I just turned 20 on Friday and came to the realization that the reason I find it hard to make friends is because I just don't enjoy the same things most people my age are expected to enjoy. I dislike drinking, I loathe clubbing (albeit I've only been to a club once and it was horrible experience), and partying never was my thing. When I have friends telling me about how shitfaced they got or how they and their friends spent a night kneeling over a toilet puking from drinking to much, I just think... Wow... You people actually consider this to be fun? I understand people find different activities fun, but when people talk about how their "best nights ever" usually involve drinking so much of a toxic substance that their body has to forcibly eject some of it out of them in order to protect itself, I just... Gah.
I realized this because when I asked co-workers and some of my semi-close friends what they think we should do on my birthday, they'd all suggest going to a bar, pub or club, meanwhile, here's poor little naive me thinking laser tag and bowling would be awesome. Aaaand they just laughed and told me I need to grow up... Sigh...