Question about sexuality.

[Unesh52]

Near enough 20 take 9 days...

No offense, but I find that absolutely baffling. I was masturbating before I could get an erection big enough to grip it properly (it's kind of a long story). Sex -- whether or not I should have it, who I should have it with, how I should do it, etc. -- has been one of the most interesting parts of myself I've looked into in my whole life. Now, I can see how it would be less important to others. I might even go so far as to say I have an unusually large interest in my sexuality. But I can't fathom how someone could never want to explore those feelings in nearly a decade of being able to!

Fascinating.

 

[guntotingtomcat]

Meh.

I only had sex rather late in life.

Turns out that wanking has little to do with actual sexuality.
For me anyway.

Seriously, who would have thought that personality actually matters?

So, yeah, current girlfriend kinda made me straight.

 

[Rewdalf]

Now, don't hate me for this, but I've noticed that stating that you're bisexual is some sort of new fad...
Sure, some people are bisexual, but the majority of people who feel the need to state their sexuality usually side with bi, stating that "they don't care either way".
Really now? That many people "don't care"?
Well I do care. I'm a straight male, and am a bit sad that our numbers seem to be dwindling. I don't have a problem with other people's choices, but it's starting to become unavoidable, and I have to say it isn't the most comfortable subject to have brought up on you on a daily basis...

 

[SuperUberBob]

Always straight, always will be.

I tend to judge people on what they do and say, and have been told I'm homophobic before, which I found pretty funny.

Pretty much this.

I don't know any biology behind sexuality. All I know is that I sucked on breasts when I was a baby and that I want to suck on some willing 20-something's titties now.

 

[SkyeNeko]

Asexual biromantic.

Sex just doesn't really appeal to me... I can't imagine actually doing it with anyone. Outside of that, I'm attracted to guys, but you can't tell me girls don't look absolutely hot.

I guess I only really named myself asexual last year, when I found out there was a term for it. Sex really hasn't appealed to me ever though.

 

[Zaik]

I am a heterosexual male who has had a number of homosexual and bisexual friends of both genders. As a former thespian I hung out with very promiscuous people and really never questioned my attraction to women. There were some times when I was in the Marine Corps when I actually questioned my sexuality but mostly due to the environment I was in as opposed to any real sexual confusion. (I.e. 3 month long boot camp with 74 other guys, no women and communal showers)

We had 2 4th Batallion platoons on our training schedule(Over at MCRDPI) once we hit 2nd phase, you DID NOT MISS ANYTHING. There might have been one or two that managed to retain some concept of a feminine form, but the rest were hideous.


Anyway, on topic, trial and error I guess. I dislike the company of women, but am not physically attracted to men. Still technically straight, I guess, though.

 

[feauxx]

Now, don't hate me for this, but I've noticed that stating that you're bisexual is some sort of new fad...
Sure, some people are bisexual, but the majority of people who feel the need to state their sexuality usually side with bi, stating that "they don't care either way".
Really now? That many people "don't care"?
Well I do care. I'm a straight male, and am a bit sad that our numbers seem to be dwindling. I don't have a problem with other people's choices, but it's starting to become unavoidable, and I have to say it isn't the most comfortable subject to have brought up on you on a daily basis...

your "numbers"?
like non-straight people are an opposing force or something. sounds a bit paranoid to me.

bi-sexuality is not defined as not caring, maybe have a quick look on wikipedia.

btw i think it's great people are so open on this forum

 

[Rewdalf]

Now, don't hate me for this, but I've noticed that stating that you're bisexual is some sort of new fad...
Sure, some people are bisexual, but the majority of people who feel the need to state their sexuality usually side with bi, stating that "they don't care either way".
Really now? That many people "don't care"?
Well I do care. I'm a straight male, and am a bit sad that our numbers seem to be dwindling. I don't have a problem with other people's choices, but it's starting to become unavoidable, and I have to say it isn't the most comfortable subject to have brought up on you on a daily basis...

your "numbers"?
like non-straight people are an opposing force or something. sounds a bit paranoid to me.

bi-sexuality is not defined as not caring, maybe have a quick look on wikipedia.

