet.
Personalty I don't think we are born with sexuality, people aren't born gay or straight, but are born with a blank slate, sexuality is something that comes about as we age.
Although all my major and minor sexual encounters have been with women, I don't feel that I could truly disregard having a romantic or sexual relationship with a man I just haven't had any yet.
Personalty I don't think we are born with sexuality, people aren't born gay or straight, but are born with a blank slate, sexuality is something that comes about as we age.
People seem to hate what is different. When I first found out about furies (SP?) I gotta admit I was a little freaked out and found it disturbing, but then I met a few, and now a few of ny friends are furies.Klopy said:
To be honest as long as any action is being under taken by people who are mentally capable of giving and understanding consent then really it shouldn't make any difference what they're into.
I'm male and heterosexual. Around the time I started getting any urges, I was sure about my orientation. I knew about alternatives to my orientation, but it just wasn't for me.
I really enjoy the female body. It's much more interesting than the male body, imo.
I really enjoy the female body. It's much more interesting than the male body, imo.
I was straight, or at least thought I was, for about 21 years of my life, from birth until some time after I got 21, which was last year. Some time last year, I felt a little confused, I think. Or rather, bi-curious. It was an interesting thought to me to be with another man, while still being attracted to women. A few weeks after that, I realized I was bisexual. A few weeks after realizing that, I did some thinking and realized that I am pansexual. I don't know if I am truly attracted to everyone, but I still am quite capable of being with anyone, should I feel interested in being with them.
As was said before in this thread, it's not really the label that matters to me, but knowing myself does. I don't care if omni and pan are the same thing, I see myself as pan, I understand myself as someone that's pan and that's final.
As was said before in this thread, it's not really the label that matters to me, but knowing myself does. I don't care if omni and pan are the same thing, I see myself as pan, I understand myself as someone that's pan and that's final.
I am not sure if I am honest I have not looked at a guy and wanted intercourse but neither have I looked at girls and thought intercourse, Thats not to say I have never thought of sex I just don't really desire it I'd prefer a hug, you may label that as you will.
I didn't really think to much into sexuality until I came into contact with a TS girl called Jess about 4 years ago now and talked about her childhood and such I guess you can say thats when I started to wonder about what the sexuality of everyone around me was and considering my own.
Hope thats less confusing that it sounded in my head.
I didn't really think to much into sexuality until I came into contact with a TS girl called Jess about 4 years ago now and talked about her childhood and such I guess you can say thats when I started to wonder about what the sexuality of everyone around me was and considering my own.
Hope thats less confusing that it sounded in my head.
I've been straight for my whole life. Still plenty of my life ahead though so that may change. (probably not)
They forgot to tell you about...? Oh goodness. My friend, I'm afraid I can't link to anything from this web site because it's against the rules, but just type "sex" into Google. You're on the advent of a whole new realm of discovery.linkvegeta said:
OT: I'm an 18 year old guy, BTW.
It's a little ambiguous with me. I've dated a few girls, and I'm deeply in love with my current gf. We've been going for two years and I genuinely hope to contradict that stereotype about high school sweet hearts. Weirdly, I could imagine having sex with a guy, but I find that the less feminine he is, the less agreeable the idea becomes. Hard muscles are a turn off, body hair is a turn off, even masculine scent (I don't know how else to describe it; guys smell different) is a turn off. And no matter how cute he is, almost any pair of boobs would get me more aroused. Boobs are just so nice.... The idea doesn't sicken me, but it doesn't please me either.
Something else I've found odd is that I've held certain romantic affections for a guy, always a close friend I think, without being able to associate it with sex. I've thought about kissing and cuddling, but once we're naked and sweaty, I'm completely out of it. For the most part though, I think that has something to do with my crushing need for affection built out of my social awkwardness early in life and projected onto my friends because they make me feel wanted. Basically the same thing happened when I made a pen pal in freshmen year. She made me feel good and I started to fall for her.
