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ImpofthePerverse

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As I said in the sexuality thread I consider myself Bi even though I've never had a sexual encounter with a man.

I just don't see the point in limiting myself to one set of experiences for the rest of my life, I'm old enough to have come to grips with my sexual identity, but I only use the term Bi in order for other people to understand. I'm not sure if it's the word I want to use, but it's the best one available to me.

I can't really see the point in lying on a forum, nobody's coming across as cooler because they claim to be "Bi" or "Gay" or "Pansexual". Even if that were true who honestly on here gives a crap about another posters sexuality wither they were telling the truth or not.
 
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I can't actually remember just like I don't remember the time it took me to grow pubic hair, I started watching porn when i was about 11, I don't think there was any one point much like I don't remember the point I discovered that certain foods taste better to me than other foods, I think it was always the case.

Now "Does sexuality really matter?" seems vague to me, I think most people do care.
I like food but i'm not going to marry and grow old with chocolate so it's more than just a preference it's a bigger part of life than that.
 
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Hmm... not sure. Guess you could say all my life. :/

I've always known it really. :/

No, it doesn't. You love who you love. :p People don't like it? Tough titties. :p
 
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Hm. Something I didn't see anyone admit to here yet is being genderqueer. Something I have been as long as I can remember. I can't say I care too much for Wikipedia's examples of it, just because the definition is so broad for my taste, so I'll be specific about myself:

I am a married woman, therefore, considered 'straight' by the rest of 'normal' society.

That's the surface stuff. I can rarely stand to be around other women, I have no female friends to speak of, I love men and frankly, eversince I was three, have always wanted to be one myself on the outside. Well, THAT never happened, and, at this stage in my life, never will. I've come to accept that, while I may physically be a woman; there is nothing wrong with me being a male emotionally/mentally. I have close male friends and my husband who know what I am like, and accept me for what I am (fucked up jaded misanthrope) and thats enough to make me happy.
 
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I'm a lesbian but I didn't even think about my sexuality until I was like thirteen. You know, old enough to experience and understand sexual attraction. I guess in hindsight I was always really tomboyish and at my all girl's school as a little kid I would always be the boy or pretend to be the boyfriend when we were kidding around. So yeah until I was like twelve or thirteen I didn't have any concept of sexuality, even though I knew what being gay or being a lesbian was. I just assumed I would grow up and marry a guy because that's what society says is normal. Cue my surprise when every crush/attraction I ever had was towards girls.

Other LGBT people usually tell me they knew on some level they were gay from a really young age. In my case everyone else knew, but I guess because I always got along so well with everyone I never felt different or like there was anything different about me...
 
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Illesdan said:
Hm. Something I didn't see anyone admit to here yet is being genderqueer. Something I have been as long as I can remember. I can't say I care too much for Wikipedia's examples of it, just because the definition is so broad for my taste, so I'll be specific about myself:

I am a married woman, therefore, considered 'straight' by the rest of 'normal' society.

That's the surface stuff. I can rarely stand to be around other women, I have no female friends to speak of, I love men and frankly, eversince I was three, have always wanted to be one myself on the outside. Well, THAT never happened, and, at this stage in my life, never will. I've come to accept that, while I may physically be a woman; there is nothing wrong with me being a male emotionally/mentally. I have close male friends and my husband who know what I am like, and accept me for what I am (fucked up jaded misanthrope) and thats enough to make me happy.
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I'm actually fairly certain that my second gf was also genderqueer. She has issues with women, refuses to even consider having children, and will do anything to stop that from happening as long as it doesn't impede on her ability to fuck like a bunny. She had a mentallity somewhat similar to yours about the whole thing, only she was a nymphomaniac, bipolar, and schizophrenic. If you meet one or more of those, I'm sorry. XD
 
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I'd say I'm bi,since my very limited experience with sex (i.e 2 times and one may have not really happened) has been with menot I do find women very attractive as well. I kinda of realized it around the time I was lets say 12-14(I'm terrible at remembering when events happen) and more recently have settled into it,so to speak, as I've moved away for collage/got a job and felt like I had a little more freedom.My family doesn't know and I think it's better that way.

As with everything else,as long as your not a douche I could care less about your sexual orientation.
 
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UncleUlty said:
I'd say I'm bi,since my very limited experience with sex (i.e 2 times and one may have not really happened) has been with menot I do find women very attractive as well. I kinda of realized it around the time I was lets say 12-14(I'm terrible at remembering when events happen) and more recently have settled into it,so to speak, as I've moved away for collage/got a job and felt like I had a little more freedom.My family doesn't know and I think it's better that way.

As with everything else,as long as your not a douche I could care less about your sexual orientation.
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I'm sorry, but... one may not have happened? Could you explain that? If it's too personal, that's fine, but it made me wonder what went on. XD
 
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MasterOfWorlds said:
UncleUlty said:
I'd say I'm bi,since my very limited experience with sex (i.e 2 times and one may have not really happened) has been with menot I do find women very attractive as well. I kinda of realized it around the time I was lets say 12-14(I'm terrible at remembering when events happen) and more recently have settled into it,so to speak, as I've moved away for collage/got a job and felt like I had a little more freedom.My family doesn't know and I think it's better that way.

As with everything else,as long as your not a douche I could care less about your sexual orientation.
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I'm sorry, but... one may not have happened? Could you explain that? If it's too personal, that's fine, but it made me wonder what went on. XD
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It's fine, It was right around the I was 12-14 at a church camp and the way the whole experience played out makes me think the whole thing may have been a dream.I can't really convince my self to believe if it was real or not. We agreed not to talk about it since I ended up climaxing and was somewhat embarrassed.
 
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UncleUlty said:
It's fine, It was right around the I was 12-14 at a church camp and the way the whole experience played out makes me think the whole thing may have been a dream.I can't really convince my self to believe if it was real or not. We agreed not to talk about it since I ended up climaxing and was somewhat embarrassed.
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It's all good. I wasn't trying to make anyone uncomfortable. I hope that I didn't make you uncomfortable by asking for you to elaborate.
 
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20 year old male that is unsure what to call himself. Most likely answer is bisexual.

Thing is i have two different answers. If you would ask me which sex I'm attracted to when it comes to sex appeal and desire to have sex with, most likely female. But when asked for the perfect person for a relationship? All I can think of is males. I usually start to feel attracted to people I've already known for a very long time and grown close to but I always get this feeling with my male friends. Never with my female friends.

This started when I was around 18 years old. I spent a lot of time with a very good friend of mine. He was most certainly my best friend at the time and I knew I could trust him with my life if necessary. We were as close as friends could get. Then I noticed that I wanted to be more than friends with him. I wanted to be with him as much as possible and be even closer, physically. I started to feel a romantic and sexual attraction to him and even had frequent dreams of being together and doing the naughty. After a while I just had to talk to him about my feelings and my dreams so I told him everything.

Today, well I want a relationship with another man, but I'm having trouble meeting potential partners. Mostly cowardice and the fact that my town has no gay bars.
 
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MasterOfWorlds said:
UncleUlty said:
It's fine, It was right around the I was 12-14 at a church camp and the way the whole experience played out makes me think the whole thing may have been a dream.I can't really convince my self to believe if it was real or not. We agreed not to talk about it since I ended up climaxing and was somewhat embarrassed.
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It's all good. I wasn't trying to make anyone uncomfortable. I hope that I didn't make you uncomfortable by asking for you to elaborate.
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It's fine ,It feels good to get it off my chest sometimes.
 
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As a straight male, my policy on sexuality is, "It dosen't matter to me what your sexuality is, but like any sexuality, don't flaunt it in public"
 
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