That's the thing though. Those who state that they're bisexual and then immediatly after say "I don't care if you're a guy or girl" don't seem like they mean it...
It just seems like they're trying to fit in with todays trends, since a lot of people are getting more confident with their sexual preference...
It bothers me.

 

[ShaqLevick]

Well, once upon a time I kissed a girl and got a boner, and the rest as they say is history. I do imagine our old divining rod between the knees has been pointing men in the right direction for ages.

 

[RountreeUSMC]

I am a heterosexual male who has had a number of homosexual and bisexual friends of both genders. As a former thespian I hung out with very promiscuous people and really never questioned my attraction to women. There were some times when I was in the Marine Corps when I actually questioned my sexuality but mostly due to the environment I was in as opposed to any real sexual confusion. (I.e. 3 month long boot camp with 74 other guys, no women and communal showers)

We had 2 4th Batallion platoons on our training schedule(Over at MCRDPI) once we hit 2nd phase, you DID NOT MISS ANYTHING. There might have been one or two that managed to retain some concept of a feminine form, but the rest were hideous.


Anyway, on topic, trial and error I guess. I dislike the company of women, but am not physically attracted to men. Still technically straight, I guess, though.

Yeah, I was 1st Battalion Delta Company at MCRDPI. One of my favorite memories is when our DI told the platoon that the female Marines were recruits that had the same training schedules and hygiene time we had. If you never heard 74 guys retch in unison it is quite the experience.

 

[Dr. Pepper Unlimited]

Bisexual - Have known for a pretty short amount of time. I'd say, less than two years now? I'd have never have known it and I figured it out in an odd manor.

 

[feauxx]

Now, don't hate me for this, but I've noticed that stating that you're bisexual is some sort of new fad...
Sure, some people are bisexual, but the majority of people who feel the need to state their sexuality usually side with bi, stating that "they don't care either way".
Really now? That many people "don't care"?
Well I do care. I'm a straight male, and am a bit sad that our numbers seem to be dwindling. I don't have a problem with other people's choices, but it's starting to become unavoidable, and I have to say it isn't the most comfortable subject to have brought up on you on a daily basis...

your "numbers"?
like non-straight people are an opposing force or something. sounds a bit paranoid to me.

bi-sexuality is not defined as not caring, maybe have a quick look on wikipedia.

That's the thing though. Those who state that they're bisexual and then immediatly after say "I don't care if you're a guy or girl" don't seem like they mean it...
It just seems like they're trying to fit in with todays trends, since a lot of people are getting more confident with their sexual preference...
It bothers me.

so i take it you find sexuality important? i would like to know why and how it can bother you just like the OP asked.

btw i think bi-curiosity has been tending for a long time now (i kissed a girl) but that is not a sexuality.

 

[Vivace-Vivian]

I'm Pansexual. No, don't wiki it. It means I love the person, not the gender. Essentially the difference between me and a Bisexual person is that I will go out with transgendered people.

Here's the thing, I didn't know it was weird to like girls until someone told me it was. So I'd have to say I've always been a flaming Pan.

 

[Sonic Doctor]

I've never understood why there's such a stigma regarding furries. It's not really my thing, but then, neither is hardcore S&M, but I don't hate on them. XD

It is because furries are outside what is considered normal sexual behavior. I'm not into it but it isn't wrong, everybody has some kind of sexual kink that they get their jollies off to, they might not admit it but they do.

With furries, what's so different from bondage or the hundreds of other kinks I have heard of. People can get off to anything, I could just spout some random idea or object, and someones going to be thinking, "oh yeah".

I'll admit that I'm a follower of three fetish areas, though I'm not going to say what they are. For me they are closely related and intertwine. They level themselves out, in one the girl dominates over me, the other I'm dominate, and the third I or the girl can be dominate. Oh, and bondage is quite tame compared to my three. They aren't fair water things, girls will either think they are cute and naughty, or run away screaming.