So I guess I'm... not terribly bi? Or mostly hetero. The question is of limited interest to me, since I'm already in a committed relationship. And I don't think she's into threesomes.
Well, the first time I saw an image of a naked, well-built and good-looking man, I had promptly crossed my legs and put my elbows into my crotch for concealment purposes. That was rather self-explanatory....
for the people saying that they are straight, there is no need to add "always have been" to that 
our society is vey much heterosexual, i think we all grow up straight until some realize that they are not.
heterosexuality is on display everywhere, it is the norm. when i got into my early teens and the girls started looking differently at boys and the boys started treating the girls differently, i did not understand what was going on. i did not see the boys in the way the other girls did and why were the boys suddenly treating me as something they did not understand when before i was always 'one of them'?
i was 12 when i realized i had a crush on a girl, and it made me feel sick. my family is not homophobic but i did grow up in a tiny village and had never been in contact with gay people. i was already a bit of an outsider because of my interests in music, games, etc. that i did not share with anyone. so that combined with a crush on a girl made me very unhappy. i went to high school in a big city where i made some dear friends who i felt comfortable around so i came to term with myself there. i accepted myself as bi when i was 15, mostly because i felt a bit too young to rule out the entire male population. a bit after i got together with my first girlfriend at 17 i accepted that i'm gay.
if i look back now, i realize that my first -lets call it fascination- was with my kindergarten teacher. therefore i think we can very well be born gay. i've been fascinated by female beauty for as long as i can remember and i have always seen guys as nothing more than friends. and i grew up without any type of exposure to homosexuality except maybe queen on tv.
our society is vey much heterosexual, i think we all grow up straight until some realize that they are not. heterosexuality is on display everywhere, it is the norm. when i got into my early teens and the girls started looking differently at boys and the boys started treating the girls differently, i did not understand what was going on. i did not see the boys in the way the other girls did and why were the boys suddenly treating me as something they did not understand when before i was always 'one of them'?
i was 12 when i realized i had a crush on a girl, and it made me feel sick. my family is not homophobic but i did grow up in a tiny village and had never been in contact with gay people. i was already a bit of an outsider because of my interests in music, games, etc. that i did not share with anyone. so that combined with a crush on a girl made me very unhappy. i went to high school in a big city where i made some dear friends who i felt comfortable around so i came to term with myself there. i accepted myself as bi when i was 15, mostly because i felt a bit too young to rule out the entire male population. a bit after i got together with my first girlfriend at 17 i accepted that i'm gay.
if i look back now, i realize that my first -lets call it fascination- was with my kindergarten teacher. therefore i think we can very well be born gay. i've been fascinated by female beauty for as long as i can remember and i have always seen guys as nothing more than friends. and i grew up without any type of exposure to homosexuality except maybe queen on tv.
I've never understood why there's such a stigma regarding furries. It's not really my thing, but then, neither is hardcore S&M, but I don't hate on them. XDKlopy said:
I'm gay and have been since I was born, and most likely even before that. I began noticing when I was eleven or twelve, and by now (sixteen) I'm realizing that even as a little boy I was pretty damn gay. I was never interested in girls and remember often doing some really kinky stuff. In kindergarten one of my friends actually introduced me to something he called "humping" and despite not actually being able to do it (because five-year-olds aren't really able to be sexually active and all that) I was pretty obsessed with it.
MasterOfWorlds said:I'm a conservative, but thanks for playing. XDjawakiller said:I knew I was a heterosexual male since I was five years old in kidergarden. Kissed a girl I knew and thought, "dang, that was fun." From then on I was a womanizing, sex-loving male. Never found any attraction to other males. And no, I'm not in denial. At least I don't think I am... Damn you liberals, making me question my orientation.
haha, no dude. I meant (liberal) society in general likes to make one question ones own orientation using lines like "calling people gay means you have repressed sexuality" or "Those who deny finding attraction in the other members of their gender are actually suppressing their true feelings" n shit. Prolly should'v said that.
