She's Back. Please help...

[OmniDesol]

If you give it a try, and it doesn't work out, what's the worse that could happen?

Besides her going all crazy-stalker on you, and from you original thread, that could be a possibility, but if she didn't do that after you broke up with her the first time, you should probably go for it.

 

[zidine100]

well im a nice and guilable guy so i say why the hell not....

but more than likely its a trap.

 

[rex922]

Do you want to give her another chance? Our opinions are going to be a mix of yes and no, so it's all going to boil down to your opinion anyways. What do youthink?

I agree with this ultimately its what you think not what we think.

OT: give her a chance what have you got to lose

 

[Assassin Xaero]

Everyone deserves a second chance, right? And if she's still crazy, well, then you know for sure now...

 

[scorch 13]

Spoiler: Probably the wrong answer

I'd totally fill the void left by Jesus's departure.

Repeatedly.

Same here

 

[Brad Shepard]

Everyone needs a 2nd chance, (I am a christian, but i have a lot of different views then most of... well, as you put it, Jesus freaks.) heres the main question, do you still like her?

 

[awsome117]

Better to have love then lost, then never have loved at all.

Basically, take a chance, see what happens. If she's still crazy, you can always dump (for lack of a nicer word) her.

 

[Chancie]

Reading your other thread, she sounds a little insecure or possessive with the constant messaging part. Personally, I'd leave her behind you and go on. Even though you have feelings for her, people don't change drastically in the span of a month. She'll go back to being her old self.
There's no sense in getting your heart involved to have it broken again. Hers too.

 

[L3m0n_L1m3]

There's a difference between a person saying they've "changed" and them actually changing.

Go for it, but be cautious for a bit. Not paranoid, but wary.

 

[ElephantGuts]

Whoa, wait a second. I never saw the original thread, and I'll go check it out in a minute, but let me get this straight.

You met a girl, on Omegle, who turned out to be an actual girl, and you hooked up with her? That actually worked?

Sure she seems to be crazy, but that's to be expected. It's unbelievable enough that you got that far, the chances of you finding an actual normal girl to get into a normal relationship with were just about zero.

 

[Asturiel]

Hmmmm, well people do deserve second chances, keep your connection thin though and just do simple things that wont have you falling over the familar chasm. Know what im sayin?

Edit Read your first thread Disregard previous information, she's obsessive and thats likely not going to change. Perhaps keep it to a light friendship until your absolutely positive she isnt like that anymore.

 

[Booze Zombie]

Maybe she loves you more than she loves religion?

I couldn't say for sure, but it wouldn't hurt you to give it a go, just be careful.

 

[TheLastCylon]

Well, as a rule, meeting people on Omegle is generally a bad idea.

But anyways, it just seems kind of weird that she would change could change her personality just like that. Proceed with caution, my friend.

 

[Zombus]

Spoiler: Probably the wrong answer

I'd totally fill the void left by Jesus's departure.

Repeatedly.

/agree

 

[RagnorakTres]

crazy Jesus freak.

OK, are we talking like "Jesus Camp" levels of Jesus freak, or more normal levels of Christian devotion that scared you off because (I assume) you're an atheist? (Please note, I was raised in an extremely liberal home going to a fairly tolerant Protestant church and I've turned out agnostic. This is in no way meant to be an attack on your beliefs.)

If you're talking "Jesus Camp" levels...I don't know how else to tell you this, but you just don't get rid of that kind of stuff. It lingers, like cocaine. If so, even if she's doing her damnedest to suppress those thoughts, they will exist at an underlying level. It's close to brain-washing, what extremely "conservative" parents do to their children.../shudder

If it's slightly less than that, more she was just never really exposed to the other ends of the argument, then contact with you may have been enough to crystallize some doubts about her upbringing in her mind. Don't expect her to outright reject her beliefs, but I think you could expect at least a more open mind.

All I can say is talk to her. Talking to the other party is always the best solution, especially face-to-face communication. I've seen my friends mess up more relationships by not talking to their opposite number than I've seen miles of glacially-formed plain.

I live in Midwestern Ohio, just south and west of Lake Erie.

 

[Hollock]

give her a chance.

 

[Fwee]

I'd probably just meet for lunch, maybe a little walk in the park or mall or whateverthehell you kids do, but make the terms clear: THIS A TRIAL BASIS! YOU GO CRAZY I GO OUT THE DOOR or gate to the park or whateverthehell you diks do.
Note: I misspelled kids the second time but thought it was funny.

 

[Mcupobob]

Bail out, shes crazy. Who knows what other things she would do just to trap you into a relationship. I'm guess thats all she wants too is too emotionaly leach off you. I've seen women like that avoid them. If your really do like her though you should give her just one more chance. I warn you though someone who says she wants to change her intire personlity and belifs just to be with you does not sound like love, its just to find someone anyone nice. Probaly has daddy issues too.

Note- sorry about any spelling mistakes.

 

[ElephantGuts]

Whoa, wait a second. I never saw the original thread, and I'll go check it out in a minute, but let me get this straight.

You met a girl, on Omegle, who turned out to be an actual girl, and you hooked up with her? That actually worked?

Sure she seems to be crazy, but that's to be expected. It's unbelievable enough that you got that far, the chances of you finding an actual normal girl to get into a normal relationship with were just about zero.

Okay, I looked at the other thread. Thanks for summing it all up in the OP. Well, this is really almost unbelievable. Meeting a perfect-seeming girl on the internet (and Omegle of all places), who turns out to be a psychotic freak? It's like something out of a movie; it doesn't seem real.

Anyway. It's a shame that happened, since a "bible thumping, Obama hating, gay bashing, Evangelical Christian" is pretty much the exact description of the last type of person I would ever want to be in a relationship with. The fact that she was like that highly suggests she is crazy, and her more recent actions (renouncing all that and seeming obsessed over you)go even further to suggest she is indeed insane.

However, I say go for it. She might truly have realized her mistakes and changed her ways, or maybe not. And she might be crazy, but then again who isn't? It's worth a shot at least; if it doesn't work out you've got plenty of time to keep trying. Why let a potential opportunity go to waste?

If I may ask, though: Exactly how far along in your relationship did you get with her before things went to shit? More out of curiosity than anything else, really.