C - S(Mac) - V

That's as far as I will go with my line of thought, the triple hint is all I will give.

 

[Rewdalf]

Now, don't hate me for this, but I've noticed that stating that you're bisexual is some sort of new fad...
Sure, some people are bisexual, but the majority of people who feel the need to state their sexuality usually side with bi, stating that "they don't care either way".
Really now? That many people "don't care"?
Well I do care. I'm a straight male, and am a bit sad that our numbers seem to be dwindling. I don't have a problem with other people's choices, but it's starting to become unavoidable, and I have to say it isn't the most comfortable subject to have brought up on you on a daily basis...

your "numbers"?
like non-straight people are an opposing force or something. sounds a bit paranoid to me.

bi-sexuality is not defined as not caring, maybe have a quick look on wikipedia.

That's the thing though. Those who state that they're bisexual and then immediatly after say "I don't care if you're a guy or girl" don't seem like they mean it...
It just seems like they're trying to fit in with todays trends, since a lot of people are getting more confident with their sexual preference...
It bothers me.

so i take it you find sexuality important? i would like to know why and how it can bother you just like the OP asked.

btw i think bi-curiosity has been tending for a long time now (i kissed a girl) but that is not a sexuality.

I get annoyed by many things.
I'll admit I'm a bit homophobic, but I know two or three people who are homo and bisexual and I've no problem with it.
Same applies to people who dress differently because of a current trend.
I wear hats like this

Recently, I've noticed other people doing the same.
I do it because I think they look good on me, and I accompany the look with a sports jacket or nice shirt.
When I see someone doing it just for the sake of doing it, it annoys me. I can't and shouldn't do anything about it, because they can do what they want, but it still annoys me. I don't control what annoys me, it just happens...
And seeing someone with their pants hanging loose, or wearing some dirty stained shirt, clearly not dressing themselves nicely, trying to pull off a hat of my caliber just gets under my skin... (For the record, I don't think that highly of myself)
I'm also fully aware that other people have their own opinions of me.
"Oh, what have you got against bisexuals? You should like them." That's my preference. I don't hate 'em, but since I don't understand the way their minds work I can't like 'em either...
Same applies with my choice of attire. Some people think my hats make me look stupid. Well, that's their problem, as my preferences are my problems.
Just trying to make everyone understand the workings of my mind, although nobody can truly understand someone else. You don't know how other people think, and what goes through their minds. They could work very similarly to yours, or they could be completely different...
If I sound like a jackass then I apologize... I'm not trying to.

 

[shedra]

From a very young age, I have always been physically affectionate to other boys. For some reason, it didn't occur to me that that was gay. Even that may be a learned behavior as I had oral sex performed on me by another male when I was a tiny lad. He was just as tiny, so I wasn't raped or anything like that. I've only been using the word "gay" to describe myself since I was sixteen.
Romantically speaking however, I only had crushes on women and girls. It's unclear to me whether or not those were forced from outside influence or if they came naturally. As far as dating goes, I've had pretty limited experience in that field. Maybe in practice I'm not all that gay.

Does sexuality even matter?
We have 7 billion humans on this planet approximately. So there is evidently no shortage of heterosexuals/male heterosexual rapists.

 

[spartan1077]

I'm bisexual. Back in grade three, I woke up one day and thought, I'm gay. Then, three years later I woke up one day and thought, girls are attractive too. So I compromised with myself. That's it...I don't think you can really not know or have to 'go searching for the answer' because you just know. Or at least I do.

 

[ethaninja]

I think everyone has a little bit of homosexuality in them. Me I'm a full time hetero. I have a mate who likes to act gay for some reason, can somebody clue me in as to why one would do such a thing?

 

[kikon9]

I'm bi. Admittedly, I was repressed about it for a few years. I had dream, upon dream, upon dream, all with same gender subject matter I would be ashamed for having. I would tell myself every day, "You're straight. You're straight. You're straight!" This was, of course, until recently, when I admitted it to myself, and recognized that I was. I've been much better since then.