Well let's drop it then.Mother Yeti said:snippppppppppp
In short, I think you are making mountains out of mole hills.
But, maybe you are right. Maybe it comes down to the fact that Bioware don't want their character, the perfect hero of the universe, the macho commander Shepherd being a gay dude. The mainstream media and the mainstream gay rights movement kind of imprints gayness as pretty much the opposite of being a huge badass space marine and killing thousands of people.
However, they are happy having their perfect female commander Shepherd being a little bi-sexual flirt. Because that's hot.
It's a sad world we live in.