Well, I consider myself to be straight and it is obvious that I am.
Now in elementary, grades 1-6, I had two different girlfriends, but it really wasn't anything sexual, it was just the thing to do. People just paired up in classes and said they were boyfriend and girlfriend.
Though, when I got to junior high it was like a snap of the fingers. In 6th, elementary, I was like, girls are alright. Then after summer break and I went to the bigger town next door for junior high, I entered 7th and I was in deep. I definitely was having the funny feelings. I have a very imaginative mind, and fantasies in my head started right away.
There was this one girl that sat behind me in geography, I'd always gather my stuff up slowly so I would get to watch her walking away. It was insane how developed she was, I think looking at her is where my attraction to a fine ass came from. It was so round. She wasn't fat or skinny, but that back was just mind-boggling.
I don't know what it was though; I had no problem with getting girls to like me in elementary, but after I entered junior high, I couldn't get a girl to save my life. I'm was always the thoughtful friend(no real deep friendship) that they could count on if they needed a pen, pencil, or some paper, and to this day it is still that way. My attraction towards girls has made me shy. I have had some girls that were friends when I went through college, but I never felt any great attraction towards them.
While I do think their should be some great friendship, almost bestfriend kind of friendship between a guy and girl before they commit to a long term relationship but there also has to be a sexual spark.
The problem is it seems all the girls that want to be in long relationships are already in one, and what's left are the girls that are carefree and don't want to commit to anything.
Even though I feel it would be fun to have a short fling with a girl, deep down it isn't me. I guess I live too much for the future.
Now in elementary, grades 1-6, I had two different girlfriends, but it really wasn't anything sexual, it was just the thing to do. People just paired up in classes and said they were boyfriend and girlfriend.
Though, when I got to junior high it was like a snap of the fingers. In 6th, elementary, I was like, girls are alright. Then after summer break and I went to the bigger town next door for junior high, I entered 7th and I was in deep. I definitely was having the funny feelings. I have a very imaginative mind, and fantasies in my head started right away.
There was this one girl that sat behind me in geography, I'd always gather my stuff up slowly so I would get to watch her walking away. It was insane how developed she was, I think looking at her is where my attraction to a fine ass came from. It was so round. She wasn't fat or skinny, but that back was just mind-boggling.
I don't know what it was though; I had no problem with getting girls to like me in elementary, but after I entered junior high, I couldn't get a girl to save my life. I'm was always the thoughtful friend(no real deep friendship) that they could count on if they needed a pen, pencil, or some paper, and to this day it is still that way. My attraction towards girls has made me shy. I have had some girls that were friends when I went through college, but I never felt any great attraction towards them.
While I do think their should be some great friendship, almost bestfriend kind of friendship between a guy and girl before they commit to a long term relationship but there also has to be a sexual spark.
The problem is it seems all the girls that want to be in long relationships are already in one, and what's left are the girls that are carefree and don't want to commit to anything.
Even though I feel it would be fun to have a short fling with a girl, deep down it isn't me. I guess I live too much for the future.
I'm bisexual-leaning heavily towards men, which means that I find women attractive, but I can become emotionally attached to a man easier, and don't really have an interest in pursuing a relationship with women.
I'm not sure when I realized I was into guys. The earliest I can remember is playing 'nude' games with my friend and for some reason a dinosaur book (don't ask, I have no idea.)
I've never been truly into women, and I guess I don't know when I realized I wasn't straight because of a mix of not learning about homosexuality until I was older and thinking that I was stuck in the kids mindset of girls (cooties and the like.)
I'm not sure when I realized I was into guys. The earliest I can remember is playing 'nude' games with my friend and for some reason a dinosaur book (don't ask, I have no idea.)
I've never been truly into women, and I guess I don't know when I realized I wasn't straight because of a mix of not learning about homosexuality until I was older and thinking that I was stuck in the kids mindset of girls (cooties and the like.)