Relationship Dilemma - FINAL UPDATE. IF YOU POSTED HERE BEFORE, PLEASE VIEW MY LATEST POST

[BaldursBananaSoap]

http://www.armchairadvice.co.uk/relationships/

 

[hazabaza1]

What should I do?

Move on. This isn't going to work.

This. Mixed relationships can work, but not when she's gone all redneck style on you.

 

[yoyo13rom]

Let me get this straight, you've met someone who in all honesty is practically the perfect girl anyone can imagine, in the eyes of the beholder at least, and yet because of religious orientation, you find yourself in a spiritual connundrum thats sending you spiraling with such conflicting emotions?

Or in otherwords, your freaked out because shes a believer in God.

If you have a problem with religious orientation your going to have a very tough time my friend, a VERY tough time.

From what I read when my own girlfriend showed me this, this girl seems like a pretty decent girl to have as a friend or more, hell, my best friend seems like her exact duplicate, to the point where I'd literally give anything for her, as I would all of the people I cherish in my life, shes strictly athiest though, due to her past, which I don't feeling like divulging, to the point shes pretty insulting to the christians, but I accept her for that, and by all accounts you should accept this girl for her believes.

You owe her that much, everyone does. She'd accept yours.
At least I should hope so...

See! See! Acceptance the shit I was trying to talk about but with less success.

OT: Ok if I post any other random thing just so I can have an excuse not to do my homework I'm banning myself. (btw is that even possible?)

 

[cartzo]

it's a tough one dude, you could try it, charles darwin managed to get by with a deeply christian wife, and my last girlfriend was catholic. i say go for it. UNLESS she takes genesis literally, in which case stear well clear.

 

[Treefingers]

Get over yourself. Accept her as is. Try to sort out your differences.

It may or may not work out in the end, but it's worth going for.

 

[Daveman]

You should really avoid her. You're not going to really get on if you have totally opposing ideas.

 

[SantoUno]

You should probably give it more time then, if its true that you told your beliefs and regrets talking about hers, seems likme she will accept you, so MAYBE you can return the favor and accept her. You never know until you try. EVen if it doesn't work out, at least you gave it a shot.

 

[Julianking93]

Thanks for the responses everyone. I put up a new update so please read it.

 

[Legion]

Thanks for the responses everyone. I put up a new update so please read it.

Ouch.

I can't really say what you should do, but in that situation I'd personally tell her she is starting to show signs of a stalker (jokingly, to see how she reacts) if she flies off the wall then tell her point proven and cut all ties.

 

[Julianking93]

Marry her and live like its a hilarious sit-com.

yea that would be great
Jullis:Honey im home....Honey?(finds note in kitchen)
at klux klux clan(i mean no offence) metting order out BUT NO CHINESE
JULLISh her (laugh) roll credits
hmm what would call it

It's late but I give it a few shots:
FUNDAMENTAL - the title being like that, FUN appearing first, then MENTAL with DA droping between, before becoming the full title FUNDAMENTAL

House of Gosh - Playing on the above mentioned use of gosh.

Gospel of Julian

Puns might work:
Methodist in their madness
2 and 1/2 Mormons


I've got nothing, I like the first.

You guys are funny...

 

[Nepeccel]

Julian, I have just read your update and my last comment still stands. Go out with her for a while (she's your dream girl right?) and have a good time. But answer me this one question, are you looking for a girlfriend or a future wife? If the answer is the former, then go out with her, she may be bonkers but that's better than being normal! If you want to find your future life partner then this girl may not be for you.

 

[dark_taint92]

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dump that physco now, no one person should habe the right to ask you where your going like that. she might know your name,face things like that but when youve finished her you can easily avoid her. its simple

 

[Julianking93]

Julian, I have just read your update and my last comment still stands. Go out with her for a while (she's your dream girl right?) and have a good time. But answer me this one question, are you looking for a girlfriend or a future wife? If the answer is the former, then go out with her, she may be bonkers but that's better than being normal! If you want to find your future life partner then this girl may not be for you.

Seeing as I don't believe in marriage, girlfriend. I'm not looking for the absolute perfect girl, but someone to at least go out with for awhile. But I can tell, its not going to be her.

 

[Macgyvercas]

Thanks to everyone for your helpful responses. I put the original post in Spoilers for people who haven't read this yet who might be able to help.

[spoiler/]Snippy snip snip[/spoiler]

Now, UPDATE - I'm freaking the fuck out right now. I thought I just might be able to make this work out between us despite our differences, yet something just happened that makes me want to drop her from my life completely. Note, that I've only been in one relationship before and that this may be normal but I honestly don't think it is.

This girl is batshit crazy over me.

I never thought it would be possible. After all my wishing for a girl to love me and for me to love, I get the craziest one of all.

Last night, I was at my father's house. Its in an isolated area outside of town and I don't get any cell phone service. No big deal, but when I came back this morning, my phone got 6, count them, 6 text messages, 4 missed phone calls and 1 message from, you guessed it, this girl.

This may be normal to an extent, but not for me. I was only out of contact with her for 13 hours, yet she's got messages everywhere asking where I am.

I even have Yahoo Messenger, AIM and iMac chat, and all of those are riddled with messages from her asking where I am and why I haven't called her. She's fucking nuts.

Now I [i/]really[/i] don't know what to do. We live in the same town. She knows my name. She knows my face. And she's completely bonkers over me and I never felt the same about her.

What do I do?

Dude, I thought this one could work for you, but after hearing this, I only have one thing to say...You're screwed. Get the fuck out now while you still can.

 

[jonnosferatu]

Frankly, the stuff in the most recent update reminds me far too strongly of me back when I was really, really creepy and obsessive. Whether or not it necessarily represents something bad isn't something I'd be able to know, but chances are that the polar opposite views are going to get messy and...well, I've been in similar situations with other differences and feel better for having accepted that it wasn't a good idea.

 

[Woodsey]

Tell her to fuck off?

 

[El Poncho]

You do the naughty or you know tell her you don't like her and you get a stalker, orrr you tolerate her for a few weeks, she may end up hating you.

 

[Captain Pancake]

Sounds religious nutty to me. If you don't like her, tell her firmly that you're not interested.

Oh, and this scared the shit out of me, because I got a text right when I was reading your update...

 

[recoverytwo]

She is a pants on head retard.