I don't shave/wax/epilate/nuke my ladyparts except to keep everything neat and tidy. I don't want to look like a grizzly bear down there after all, so it's usually a quick trim instead. I don't really mind seeing other ladyparts that are hairless or hairy but I do actively dislike out of control pubes. I consider it part of your appearance and whilst the vast majority of people aren't going to get a glimpse down there, you should still take some time to keep things in order. I imagine other women find men with scruffy, unkempt facial hair to be unattractive. Muff is like a woman's beard to me I guess.
I doubt I would go totally hairless down there, I don't consider pornstars or nude models to be personal style icons of mine. Plus it seems ridiculous to go to all that trouble, expense and pain (in the case of waxing).